People can talk, it is an instinct,
Learning to speak is a skill.
Keep your mouth shut and don't make mistakes, and your words are easy to cause trouble,
In interpersonal communication,
To grasp the measure of speech,
Know how to be silent at the right time.
Evil comes out of the mouth, and sickness comes out of the mouth,
Something to say,
Not only hurt feelings offend people,
It will also cause trouble for itself.
So be human,
A lot of things are just clear in your heart,
It is better to be silent than to be broken,
It's better to be speechless than to say much.
1, when you don't understand, don't say
Be a person, don't pretend to understand,
So-called:
The tree is a big move, and more words will be lost.
Faced with skills that you are not good at,
Encounter a truth that you don't understand,
Encounter things that you don't know,
Don't make statements lightly,
Don't talk about it and slander it maliciously.
When you don't understand, don't say it and keep silent.
Don't say it, don't say it, learn to shut up.
Otherwise, it will only expose your own ignorance,
Become a joke after dinner for others.
Keep your heart, keep your mouth shut,
It can not only correct the character, but also stay away from right and wrong.
2, when you understand, say less
Some words are not suitable for thoroughness,
Suitable for concealment and ingestion only.
Knowing in the heart, without words,
See through and don't say, see through and don't reveal,
This is what the true wise do.
In the face of what you know,
Say as little as possible in front of people.
More words, not less,
After all, the speaker has no intention, and the listener intends,
Invisibly heard by those who have a heart,
Bring yourself trouble.
Knowing without saying, without saying much,
It is the best way to deal with the world.
3, when crazy, talk less
There is rain in the sky, and there is misfortune in the madness of man,
Arrogant and low-key beneficiaries.
Truly strong,
Never high-profile arrogance,
Always keep a humble and low profile,
Prove it with strength,
Rather than relying on language to show off.
Ripe ears of wheat, always bowed,
Unripe ears of wheat, heads held high.
High-profile and arrogant people, sooner or later,
Pay the price for your wild words.
Only keep a low profile and talk less wildly,
In order to stand more steadily and go further.
4, when angry, do not say
When people are emotionally unstable and extremely angry,
Often speak without words, and speak angrily,
It hurts other people's hearts and destroys feelings.
Once you calm down, regret is useless,
The scar left behind is a lifetime,
Doing the wrong thing is hard to make up.
The mouth is a wounding axe, and the tongue is a murderous knife,
When people are angry,
Don't be too quick to talk,
Say something excessive.
Stay calm, learn to shut up,
Dispel anger with silence,
Taking into account the mood and face of others,
It is also to leave yourself a way back and room.
behave
Can talk, not scream,
Talking less is what you can do.
A wise man,
Not only do you know how to observe words and colors,
Know better to shut up and be silent.
Know what you can say,
Understand what not to say,
Never in words,
Do something wrong and offend people.
For the rest of our lives, may we all keep our mouths shut,
I'd rather be speechless than say much,
I'd rather be silent than say wrong!
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