The melancholy look in my niece's eyes - stabbed me in the heartache

Yesterday, my cousin and his wife came to see us. My husband prepared a table of home-cooked vegetarian dishes and invited the younger brother and his wife to dine together. During the banquet, the music is harmonious. Cousin said; "The dishes made by the eldest brother are delicious, and the steamed steamed

My cousin is in an important position, but he doesn't smoke or drink, and the couple loves photography. This morning I took a morning shoot of apricot blossoms in Taoyuan Village, Kunming District. After lunch, we rested under the big almond trees, the apricot blossoms were in full bloom, and the little bees were buzzing and busy collecting honey. My cousin-in-law took many close-ups for us. After I went back, my cousin also made a music video of "Brothers Together in Spring" and sent it to us.

At that time, we sat under the big apricot tree to rest and pull home, during the conversation, my sister-in-law showed me a recent photo of my niece of my third brother's family, only glanced at it, my heart tightened, as if at minus thirty or forty degrees, the feeling of touching the iron door with my hands was extremely uncomfortable-----, and I couldn't bear to look at it again! My poor niece, your melancholy eyes have pierced my heart so much!

Thirty years ago, my husband's third brother went to the sea from the county material bureau to do business, and the couple worked together, and the company flourished and became better and better. But people have money, selfish desires have swelled, and the company has gone bankrupt and in debt, which later led to the divorce of the couple and the imprisonment of the third brother. We, the eldest brother and sister-in-law, wiped his ass and cleaned up the mess; handled the lawsuit, wandered around the law firm and the court---- and became the family of the criminal, but fortunately the result was only 3 years sentenced.

My father-in-law has been straight and strong all his life, he can't withstand the blow of his son's divorce and imprisonment, he has depression, he is looking for death and work at home, and he is restless. Because I am the eldest daughter-in-law and a cadre in the field of education, my father-in-law listened to my advice and relieved the family crisis and survived the difficulties! The mother-in-law cried dry tears and almost lost her sight, and later underwent two surgeries, and her eyes were still invisible.

At that time, our husband and wife had to work during the day, and at night they ran from the township to the county to deal with the mess, and they had to take care of our parents, which was enough to toss us for more than a year. Later, my husband also fell ill. It was a fire at the city gate. Hit the pond fish! ay! The past is hard to look back on! When I think about it, I can't stop crying. It was unspeakable pain, I had never told anyone else, and no one in the unit knew about it at the time.

The third brother got out of prison and remarried, did business again, and then became popular again. The father-in-law also lived for 20 more years (at that time, the mother-in-law said that I saved my father-in-law's life), and the father-in-law and mother-in-law accompanied him and enjoyed his old age in peace.

The third sister-in-law has never remarried and pulled her niece to adulthood alone. The niece married a good family, gave birth to a boy, and lived happily.

My cousin-in-law said that they now live close to my niece's family, and my niece's hobbies are very similar to her father's. I said, her eyes were melancholy. The sister-in-law said that it was the trauma of her lack of paternal love! Yeah, broken families, grumbling mothers, poor children-----

Poor niece, 20 years on, we have no more contact. However, 20 years ago, I did my best, although I was powerless to return to heaven and failed to save your family, but I minimized the loss of the family, and we took care of your grandparents for more than 20 years, so that they could enjoy their old age in peace. The family is still thriving.

Children, forget the misfortunes of childhood, fortunately you still have maternal love! Cherish the happiness of the present, live in the moment, take care of your mother, she is not easy!

Man, as a parent, with children, must not be selfish, husband and wife meet in advance for the sake of each other, for the sake of children, there will not be so many family tragedies! Childhood injuries will affect a child's life! --- hateful selfishness!

May the lovers of the world be happy and sweet; may the families of the world be harmonious and happy; may the children of the world grow up happily and happily!

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