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Moderate "lying", sometimes, is really important

author:The wings are climbable

Scientific research shows that lying is essential to our survival, and the most attractive among us may be the biggest liars.

Psychologists have also shown that for every three times a person opens his mouth, he lies once (three lies tested according to a 10-minute conversation record).

Moderate "lying", sometimes, is really important

Personally, I think that telling some insignificant little lies is beyond reproach, and even some white lies must be said, out of the need for emotional protection of others, so that the other party and his family will not be emotionally hurt.

For example, a loving couple, because the man was "out of the soul" for a while, and a one-night stand occurred, his friend knew about it, did not debunk in front of his wife, and hid the matter for him. Because, their husband and wife have an emotional basis, not day and day, night and night fighting, just the mistakes made by men for a while, maybe after experiencing that time, he will "wash his hands in the golden basin" and will not "lose his body" to others, then, in the future, the husband and wife can still love each other, and then spend their lives together.

And your "truth tells the truth" may bury a marriage that can renew the frontier.

Timely "lying" is also an art, and when said well, it can save people from water and fire, and save people from the storm.

And some "lies" are more you can't tell, have to say, and even dare not say. Having said that, renew the old good, the family is happy, do not say, turn against each other, and fall apart.

So, "lying" in moderation, sometimes, is really important.

However, if lying is regarded as a habit and benefits from it, the qualities of these people can only be questioned and waiting for approval.

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