And do and cherish

From a dude's statement:

"Two years ago, my ex-wife put the divorce on my lips all day long, and finally I couldn't bear it, and I was afraid of whom! I remarried six months later, she was a 32-year-old woman, very beautiful and virtuous, she was in good condition, she had a house, a car and a job, but there was a boy, and one of her requirements for me was to treat her children as her own. At first, I was sincere, but when I lived with this child for two months I realized how selfless people who regarded other people's children as their own, at least I couldn't do it. At that time, her child was 8 years old, and every time she ate, she pulled the food on the table, and as if she hadn't seen it, I pretended not to see it, but I had a fire in my stomach. I went to pick him up after school, he said in front of the teacher that I was a man who ate soft rice, I made his favorite oil-pouring noodles, he fell in front of me, and the blocks I bought for him fell. Although she felt sorry for me, she also criticized him harshly! I still wanted to find a way to compensate me, but I had no enthusiasm anymore. I told her about the idea of quitting, and I said: The stepfather of someone else's child regards other people's children as his own, and I can't do it!

She cried, and I felt both heartache and guilt in the face of her tears, because from her I saw the shadow of my ex-wife...

Now we are discussing the remarriage with my ex-wife, and our divorce is not because of any big problems, it is all a trivial matter.

The experience of divorce has made me mature a lot at once, men must cherish their families, lovers, and never be the stepfathers of other people's children. ”