The so-called upbringing is to sell your things in the details

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Author: Kyohiro Guoxue.

Source: Jingbo Guoxue

Many people may ask the question, "What is parenting?" ”

Someone put it this way:

Parenting is to make others comfortable, and you do not hold back your own upbringing, it is not easy to take advantage of others and think about others, and it is not easy to understand others...

They are right, but they are not as incisive as Chen Danqing said: "Education is the detail." ”

The most important thing to get along with people is to have comfortable details, and the most easily exposed is the problem of parenting. Parenting is to sell your things in the details.

01

Parenting is not the truth

It is inadvertently carved into the bone marrow

Someone said: "A person's character and upbringing can be known from the jokes he utters." ”

A person's joke is often unintentional, and a person's upbringing is reflected in this kind of joke-like "inadvertent".

Writer Cai Lan once told such a story.

Today's large organizations hire staff, and the final interviews take place in restaurants.

The host family is deliberately late, to see if you are sitting down, first order food and do not wait for others, not to drink alcohol also know immediately, can't help people must first come to a cup of strong.

On the dish, look at you take the chopsticks, the posture is not right, it does not matter much, that dish of fried chicken, you have not turned over after the clipping of a piece, it determines your fate.

When eating, it is loud and loud, which is a big taboo. Where do cultured people make such ugly gestures? Eat as much as you eat, why tit-for-tat?

Sometimes you don't have to see it from the dinner table, you don't have to see it, you don't have to see it, you can know it by listening to your phone.

"Wait a minute!" You said.

The management has frowned, why not say please wait? Is this "please" word so difficult to say?

In fact, it is not difficult to say, but you are used to not "please", when you do not deliberately pay attention to politeness, your upbringing will be in these inadvertent details at a glance.

A cultured person, his inattention should be like this.

When others pour water for you, they will not look dry, and they will use their hands to help them finish eating and leave the table and say: "I am finished eating, everyone uses it slowly" When handing people water to deliver food, they will definitely use their hands to enter the door last time, and they will also wipe in their own direction when they close the door and wipe the table...

Parenting is a big deal, but it's all small things. True upbringing goes without saying, for it is a natural outpouring of a noble personality.

02

A person's "goodness is small"

Hide his upbringing

A friend of mine was riding the Sichuan-Tibet Line in 2013.

In the section from Haizishan to Batang, there are 6 long tunnels in a row, three of which are more than 2000 meters long, and the longest Lana Mountain tunnel is 3500 meters long.

At that time, it was getting late, the tunnel had no lights, it was pitch black, his bicycle lights had run out of electricity, only a small flashlight was left, but the light was like fireworks, insignificant, he could not see the road clearly, could not see the exit of the tunnel, could not perceive the direction.

Author: Mizuki Ran, million-best-selling author, WeChat: vv59336

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