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In the sea of people, every man, when looking for a wife, wants to find a good wife, to find a wife who loves the family and takes care of the family; but not every man has such good luck and can find a good wife; because to be a good wife, it is not an easy thing, and it needs to be both internal and external; and many women, the habits they have developed since childhood, have been doomed to become a good wife and become a qualified wife after a woman marries. So what are the ten criteria for a qualified wife?
First, the feelings are single-minded, clean and self-loving
In the heart of any man, it is impossible to accept that his wife is a person who is unfaithful to his love and is not dedicated to marriage; no man can accept that his wife will do something derailed; so a qualified wife must be a woman who treats feelings and is very single-minded; married to a man, he will be loyal to the man for a lifetime, love the man, and be with the man for a lifetime; know how to clean himself and love himself, never do the betrayal of the husband, betray the marriage; know shame, know the shame, Never do it, dirty things, do things that are not in order.
Second, take care of housework, a master
If a woman, the family will not do anything, then such a woman, no matter how good the appearance, is definitely not a qualified wife; a qualified wife, you can not make money, but you are at home, must be a master; can make a table of delicious dishes, can put everything in the house, in order; so a qualified wife, no matter what things in the family, need you to say, but the woman must be able to do, and must do better than anyone; otherwise, A woman is a waste; because what the house is like, we must be able to see who the woman is.
Third, in front of the child, respect the man
In the heart of any man, he wants to be the head of the family; in front of his own children, it is heaven; for everyone in the family, shield the wind and rain; so every man, in fact, loves face, especially in front of his own children, he hopes to get the respect of his children; so a qualified wife must not be in front of the child, let the man live so humble; either scold the man, or beat the man, so that the man has no place to look at himself; in this case, the woman loses the qualification of a qualified wife So there are a lot of women who must pay good attention to this; let your husband be embarrassed, and he will not make you feel better.
Fourth, take care of your husband, take care of everything
Every woman knows that to get a man's heart, you should get a man's stomach; so many women will always feel that if you make a good meal for a man and share it with a man, the man will definitely be grateful to the woman; in fact, in life, in the man's heart, the woman cooks, that is a natural thing; so the real way is to make a special meal for the man in life, not stewed chicken, it must be stewed duck, and it is deliberate; of course, you can also buy some supplements. Deliberately stewed to supplement the man's body; so such a woman is considered a qualified wife.
Fifth, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is handled well
In married life, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very difficult relationship to deal with; many women, from the first day of marrying into the man's family, have not stood up for their role, so one step is wrong, and the next step is wrong; so a qualified wife must be the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, handled very well, and will not let the man be sandwiched between two people, saying that this is not, saying that it is not; women must know how to worry about their husbands, rather than always adding trouble to their husbands; so a qualified wife, We must be good at handling the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Sixth, in front of outsiders, men come first
Under this heaven, all men especially love face; when at home, men can be women's slaves, what women say, men can accept, will not bother with women; but when they are outside, men will especially love face; no matter what, in men's hearts, they all want to have face; especially in front of outsiders, if their wives do not give themselves face, men's hearts will be particularly unacceptable; so a qualified wife must be in front of outsiders. Men are the first, listen to men in everything; always let men, have dignity, have face.
Seventh, in life, reasonable financial management
A woman, whether she will be in charge of the house, depends on how women spend money at home, how to manage money; a qualified woman, in life, should not spend money, will never spend; never can do it, in order to buy a bag, spend countless yuan; even if a man is very good at making money, women will not think, to buy luxury products; in the woman's heart, will definitely think that the money in their own bag, is to make it more and more, not to make it less and less; so a qualified wife, Must be a woman who can be in charge of the house and can manage money.
Eighth, the husband is the only one, not compared with others
In married life, there are many women who will always take their husbands and compare themselves with other people; not that their husbands are not good here, or that their husbands are very bad there; a qualified wife, that is, as long as they choose their husbands, no matter what he is, what kind of person, what identity, they regard their husbands as the only one, and they will never compare with other people; in women's hearts, their husbands are the best men in the world; because other men are good, they also belong to others. Women can't have it either; so a qualified wife will definitely treat her husband as the only one.
Nine, treat people properly
There are many women who do not know how to deal with people; when there are guests at home, not only do not know how to greet, but even make a meal, they are so unwilling and unwilling; so a qualified wife must be a person who handles things for people, just right; will not be because there are guests at home, and the guests are not familiar with themselves, not what they like, just give others a look, even cook for others to eat, are not willing; qualified wives, that is, in life, bit by bit, can do just right Will not let others say a bad word, talk about how much they do not know how to be a person.
10. Husband and wife life, never refuse
In married life, it is a very normal thing for husband and wife to be together, to live a conjugal life, and to do conjugal things; but some women, perhaps not in the mood, may be for other reasons, will refuse such a thing; and a qualified wife, no matter how unwilling she is, will also meet the needs of her husband; because this is her own duty, this is her obligation; so married life, is not a small thing, this is the bond that maintains the feelings of husband and wife If it is maintained, life can go on happily.