I don't know if you have found that people who can't fall in love are often hurt by love. Those who desperately want to catch it are getting farther and farther away, and finally they can only forget each other. People in love are more likely to develop jealousy.
In this society where it is not easy to fall in love and it is difficult to get along, love seems to be a luxury, and there are more people who listen and fewer people who have it.
If you want to have a good love, you must first abandon the so-called "love". But what exactly is love? Is it the one who haunts your dreams? Or the one who makes you cry? Actually, neither.
Sometimes, love is the one who can make you extremely jealous. The one you like, but the other person doesn't like you, the jealousy you have for the person you love. Actually, it's a disease.
You can be jealous of that person's past, and that jealousy overwhelms people and becomes ugly. Jealousy not only makes people lose themselves, but also makes people lose their good feelings.
Kobayashi and Oyama are a couple who have just fallen in love. On the day of being together for half a month, she accidentally saw a photo of him and his ex-girlfriend at her boyfriend's home, the photo was washed out and put in the picture frame, and for a while she was confused, angry, and sad.
At the time, she wanted her boyfriend to be wholehearted about herself, so she had the idea of letting her boyfriend throw away the photos. When her boyfriend came home from work, she told him about it and asked him to throw away the photos.
The boyfriend's reaction was slow, maybe he didn't want to throw it away very much, and tried to explain that it was just something at the bottom of the box, but the girlfriend still didn't spare him, and he had to throw it away.
Later, things were indeed thrown away, but it was as if the feelings between them were also thrown away.
Kobayashi did not have such a realization, and immersed himself in his own madness. In fact, Oyama is estimated to be sad for a while, and he has begun to have a bad view of Kobayashi.
Later, in the date, Kobayashi felt estranged from her boyfriend, but she didn't know what the reason was. In fact, jealousy has already set its sights on Kobayashi, and Kobayashi doesn't know it.
As long as it is a feeling that has been treated with heart, it will be sad when it is broken up, especially the party who was broken up. They often still love each other, but unfortunately the other person wants to leave.
The damage that Kobayashi's selfishness caused to Oyama may have been something she couldn't detect at the time, or she might not have known how to love someone at all. To love someone is to respect the other person's past and his past feelings.
That photo is only a good memory of the mountain, why not leave it. If his feelings for Kobayashi are deep enough, then the person who processes the photo is Oyama, not Kobayashi.
Kobayashi may lose someone she likes because of a moment of jealousy, but she doesn't realize it.
It is said that love makes people happy and crazy, but the love of people who do not understand things is doomed to only hurt. Men and women in love often make their originally beautiful selves ugly because of jealousy.
Xiaorui and Dahua are a couple, because the boyfriend is a big boy who has never been in the world, and often does not understand Xiaorui's girl's mind, because he likes his girlfriend too much, and will also monitor her whereabouts.
Because I like one person too much, I am always grumpy about each other's past. Sometimes, it will also make up for the pictures of other people's past, thus generating jealousy.
The original sweet and romantic lovers, because of jealousy, often make unpleasant trouble, and the feelings are not as strong as they were at the beginning. When the passion fades and faces chai rice oil and salt, all the tests have just begun.
Helplessly, Xiaorui couldn't stand Dahua's bad living habits and chose to break up. Dahua was in pain, and since then he has been depressed and depressed.
In a relationship, it is inevitable that there is a party with deeper love, and the depth of love will be jealous, and once jealous, the heart demon will occur. It will make you selfish and even lose your original good self.
Xiao Ya and her boyfriend, at first the two people looked at each other, they were in love, and they were eager to see each other often. It is said that the woman in love has zero IQ, and sure enough, Xiaoya hurt her boyfriend because of jealousy, and she not only unreasonably asked her boyfriend to delete his ex-girlfriend's contact information, but also demanded that everything about his ex-girlfriend must be thrown away.
Such a request may seem very reasonable, but it is not legitimate. Xiao Ya is only the current girlfriend, not his wife, their current feelings may not be as good as the ex's, after all, the emotional basis of people for several years, they have only been in love for two or three months, and Xiao Ya has blinded her eyes and mind because of jealousy.
So, the relationship is doomed to fail. Maybe Xiao Ya is in pain and feels that she will not love again in the future, but in fact, she is just immature and does not stand in the position of her boyfriend to think about it for him. Loving someone starts with respecting his previous emotional experiences.
When a relationship begins, people don't predict the outcome, but fate is ultimately not worth getting along with, and getting along is based on love. Knowing how to love a person's present and past, and loving and warming in the right way, is the most comfortable state of a relationship. If, only jealousy can not extricate themselves, and finally hurt others and hurt themselves.
In the human world, how many people have done things that they regret because of jealousy, and in the end, it will not help. When jealousy arises in our hearts, we might as well ask ourselves, why should we be jealous? Shouldn't love be respected and fulfilled?
All feelings destroyed by jealousy are always so stupid and ignorant. Sometimes, you don't even have the power to be jealous, because you don't see clearly in the other person's position, hastily put jealousy into action, and the result is said to be the end of the song.
Even if you have an irreplaceable place in the hearts of others, but because of jealousy to do ugly things, endanger feelings, and finally hurt yourself. Because you become ugly, because you become crazy, because you become mean...
If you have someone you love but can't love, please don't be jealous of the person the other person loves, and bless him. Just hope he's doing well.
Stop letting things that have passed affect your life now. Don't be jealous of those you are destined to lose, after all, running yourself well for the rest of your life and making yourself beautiful is what you have to do all your life.
Say goodbye to jealousy. Be a better version of yourself, starting with letting go of jealousy.