Zhang Jun's birth is troubling

Zhang Jun has recently been troubled. The reason is that the relatives around them are giving birth to children. His own mother's family urged, his in-laws urged, urging Zhang Jun to be annoyed, but he could not lose his temper, after all, everyone was for their own good.

Sometimes Zhang Jun is also thinking about why everyone likes to give birth to children. The mother's family's words are that Zhang Jun is still relatively young, his physical fitness and function are still relatively good, and now giving birth is not only good for the child, but also for himself, and the postpartum body recovers faster, if you do not plan to have children for a lifetime, then give birth to children as soon as possible. The in-laws' words are that now the age of the lover is not small, the children of the same age have been played with soy sauce, and the mother-in-law is still in better health, and she can help bring the child when she has a child, otherwise no one will take the child in a few years.

In fact, Zhang Jun understands and agrees with everyone's reasons, but Zhang Jun also has his own stubbornness, and he can make compromises on other things, but this matter cannot be compromised. Zhang Jun and his lover believe that the current conditions in all aspects are not mature enough, including psychological and economic, so now is not the best time to have children, but no one agrees with this statement, thinking that Zhang Jun is looking for excuses.

Later, Zhang Jun really did not want to be promoted by everyone, so he went to get a cervical cancer vaccine, because the doctor told Zhang Jun that he could not get pregnant within one year after taking the vaccine, and Zhang Jun thought that this would avoid the parents' birth plan. But I didn't expect that the parents of both sides asked others about Baidu, and concluded that they could still get pregnant after vaccination. The doctor's advice had no effect.

After the vaccination, Zhang Jun also encountered a thing, felt uncomfortable, after marriage because the in-laws did not live with Zhang Jun, so often called Zhang Jun, although always unable to avoid childbirth, but Zhang Jun's heart is still warm, but since Zhang Jun was vaccinated, said that after a year of infertility, the mother-in-law never took the initiative to call Zhang Jun, Zhang Jun's heart was empty, very uncomfortable. Many people may feel that Zhang Jun is pretentious. But Zhang Jun is uncomfortable, is he a fertility tool, is it that his mother-in-law was good to himself before for fertility? Zhang Jun was a little sad.

In fact, many friends have advised Zhang Jun, the mother-in-law is not a mother, so the requirements are not so high, now open every day to work and play, do not have to worry about fertility pressure, how good.

Zhang Jun's experience of being spawned is troublesome, I don't know if everyone has a similar situation!