Let tranquility guide life

Use tranquility to guide life

In the face of the society where the phoenix of fame and fortune is growing, we must try to experience the abundance and enrichment of the soul in simplicity and simplicity, and maintain a calm and calm attitude to stay away from impetuousness and then make life leisurely.

In the vast world, the speed of change in the world is getting faster and faster, and the pace of people's work and life is becoming faster and faster. Promotion should be fast, not fast will be old; Fame is fast, not fast to expire... In this fast-paced life, impetuosity seems to have become an inevitable trend, and calmness has become a kind of expectation, a realm that is difficult to achieve. In the human jungle of modern urban competition, it is a blessing to be able to calm down.

Why has it become difficult to be calm? This is because a person attaches too much importance to external honor and disgrace, and his heart becomes impetuous and lacks an inclusive and calm heart. Don't think of the pouring of colleagues, the failure of performance, interpersonal disputes, the cold treatment of the boss, etc. as a big thing, because these are really insignificant in the journey of life. Even if you are severely injured like being demoted and fired, if you are psychologically prepared and rich, then when these setbacks come to you, you can calmly cope, and even calmly treat these setbacks and failures as a turning point, turning or transformation in life, without becoming impetuous.

In modern society, competition is everywhere. After all, there are very few people who really see through the red dust, and utilitarianism and reputation are more or less tempting for any ordinary person. But a really intelligent person, on the issue of fame and fortune can afford to put down, while enjoying fame and fortune, but not by fame and fortune bothered and bound, otherwise, people become prisoners of fame and fortune, where do you start your life? Zhuangzi once told such a parable in "The Getaway": Yao ceded the world to Xu You, saying: "The sun and the moon have come out, and the candle fire has not been extinguished, but it is not difficult to compare with the sun and the moon than the glory." Sir reigns, the world can be stable, but now I occupy this position, I feel very ashamed, please allow me to give the world to you. Xu Yu said, "You have already ruled the world very stable." And if I take your place, for the name of the picture or for the high position? Birds nest in the forest, and only one branch is needed; Moles go to the river to drink water, and all they need is a full stomach. What am I going to do in the world? Please come back. "Xu Yu did not accept the throne, lived in seclusion in the mountains and forests, was not burdened by fame and fortune, and could be called a wise man." This calmness, this calmness, deserves people's admiration. It's normal for everyone to have a desire for profit. The question is whether you can exercise self-control, not take everything too seriously, and treat fame and fortune with a calm attitude of "winning my luck and losing my life", so that you will not be tied up by it and will not disturb your inner peace because of it. Just like the ancients: the heart of seeking fame is too much to be false, and the heart of profit is excessive, and the heart of profit is paranoid. More than two thousand years ago, Lao Tzu soberly realized the weakness of human greed and selfishness, and through the questioning and thinking about fame, wealth, and gains and losses, he came to a conclusion: excessive greed must pay a heavy price, and too much possession must lead to more loss. He said: "Husbands and wives are indisputable, so the world cannot compete with them." This sentence means that a person has peace of mind and desires nothing, so he can always be invincible. Unfortunately, for more than two thousand years, very few people have been able to enlighten and apply this wisdom. In the face of fame and fortune, people often can't keep themselves in a quiet state of mind, impetuous, and even exhausted, and the depression of life comes from this. In terms of fame and profit, gain and loss, everyone should always keep a clear head and let themselves have a calm and calm heart, only in this way can they "be content and not humiliated, know and not perish", and return themselves to a relaxed and free life. If you can stay calm, it means that you are a calm realist and do not have unrealistic expectations of the world, society and others. Justice is always relative, there is never a perfect spot, it is a mediocre world, and it can be fissioned and moldy at any time) Sex... When you can look at these calmly, you will not be sad and will not complain about Tianyuan people when you encounter injustice, misunderstanding and grievances in the future. Moreover, they will not give up on themselves, but will grit their teeth and practice their internal skills. Go wait and pieces to find a chance to win. In the long red dust, there may be too much temptation, indifference, diaphragm and desolation. One needs to walk through the years with a clear mind and a calm pace. Don't let yourself be a slave to the material life, and don't be tempted by too many things, you need to work hard with a calm mind, even if it is not very successful, such a life is also happy.

So. In modern society, let your life remain indifferent, use tranquility to guide life, no matter what you face, not impetuous, so that a leisurely life will always be with you.