A Taste of Freedom (Listen to Her Story)

The trajectory of her life is almost entirely in line with society's expectations of a standard woman. From an early age, the tutor was strict and he studied seriously. After graduation, at the peak of his career, he met love, and then naturally returned to his family, married and taught his daughter, and degenerated into a vague-looking Kennaisuke.

However, life is not a fairy tale, and the bright smile on the wedding photo is not the whole expression of life. She had tried to be a wife who supported him at home and waited for him according to the conventional division of labor, but the lack of spiritual communication and emotional communication gradually made her doubt the practical significance of the existence of this marriage.

Since the life of following the rules and going with the flow did not bring her the expected happiness, but made her humble and pale in the good years that should have been radiant, it was better to be herself, rely on herself, let herself fly, achieve herself, take risks to live at will, and try where her limits are? Truly living for myself, I found that rebellion needs strength.

Obedience to words does not require a brain, but doing one's own thing requires the dual value of judgment and courage. The two combine, and the melody of life is no longer an eternal pastoral pastoral. The rebellion of middle age is surging like an invisible hand pushing her to dig more sides of herself. Age was a rather nihilistic thing for her. When a woman has experienced the youth and purity of a young girl, and has also had the hardships and circumstances of life, then everything is there. This one is extremely radiant and powerful, she stands on the stage, she is an unquestionable luminous body, because her heart is rich enough, strong enough.

The middle-aged rebellion has lost its destructive power, and he may not be as bright as the sun at eight or nine o'clock, but it is like a warm stove in winter, and it is just right to nurture it warmly. Someone asked her, "Did this rebellion in your life come too late," and she said, "No, no, everything is the best arrangement." Yeah, she's in her 40s this year, and whether it's good or bad, happiness or frustration, she's experienced it, and everything is just right. And what exactly is this rebellious theory? It was her own sense of control over her own life.

When she and her ex-husband went on a trip a few years ago, at that Kiyomizu-dera Temple, she wanted to eat a matcha ice cream. But, well... This wish was not fulfilled, because she was penniless and had to give up. Haha, but today she has now become her own patron, living real and dashing, no longer need to be bound by other people's eyes to her own wishes. She finally ate the matcha ice cream that she remembered in her heart, and it tasted free!

When I first listened to the story and touched the resonance of my heart, I tried to play the role that anyone expected in the first 30 years, but I did not play myself well, and all the things I experienced made me only want to be my true self for the rest of my life, and to be kind to myself is to be kind to my family and friends. Use your best self to have the best feelings, hug the best lover, say goodbye to the past, let go of hurt, and live freely and unrestrained! Thank you to my friend for letting me experience the real love, savoring it, this is the taste of happiness!

Record the content on the 33rd day of happiness for you, and it's nice to have you!