Recently, actress Sun Li updated the dynamics and posted a video of dancing in the practice room. In the video, Sun Li is dressed in black, dancing with the music, the movements are neat, the posture is dashing, and it is completely impossible to see that she is already a mother of 3 children.
Sun Li and Huang Lei are a model couple in the entertainment industry, the two married in 2004 and have two daughters and a son. They live a simple, regular life, and they have become the envy of many people.
In the good old days, meet the right one
In 1995, Sun Li had just turned 18 and Huang Lei was not yet 24. Sun Li was a student who applied for the Beijing Film examination that year, and Huang Lei was studying for a master's degree and helping in the examination room.
At that time, Sun Li had just come out of the dance academy, very introverted, with her head bowed, and sat quietly. Everything was that her father was busy before and after running. Huang Lei looked in his eyes, still thinking about how to let his parents come to everything. Unexpectedly, in the future, he took over his father-in-law's class, spoiled Sun Li, took care of Sun Li, and ran before and after.
More than ten years later, Huang Lei can still clearly remember the clothes that Sun Li wore at that time. He said, "At first glance, I thought, this man is my wife. It's so good-looking, I thought she must chase her if she is admitted! ”
Love at first sight.
On the 20th anniversary of the acquaintance, Huang Lei recalled the scene of that day. "On that day, I was one step away from her, whispering softly, I chattered in panic, and she blushed shyly, as if everything had long been predestined, and we didn't know it yet."
Three months after enrolling, Huang Lei confessed to Sun Li in the graduate dormitory.
"Do you have a boyfriend?" Sun Li shook her head.
"I don't have a girlfriend either. If not, let's try it. ”
Sun Li bowed her head and did not answer. Huang Lei thought to himself, this matter is blind. Unexpectedly, after a while, Sun Li nodded.
Since then, the back seat of Huang Lei's bicycle has become a special seat for Sun Li, and the careful Huang Lei has also tied a piece of clothing to the back seat. I can imagine how many beautiful memories this ordinary bicycle has crushed on the campus of Beiying University and in the streets and alleys of Beijing.
The right people also need to actively appreciate each other's strengths
"We didn't have a wedding when we got married, and our relatives and friends had a meal, or a buffet. There was no honeymoon, and after receiving the license, I entered the crew room to cut the film. I didn't even buy her a wedding ring, so I pulled a red cloth at home and put on a white shirt to take a wedding photo. Now that I think about it, I am afraid, how she married me in a vacuum, asked her that because she was brainwashed by me, I heard love. ”
In a talk show, talking about marriage, many melon-eating aunts on the scene hugged Sun Li unevenly, thinking that this marriage knot was too casual. Sun Li defended Huang Lei, "Auntie, don't talk about him." She knew that Huang Lei, who never let her cook, wouldn't even let her help cutting vegetables because she was worried that she would cut it. Compared with this love, weddings and diamond rings are too insignificant.
Sun Li can't cook. In the second season of "Where Did Daddy Go", when his mother came to visit the class, Huang Lei still lamented that he did not expect to eat the food made by his wife in this life.
Huang Lei likes to cook, open his Weibo, Huang Xiao Chef's name is not in vain. But in fact, Huang Lei did not do so well in the original, it was Sun Li's praise and praise, which made him more and more confident and more and more standard.
He can do it, she eats happily, he's responsible for doing it, she's responsible for washing, isn't that just right?
When Sun Li was pregnant with her eldest daughter Duoduo, Huang Lei pushed off work and stayed at home with her. Huang Xiao Chef got the full play, and did not make food every day, but sun Li was pregnant for fifty or sixty pounds. Of course, Huang Lei also accompanied Fa Fu.
Huang Lei said that what could he do at that time, in addition to accompanying his wife, he would change the method to make food for her every day. She can't finish eating on me to eat, like chicken soup or something, she drinks a bowl of no drink, the rest must not be hot to her, must be made fresh, the rest of the I eat, so can I not be fat?
Neither of them cares about money, the family's money is managed by Huang Lei's sister, how much money there may be, they themselves can't tell. This trust, I'm afraid many girls can't do it.
Huang Lei likes to drink a little, Sun Li is allergic to alcohol; Huang Lei loves to say that Sun Li is quiet, and there is often only Huang Lei's voice at home. Sun Li may rarely listen to what he says, but how good the voice is, it will not disturb her quiet, and it will make her life more fulfilling.
Understand what life is and be grateful for every day together
Huang Lei was a teenager who became famous very early and is still active in the entertainment industry. Sun Li was once the head of the Tang Dynasty, And Hu Ge's first kiss on the screen was dedicated to her. However, since the birth of the eldest daughter, she has basically retired and taken care of the family wholeheartedly, and only recently has she begun to enter the group filming.
On the condition of Huang Lei and Sun Li, if they pursue fame and fortune, their achievements should be more than what they are now. But they are very indifferent to this and leave more time for their families. Now the family lives on the outskirts of Beijing, far from the city, and walks together after meals and walks the dog.
From "Daddy 2", we see Duoduo's kindness, understanding, care for children, and love for parents and mothers; from Huang Lei and Sun Li's Weibo, we see Duoduo's love for his sister and brother, and his younger sister's dependence on Duoduo. Growing up in such a family that knows how to love and be grateful, how can the child be bad?
Huang Lei said that after having children, he did not turn his home into a children's paradise. After the children go to sleep, they will still enjoy the world of two. Put a disc, pour a little wine, you nestle in the couch, and I sit on the floor and talk about what happened today. Isn't that what a happy life should look like?
More important than the rich daughter is the rich wife. Because daughters will see what a happy woman looks like, they will also look for such happiness when they grow up. This is Huang Lei's wisdom of life.
Once Huang Lei sang "I think I am the sea, the quiet deep sea, not everyone understands", with medium long hair, is a handsome literary and artistic youth, a proper small fresh meat; now Teacher Huang is somewhat blessed, his face is always hung with the shrewdness of "god operator", he does not agree with the words of food, and Teacher Huang who walks off the altar knows how to make his family happy.
Compared with the photos of that year, Sun Li does not seem to have changed much, and she is still young and beautiful. Taking a picture in the same frame as my daughter is completely sisterly. Such a woman who is spoiled by her husband will also be treated gently with time.
Huang Lei said, "These 20 years, as if it is just one, we use this slowly to try to understand eternity and learn to love each other." We spent 20 years together without being salty or light, and we learned not to be annoying or ridiculous. 20 years, autumn, winter, spring and summer, eating, drinking and laughing, we will continue to keep like this until we are old. ”
Finally, Xuan Yan wanted to say that it is not only when you are in your teens and twenties that it is called "beautiful years", when you meet the right person, it is your "beautiful years", and happiness is not too late at any time.
We've all met people who feel right, but they are separated because they know better, and even if it is appropriate, they must discover and appreciate each other's strengths in the continuous deepening.
There are always temptations around us, maybe we are drifting in material desires, fame and fortune, lost, I think, only by truly understanding what life really is, we will reap happiness.
I wish everyone can find the right person and live a happy life.
(The original is not easy, I hope to like; the picture comes from the network, invaded and deleted)