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What kind of woman can make men obsessed? Are they goddesses who are so beautiful that they can't be imagined, who are tender as water, or who are full of fiery bodies?
If you look at the women around you who are well versed in the art of husbandry, you will find that they do not necessarily have superhuman beauty and figure, nor do they necessarily follow men in everything.
They are sometimes independent and sometimes clingy, and they have two faces like cats, which is difficult to understand. But men are obsessed with these women who can switch between two faces.
If you can also do this in person, set behind your back, and have two faces, then men will naturally not stop thinking about you.
One: sometimes prickly, never blindly obedient to men, maintain enough attraction
As the saying goes: "Attractive women are not necessarily beautiful, just like beautiful women are not necessarily charming." ”
Men are visual animals, and their attention will be attracted by those who are outstanding in appearance, but even the most beautiful people will feel ordinary after watching for a long time.
When faced with women who have a good skin bag, but are obedient, men will be proud of their charm and be able to make such beautiful women obsessed with themselves.
What's more, they will feel that such a woman is beautiful and has no soul.
Men naturally love to chase, and the desire to conquer in their bones is difficult to restrain, but they will not cherish the prey that is easy to get to hand, and those who are full of freshness and mystery of the opposite sex can cause them to worry about their stomachs and toss and turn.
Which of the women who can attract men to chase after them is not the flower of independent and arrogant Gaoling?
None of us can live without oxygen, but we don't care about its presence when we're breathing well. It is human nature not to cherish what one has, and attention will only run after those who cannot be chased.
Easy to follow and elusive, which is more attractive? The answer is obvious.
The love between Prie Sheila and Facebook founder Zucker Berg is enough to teach women a lesson in what the highest way to love someone is.
Prie Sheila is not a beautiful woman in the eyes of the world, but she is independent and confident, and she lives an extremely egotistical life. For what you believe, you will not change easily. No matter how much men love themselves, they will not easily abandon themselves and take a seemingly easy shortcut.
After graduating, she refused to allow Zachberg to set aside a position for her, went to work as a teacher she liked, and then studied for a doctorate in medicine.
What she pursues has never been a perfect love or marriage, but an independent, confident and strong self. She wasn't anyone's vassal, just herself.
It is this kind of strength that has won the love and respect of Zucker Berg, and even if the two have been in love for many years, they are still evenly matched and incomparably loving.
This is enough to warn women that although they are assured to be themselves, sometimes prickly, live proudly and willfully, it is easier to make the opposite sex admire and fall for it than to blindly obey.
Two: sometimes clingy, know how to show weakness, soft and coddled, seductive in the invisible
There is a line in the movie "The Best Life of a Spoiled Woman" that says: Love a person not like a dog, be warm and obedient, be like a cat.
The cuteness of the cat lies in the fact that although it is not tame and frank, it is willing to lazily petite and clingy, which can always make people feel pity and love, and make people feel helpless and obsessed with its nature.
The same is true for women, if only independent and keep mysterious, although it can arouse men's desire to conquer, but it is not enough to make men obsessed.
Too self-sustaining, when getting along, you may feel too much distance, just like the Buddha statues in the temple, although respected, will not make people obsessed. When you are timely and sticky, you have a sense of contrast and make your charm go to the next level.
Smart women don't always pretend to be strong, and independence never means you don't need a man.
They understand their strengths and weaknesses, their pursuits and values, but they never talk about them. They have self-esteem, but they know how to show weakness in the right time and arouse men's desire to protect.
Pampering and clinging are not blindly flattering, but expressing the recognition and closeness of lovers.
Whether it's a kiss when you're sleepy-eyed, or seeking comfort in a man's arms when you're in trouble, it's sending out intimacy signals to men to let them know that you need him and like him.
This can make men feel satisfied while they are moved.
Women who know how to show weakness are often women with high emotional intelligence, they can navigate in any relationship, let people love, but also deserve to be loved, and will naturally live more and more happily.
Being a two-faced woman who switches freely can make men fascinated.
Women who are too independent, women who are respected but not cute enough, women who are too clingy, make people feel safe but easy to be slighted. Only those women who can change freely between the two sides are the ones that men really remember, and they are powerful characters who can use charm as weapons to kill all sides.
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