Today we will uncover the secret of this straight man.
Female friends often complain to me that my boyfriend is a straight man and my husband is a straight man, is it worth more than this table?
Special value.
And then you'll find that the more you say he's a straight man, the more valuable he is, right?
Men really fall into categories, are men really worth it that much?
Uh, today I'm going to unveil the dark side of men, just to tell you, there are no straight men in this world, why do men laugh?
Remember two sentences. If you don't understand it, you're not interested. Thinking in a straight line is the same as avoiding trouble.
You mean?
Let's start with the first one, which is relatively niche. For example, if you like a person, you imply that he is crazy, but he doesn't seem to know, he doesn't seem to understand. Do you think this is a straight man?
I've been delivered home and I don't know how to eat the meat in my mouth, you see, actually.
What is it?
In fact, he is not interested in you, what is there to be blunt about? What else?
What does it mean that straight-line thinking equals fear of trouble?
Men are naturally afraid of trouble, so they can be simple and rude.
For example, if you tell a man that I have a stomachache today and am not feeling well, right?
Is it worth drinking more hot water when he comes?
Right?
But have you ever noticed that a man just said that drinking more hot water is so easy, it will pass, not so troublesome, but what do you want?
It may be that he cares a lot, and then he can make you happy, and then maybe go shopping, buy medicine, uh, this is the door.
Hey, don't you think this man is very heartwarming?
But you like to do these things. It's too much trouble for him, so you look scared of trouble.
Of course, someone here would say he probably doesn't love us. Fear of trouble does not mean not love. It is the nature of men to be afraid of trouble.
After labeling a man as a straight man, he will really follow the label. What does that mean?
In short, what is it?
For example, after something happens, you say, oh, are you a straight man? If you are aware, what do you mean?
Give him an immortal gold medal, next time, like what happened to him, why not give gifts?
You think he's worth it again. You think he has a gold medal to avoid death. Do you think I'm worth it?
I'll be worth it.
Oh, I'll give you another example, give an example in life, for example, you have such a person around you, you like to say first, I'm a straight man, don't mind, wait, wait, wait, finish this thing in a word, you will find that he will say things that you don't like to hear next, it's terrible, like how you are so ugly today, etc., but you can't resist.
Why did he say it in advance? I'm very direct, don't mind, what do you say after normal people say that?
That's okay, right?
Well, he won a gold medal for avoiding death, and then he said it was ugly.
You can't see that he has already won the gold medal in the competition. Who gave him this gold medal to avoid death? You gave it to him, right?
So, who gave him the gold medal for homosexuality?
You gave it to him and you told him he was worth it, right?
He held the gold medal to avoid death. The next time he does some straight-male behavior, you see I have a gold medal to avoid death. Are you talking about my job?
Okay, then we've got the picture. In other words, there are no real straight people. It's just that you're afraid of trouble that you labeled him so bluntly, right?
How do I guide him?
In fact, it's just a different label, right?
You see, if you label him a straight man, he'll be like that next time.
But let me give you an example. Like, uh, you have stomach pains, right?
Then he said, drink more hot water. At this time, you can tell him how you feel. Actually, I just want you to spend more time with me. After saying your feelings and needs, he can't refuse.
I've shown you the way, and you still don't want to go.
Well, he's gone, right?
You have to change the label when you leave, you can say to him hey, husband, I think you are so sweet.
Or usually you'll tag him with a different label.
You see, for example, I think you're still a romantic.
The romantic man shaved off the straight man's gold medal, and next time he's going to do something romantic about something else, right?
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