01
The human world is like a network of woven relationships, in which there are countless nobles and countless villains.
It is a blessing to meet a noble person. And meeting the villain is the beginning of all misfortune.
Someone has asked such a question, what is the impact on a person's development? In fact, that is "people".
The world does not become complex on its own, and only when human beings become complex will the world become complex. Life is actually very simple, it is because human nature has become complicated, life has more ditches and bumps.
Whether in the workplace or in daily life, we need to pay attention to "people". Don't think too well of people, don't think of people too badly, everything is just "human nature".
I remember when I was young, I always thought that mastering a certain field of knowledge would lead to happiness and success. In the end, life gave me a few slaps, let me understand a reality, master human nature, in order to mix for a long time.
All knowledge is "dead" and only man is a "living" thing. Therefore, if you can always master human nature and always see through people's hearts, then you can always be superior.
Don't believe in the one-sided remarks that human nature is inherently good and human nature is inherently evil, man is ultimately a complex collection, one thought becomes a god, one thought becomes a demon, everything is unknowable.
When the evils of human nature are aroused, then they will become these three types of "unclean" people. These people are here to plague you.
02
Those who blindly persuade you to be "kind and generous" are here to harm you.
In today's society, there are some "virgins" who will persuade you to be kind, to forgive those who harm you, and to tolerate the world.
People like this who blindly advise you to be kind and generous, then you have to be careful, they will definitely not be good for you.
Know that without suffering from others, hugh persuades others to be good. They don't know your pain, so they persuade you to be kind, but they just want to kidnap you morally.
Just like some people who want to find your help, their mouths are full of benevolence and morality, and their mouths are full of kindness and tolerance. However, their purpose is simple, but they are just trying to get your money.
Guo Degang said such a sentence, those who persuade you to be generous, stay away from him, and when the thunder splits him, it will affect you!
People, not can not be kind, but can not be too kind. People who are too kind will only be regarded as sheep, and eventually become the food of the wolves, ending up with an unfortunate end.
To find out if the other person is your friend, if you really want to be good to you, you just have to see if he will tell you the truth, that's fine. People who always stand on the moral high ground and accuse others are definitely not good people and should stay away.
03
Those who are hypocritical to the extreme, stay away in time.
Mr. Lu Xun flipped through history and saw only two words--cannibalism.
Mr. Li Zongwu flipped through the twenty-four histories and saw only two words--thick black.
The reason why man can "eat people" is because he is too hypocritical, let others take it lightly, and finally falls into his plot.
The reason why people become "thick black" is because the end of hypocrisy to the extreme is precisely "thick black". People who are too thick and black will only harm others and themselves, and exert the evil of human nature to the extreme.
In the workplace, I believe that we can often see hypocrisy and thick black people. On the surface, these people seem harmless to humans and animals. From the inner situation, they are more dangerous than the average person.
When you meet villains, then you will not be too afraid, because you know their identity and routine. When you meet a hypocrite or a thick black man, you will only be nervous, because you do not know how they will hurt you.
There is a saying that is more terrifying than ghosts, and it is unknown human nature.
We always think that ghosts are particularly terrible, but we don't know that ghosts have not harmed us, and all that harms us are people.
You are being calculated in the workplace, it is someone else's conspiracy. You are being tricked in life, it is someone else's trick. You are bullied when you are humble, it is the treachery of human nature.
Staying away from those who are hypocritical to the extreme is an effective way to survive.
04
Those white-eyed wolves who don't know how to be grateful will consume your blessings.
What is the biggest difference between humans and animals? That's "feelings." Sentient humans know how to be grateful, while emotionless animals only hurt each other.
The word "gratitude" we can often hear. However, there are very few people who can do it. More importantly, there are fewer and fewer people in this world who know how to be grateful.
Before the material economy developed, human nature was still relatively good, at least you helped him, he will help you, and even to the point of "dripping water, gushing springs to repay each other".
However, after the development of the material economy, human nature has become complicated, and the breath of gratitude has disappeared completely, leaving only greed and calculation.
Backstage, someone asked me this question, in the past we still talked about the beauty of human nature, but today, why do we always talk about the despicable nature of human nature?
I replied to him: "It is not that human nature is not beautiful, but in the big dye vat of society, no one can always maintain a good character without changing." ”
You've helped some people, and they don't necessarily thank you. That being the case, we might as well stay away from them. To put it more seriously, even if we throw money in the trash, we can't lend these white-eyed wolves a penny.
This is not a desperate widowhood, but a kind of "self-preservation". Instead of having more contradictions between people, it is better to cut off the relationship before the contradiction occurs and make each other feel at ease.
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