Speaking of Yang Tianzhen, everyone may first think of these words: weight 200 pounds, well-known brokers, dare to wear dare to say, strong women..... Wait a minute. Recently, Yang Tianzhen has changed her career again, and she has officially joined the ranks of live broadcasting.
Speaking of live broadcasting, everyone will definitely think of a lot of high-value, hot-bodied Internet celebrities, or those who are well-known and have a large number of fans, with Yang Tianzhen's appearance and coffee position, in addition to Bobo eyeballs, will anyone really appreciate her?
You really don't underestimate her energy, people now have the number of fans and likes on a video platform, it is really appropriate not to lose the first-line stars. Because we just ignored it before, the reason why she can be remembered successfully is that she can talk.
Remember this year's variety show "Strange Story", there is a debate topic: "As a newcomer in the workplace, the boss does not like me, do you want to resign?" In that episode, Yang Tianzhen, as a debater, crossed paths with various gods who had experienced hundreds of battles, and she directly threw out golden sentences, which caused continuous applause from the audience present.
"The workplace is not an idol drama, and there is no domineering president who falls in love with you."
"Be a scumbag at work, keep your own possibilities, and believe that you are the most popular person in this company."
Not only are every sentence deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, but also rely on speeches to squeeze on Weibo hot search!
We can open her short video platform, and the first video that is pinned is That Yang Tianzhen is sitting in front of the camera while holding the cat, calmly sharing with everyone "high emotional intelligence coping skills in real scenes".
Yang Tianzhen in the shot looks completely an intellectual woman, and she smiles at the camera and says bluntly, "When you are embarrassed, overwhelmed, and shy, you can do this:
When you are exaggerated, the real good social is actually you coming and going: many people have such an experience, others praise your clothes today are very beautiful, and you can only pretend to be modest and say "No, no, where beautiful." Really good communication, in fact, should follow the words of the other party, "just like you have a vision", such exchanges have formed an interaction.
When faced with the choice of A or B scenario, you can propose the C option, which is suitable for doing dilemma scenarios, such as when someone asks you: When you lead A, lead B, who do you prefer? You can joke that how can you use like for the leader, you should use respect, and I respect both leaders.
Take a different perspective and don't answer the question head-on. For example, someone asks you, "Did you make a lot of money this month?" You can jokingly answer "yes and a few pounds", which can be used when you don't want to answer other people's questions, which can not only change the topic well, but also show that you have a sense of humor.
Don't deny yourself, don't deny others. Once a person has a specialty, he will be compared. For example, if you run fast, someone will ask, "You and another person who runs very fast, which of you is faster?" The best way to answer is to find each other's shining points and compare them by category, such as answering "I run faster in high heels, and she runs faster in sneakers!" "This not only affirms others, but also shows that you have a great sense of humor."
Xiaobian is completely fanned by Yang Tianzhen after watching these videos, and I have to say that a woman who can talk and chat is welcome everywhere.
Remember when Yang Tianzhen was still an agent, there was an advertising shoot, and the representative of Party A said implicitly in the background that he was worried about Zhang Yuqi's scandal and had a negative impact on the product.
Yang Tianzhen immediately asked the representative of Party A, "What is the main keyword of your brand?" Party A's representative replied "fashionable, independent, confident and bold".
Yang Tianzhen said Zhang Yuqi's bold behavior, which was related to brand value, and said that bold people are prone to controversy, which completely dispelled the worries and concerns of the other party. You know, if the broker encounters this kind of thing, if the answer is not good, it will directly lose a big customer.
Now Yang Tianzhen is no longer the little agent she was, she created her own plus-size women's clothing, live streaming with goods, on variety shows, no star does not know her! At this time of looking at the face, Yang Tianzhen, who weighed 200 pounds, relied on the powerful way of speaking and held the whole field.
In today's society, being able to talk, chat, and have high emotional intelligence has become a very important life skill.
Especially for women, "can talk and chat" can not only harvest family happiness, but also enable you to navigate the workplace and society. Behind every successful woman, it is inseparable from good speech. If you also want to become a person like Yang Tianzhen, Xiaobian highly recommends that you read this "High Emotional Intelligence Chat Technique".
In the book "High Emotional Intelligence Chat Technique", the author chooses the language case of chat, so that everyone can feel the power of daily discourse and the secret of communication. This book is more of a language case of chat, so that everyone can feel the power of everyday discourse.
In the author's view, the ability to chat is more important than the ability to debate. Many debaters are intimidated, and he wins the other side but loses his friend. It's not the result we want, people who really talk, they're people with high emotional intelligence.
High emotional intelligence chat makes itself more active, but not aggressive, can calmly discuss, share, explore the way into the natural chat state, truly understand the art of empathy and confrontation.
In particular, it should be emphasized that in the Internet era, most of us rely on the Internet to communicate. At this time, the ability to face-to-face dialogue between people is deteriorating. At this moment, it is not that there is no need for the ability to chat with high emotional intelligence, but that it is more important to chat than to be rare.
Let "High Emotional Intelligence Chat" accompany you to enhance potential energy: when others talk to you, or you talk to others, you can make complex problems into no problems, can convince others without making others feel that they are being persuaded, and the other party always loves to chat with you, you are an attractive person.
People who can chat are welcome everywhere! Such a person, people are willing to support, trust and rely on, which has nothing to do with whether he understands artificial intelligence, whether he will do financial statements, whether he can cross the line, this is also a person's invisible wealth and ability in life!
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