When watching "Mother-in-law Is Coming", I have been thinking about one thing, that is, whether Wang Chuanzhi has ever loved He Lin.
Whether it is a drama version or the original work, He Lin really loves Wang Chuanzhi very deeply. He Lin was born in a very wealthy family, living a well-fed, carefree life, protected too well by her parents and aunts, and did not suffer much from childhood to adulthood, so she did not understand the importance of economic conditions in marriage, nor did she understand that not some parents would think about their children, she simply longed for love and wanted to marry someone she liked. Therefore, she disregarded Wang Chuanzhi's economic conditions, disregarded her strong discomfort when she came to the door for the first time, and disregarded the disrespect of Wang Chuanzhi's family for herself, and chose to marry Wang Chuanzhi and marry love.
However, from 4 o'clock, Wang Chuanzhi's love is not He Lin, but her family's money.
Before getting married, He Lin went to Wang Chuanzhi's hometown, as a girl who was pampered, grew up in the city, and had not suffered hardships, He Lin could not adapt to the environment and lifestyle of Wang Chuanzhi's hometown, eating badly, drinking badly, sleeping badly, going to the toilet was a problem, and she was sick.
Treating this delicate future daughter-in-law, Wang Chuanzhi's family did not like it, did not say bad things about He Lin, and did not respect He Lin at all.
They hated He Lin for being squeamish, let Wang Chuanzhi sleep in a room with He Lin, and also said "what is the difference between marriage now", and even said when they want children and let He Lin, who has not yet passed through the door, take money to subsidize their family, which shows that they have no respect for He Lin at all.
The family did not respect He Lin, in this regard, Wang Chuanzhi did not say anything at all, neither persuaded them to restrain a little, nor did he protect He Lin, when he returned home, he circled around the family, did not take He Lin seriously, and even He Lin had a cold and needed to buy medicine.
Loving someone will not let her be wronged in her own home, seeing that her family does not respect her and being indifferent, as long as you are willing to protect her and express your dissatisfaction with your family, your family will look at your face and will not be excessive to your future daughter-in-law. If you don't even have the courage and consciousness to defend your girlfriend in front of your family, how can a woman be willing to entrust her lifelong happiness to you?
The unhappiness of the first visit did not arouse He Lin's vigilance and thinking, and she still decided to marry Wang Chuanzhi.
He Lin's father is the leader of a property management company, who is generous and honest, and appreciates the enterprising Wang Chuanzhi, not only did not find that his daughter was about to jump into the fire pit, but agreed with this marriage (the original, not the drama version), he was considered from the perspective of his distressed daughter, unwilling to let his daughter and son-in-law rent a house after marriage, and decided to marry He Lin a house. He Lin saw her father's thoughts and was very happy, asking for the three-story building.
He Lin's parents gave their daughter a house worth 1 million yuan to solve the marriage room problem, Wang Chuanzhi got a building but while calculating his own decoration loss, he felt that he was sending people to the fence, and he felt very angry when he heard that He Lin wanted to spend 200,000 yuan on decoration.
This small dispute made Wang Chuanzhi depressed, feeling guilty that his family had not been able to contribute, and at the same time felt that He Lin was not as gentle and lovely as before, and to some extent even domineering. Is the dowry too rich? At the same time, he also found another problem, this building is said to be a dowry, in fact, He Lin's premarital property, and he has nothing to do with himself, he took out a sum of money to decorate, what is the final matter? Moreover, today He Lin has an opinion on his family's lack of money, and in the future, if there is nothing to do, he will not show his face every day? A manly husband, he can bend and stretch, but he can't send people under the fence! Wang Chuanzhi felt extremely uncomfortable.
In order not to let himself be sent to the fence, Wang Chuanzhi hit a 500,000 IOU under He Lin's aunt's radical method, added his name, and it was also this IOU, which finally allowed He Lin to take back his premarital property and did not fall into the hands of his in-laws.
People who are too calculating about money, marry carefully, people who are reluctant to spend money on you, say that they love you, it is really difficult to believe. Also, it is best for women to keep an eye before getting married, don't give in and compromise everywhere for love, and let the other party calculate.
Since He Lin married Wang Chuanzhi, He Lin's mother-in-law has lived in her daughter-in-law's dowry room and has not left. Not only that, Wang Chuanzhi's eldest sister also came, and the eldest sister's son also came. Later, Wang Chuanzhi's other siblings also moved to his brother's house, anti-guest-oriented, not only eating his brother's brother and daughter-in-law's, but also making a mess of the family, making He Lin feel very angry.
He Lin wanted to get rid of them more than once, but Wang Chuanzhi regarded the original family as more important than anyone else, and opening his mouth was filial piety and family affection, taking money to support them, and not taking He Lin's opinion seriously.
Her house was occupied by her in-laws, and she and her husband still had to take money to support their in-laws' families, and they had to be angry, what was the point of such a marriage?
After marriage, He Lin and her in-laws had a lot of contradictions, Wang Chuanzhi's nephew was too poorly educated, repeatedly insulted He Lin with dirty words, angered He Lin, He Lin wanted to drive them away, Wang Chuanzhi's mother even beat her daughter-in-law in order to protect her daughter and grandson.
Seeing that her niece had been wronged, Yu Huaqing personally came to the door and fought with He Lin's mother-in-law, and in the end, He Lin's mother-in-law said that Yu Huaqing could not be said, and had to take the other children back to her hometown.
Seeing that his family had been taken away by his daughter-in-law and her aunt, Wang Chuanzhi felt very unhappy and had a strong dissatisfaction with He Lin.
After that, as long as He Lin clashed with his own family, Wang Chuanzhi thought that it was He Lin's fault, did not take his family seriously, and could not tolerate them. It was also Wang Chuanzhi's practice of helping his relatives and not helping his wife, which chilled He Lin's heart.
Loving a person will not push all the responsibility onto the wife when the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law breaks out.
Before marriage, He Lin was the pearl in the palm of her parents, she had not been angry, after marriage, He Lin almost did not have a few days of comfortable days, suffered all kinds of grievances, and was beaten many times, wang Chuanzhi, who brought her such a life, said that he loved her?
Sylvia Plath once said, "From a distance, I found him to be a flawless man, but as soon as he got closer, I immediately found that he did not fit my ideals at all." ”
Marriage cannot be a child's play, and decisions cannot be made based on love alone. There is a certain truth to the door to the door.
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