Don't worry about it, the breeze is coming
Because of business needs, I know a girl, know what is happening in my family, and care about it from time to time. Of course I know that this is a business act, confirm that it does not run a single, and increase the referral. Just like the Daily Training Group and the WeChat messages pushed by the community, they are being followed and cared for. When the temperature of the business rises and the frequency gradually replaces the previous position in the heart, he is not the person who plays the lantern, but the person who will shine.
What is left behind is what should be cherished the most, as for how it came, what does it matter?
Yesterday, I worked from home, and Bought cabbage and greens from my aunt at the entrance of the community in the morning, but I was stopped outside by the staff of the mall because I forgot to wear a mask. Two meals a day, a plate of sugar fried vegetables, a plate of ham sausage scrambled eggs, plus a few packs of spicy snacks, simple, not finished eating. The rest was partly digested by the fried rice this morning.
Yesterday's side dish
Not busy in the morning, docking several training needs, sorting out the plans and goals of the business trip to Fuzhou, cost budget and risk assessment. After sending it to the boss, the trip was stopped and postponed until December. A meeting was held in the afternoon to identify three products and trainings to be implemented. Then pick up the girl from school.
The first time I picked up Sister Bones, I held a parent-teacher meeting in the middle of the month, so I knew where the class was. Usually it is a grandmother pick-up. She spotted my presence, but wasn't sure, just wide-eyed, mask covering her face in surprise. I took off my mask, and the little guy shouted "It's Daddy" happily and ran over.
It was raining outside, and she walked with an umbrella for a 10-minute walk and did not take her bag. From the school gate to start chatting with me, I couldn't finish talking, and I couldn't believe that my emotions had not yet been released after seeing my father. Tight, warm little hands pulled me. At that moment, I felt very happy! Chatting with 17 in the evening, I said that the last time there was an earthquake in Shanghai, the first person who came to mind was a girlfriend. That day in the conference room of the electronic port, the room shook from east to west, dizzy, and went out to see everyone running downstairs. Realizing that the earthquake was indeed happening, I went down with my colleague's computer. In the time of 10 minutes, the psychological activity is quite complicated, first to confirm whether the girlfriend and mother are okay, and then to ask colleagues in the department group how they are. As for myself, I don't really care much.
Sister Bone walked for a while in the middle, and she looked at me happily, "How did Daddy pick me up today", "Where are we going, I don't want to go back to Grandma's house". Good contradiction, every time I went to pick her up after work on Friday, I didn't want to go back, and even cried badly. She said "People don't want to go at night, let Grandma sleep alone", "Daddy, you go back alone, pay attention to safety, I'll stay another night", "Daddy, your illness is not good, you can't take care of me when you go back"... Yes, see the truth in the tribulations and take care of each other. Sometimes hiding your thoughts and emotions is only about what certain people give and feel.
I have the majesty of a father, and I also take care of part of the motherly love. Fortunately, she can reason with me and play a little clever with me. When I was a stone patient a month ago, she could sit in a chair and watch cartoons very well, eat breakfast quietly, and stroke my waist in bed. Day after day, she grew in my world and became an indispensable and important part of my long-term planning.
From school to mother and baby shop, to getting on the bus, past a dozen snack bars and toy stores, Sister Bones just took my hand and walked briskly in my footsteps, as if it didn't matter where she went, and it was good to be with dad.
In the car, her feet were crossed, shaking her toes, in the crook of my left arm. Grasping her little hands, stroking her hair from time to time, kissing her forehead. When the speed increases, "Daddy, it's too fast." I responded "This is normal speed, before the road was uneven, now the road is flat and wide, but it is still within a reasonable range". "Daddy, I saw the trees outside", this should be no words to say.
When I got to Grandma's house, she poured out the entire contents of her bag, just to show me the new toys that the teacher had given me. A wheel that can fly. Put the three components together, the palms are clamped and rotated, and the flywheel takes off, jumps, drifts, lands... A whole set of actions is like a family relationship, giving a fulcrum and being happy. Support each other, give a piece of space, peace and security. Grow with each other, build a ladder, and climb higher and higher. Passion is eventually erased by life, returning to plainness, and considering it ordinary.
Once consumed, only recognized the brand
Duckweed-like vanity stays on the surface of the pond's eutrophicating water
The wind does not go, the water does not move
After the day, the roots rotted and the smell stinked
A nail rake, transported to the pig trough, cattle pen, horse pen, donkey pen
A pair of hot air shoes, 199 pieces
A pair of Nike shoes, 699 pieces
A Canang goose down jacket, ten thousand smaller
A Pinduoduo edelweiss close-fitting vest, plus A vibrato original sweater, 168
A piece of Apple Watch Series 7, 2999
A piece of motorola 360L that took four years, 1599
One Burberry backpack, 3800
One Rockland backpack, 141
Bottle of Bedmar toner, specialty store, 170
Bottle of Bedmar toner, good sale, 17
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The good things you think are replaceable on many ends of the world. The difference is that they bring a different sense of value and pleasure. Identity differences, scene personalities, product thresholds, social hierarchies... Factors are intertwined, and value and experience cannot be avoided. Isn't it? If the three views are more abstract, then the consumption concept is a good carrier. I am convinced of this, and I ask you to believe it. If consumption doesn't bring you a good life, please check out the three views!
Two years ago, the concept of the Internet of Things was on the rise, and I didn't quite understand it. With the continuous upgrading of Douyin and the maturity of the format, on the basis of e-commerce breaking the information difference, space difference and time difference, the Internet of Things is breaking the cognitive difference and brand difference. In addition to high-threshold productism, the concept of brand will accelerate the disintegration, the concept of community will rise, and religion, belief, cognition, etc. will redefine consumption and social order.
Why?
Reason 1: After completing study at UCAM and passing the certification, you can directly obtain a degree certificate from a world-class university; Tsinghua and Peking University gradually open up open courses; academic and business masters' systematic courses 199-899 Courses can be seen everywhere... Is it related to us? Even if it is fragmented, even if it is not face-to-face, even if it is only theoretical, it can open a window for many people and give them a chance to become enlightened.
Reason two: Word of mouth has escalated to symbolism. Xiaohongshu, Zhihu, Weibo, Circle of Friends, After-sales Comment Area, 168 Wholesale Network, Red Shield Network, Douyin, Bilibili, Micro Index, Ali Data... It's inexhaustible. For example, a piece of more than 3,000 clothes, look at the hang tag production place, scan the bar code to see the manufacturer, you can find a first-level manufacturer, and then call to confirm other brands of oem processing, and finally on the B2C platform and 168 network price comparison, do not believe you can go to the big brand store to compare, the material, the process gap is not large. The difference is in the design, fit and core materials. And these dismantling processes are being decrypted by the vibrato anchors and directly monetized around big brands. Legendary symbols are traceable images, videos, and code.
Reason three: The virtual world is a reflection of the real world. The physical city structure is striped, clumpy, and grouped, and after the concept of blockchain, a metacosm has emerged. The former is the infrastructure of the virtual world (content co-creation and sharing, virtual currency, technology), the core of the metaverse is social, and social networking relies on relationship links, based on the foundation of decentralization (or super-super-super/borderless relationship map), it will definitely build communities, build virtual communities of different religions, beliefs, and cognitions, which will determine consumption patterns, experiences, and poor quality will slowly flatten. For example, when the physical city does not open the six-dimensional space on the Internet, we are going to the nearest grocery store, supermarket, shopping mall, then next, our online shopping will use AR\VR to shuttle in the mirror image of the real street, without the need for me to take my girlfriend to the physical store to try the size, choose the style, and then choose a more affordable link online. The deeper influence on buying behavior is the community. Now the fan community is already visible. As for the discussion of how to live a physical store, it is not discussed within my cognitive scope.
Finally, the summary is that in the era of dividends, in the era of new consumption redefined, our cognition should be rapidly iterated, abandoning old ideas and old concepts, and not being abandoned by the times in the smelly and long comparison, vanity, and innocence. Because at the same time that you're being abandoned, so are your children and your family, aren't you? Parents must remain hungry. It can be solved by poor economic conditions and down-to-earth labor, but cognition is not good, and the concept of consumption cannot be connected to the three views, then it is really troublesome.
I have recently been very interested in constellations and eight characters, and I listened to Wang Defeng's philosophy classes intermittently, and these after-dinner pastimes gave great inspiration. More than 95% of the books in the past three years are in operation, training, sales, and functions, and there are very few books on philosophy, literature, and science. In the words of teacher Wang Defeng, the heart has no wisdom.
Even if it is off-topic when it is written, it is still necessary to close and echo.
Don't worry about it, the breeze is coming. There is faith in the heart, the child has hope, and he has strength. Do not be trapped in the heart, do not mess with emotions, do not like things, do not grieve with themselves, do not fear the future, do not think about the past. So good! Confusion is a kind of disturbance of the world, chaos is a failure of love, moodiness will have a small luck, the future is the reflection of the present, the present is good, the future is good, the past is not worried. But to add, we are not born for ourselves.
