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Silence is an attitude to life and a way of communicating.
"Being able to talk" is a person's strength, but it is easy to say too much and lose. Sleek and sophisticated people seem to have a good friendship with anyone, but they may not pay their hearts.
Interact with people, really smart people, know how to be "silent", know how to shut up at the right time.
Montaigne said: "Silence is more beneficial to socializing than insincere words." ”
There is a kind of person who is like a box of words that can never be opened, who cherishes words like gold and likes to be silent. However, as soon as they open their mouths, they can win the overall appreciation and recognition.
When getting along with people, if you don't know how to talk, or don't have a general understanding of the overall situation, it is better to remain "silent" and wait for the best time to speak.
Like "silence", sometimes a manifestation of the wise.
People who are good at "silence", interact with people, always good at advancing and retreating, control the overall situation, and can easily win everyone's trust.
There is a kind of intelligent person who makes good use of "silence" to understand the development of the situation.
Bao Zheng in the TV series "Young Bao Qingtian", no matter what kind of case he encounters, is almost the last speaker. Many people have taken the surface of their position and expressed their doubts, and many people will try to analyze the case.
But Bao Zheng would listen quietly to everyone and look for clues left by criminals.
He rarely speaks his mind when he does not understand the cause and effect of things, for fear of misleading others and disturbing his own train of thought.
When he encounters a dilemma, he will lock himself in the house and sort out the process of things. Although he is the one who speaks the least, if he decides to stand up and speak, then basically the truth will be revealed.
When contradictions occur, communication masters like to be "silent", understand the ins and outs of the situation, and control the overall situation.
"Silent" people tend to spend more time listening and observing. This is a very clever approach.
People who like "silence" may not be humorous, may not talk much, but can get more people's trust. It is also this kind of trust that can make him have a better popularity.
When a person who likes to be "silent" is in danger, the person who trusts him will also step forward to save the other party from water and fire.
There is a kind of communication master, who likes to be "silent", but likes to study silently.
Everyone has their own personality. Some people, who do not like to talk much, like silence; some people, in expression, tend to be concise and direct.
Those in the crowd who choose to be "silent" do not mean that he does not have good communication skills.
On the road of life, there are some people who like "silence", which is actually a kind of lowering posture, in order to better learn when walking with others.
It is not easy to win or lose with others, but is good at using action to learn and improve themselves. In silence, show your style.
People who like silence can often put down their posture and study in a low-key manner. They are good at observing in silence and learning in silence.
People who are good at silence, when interacting with others, can always patiently listen to what others say, quietly learn from others' experience, and learn with their hearts.
When getting along with people, people who are good at silence, although they don't talk much, are accustomed to listening, letting others relax, knowing more information about others, and it will be easier to communicate.
People who interact with people, like "silence", and have a humble learning attitude can often get more people's favor.
Wittgenstein said: "Whatever can be said can be said clearly; whatever cannot be said, it should be kept silent." ”
People who like to be silent, when getting along with people, do not express their own opinions, do not express their positions, but look at what other people behave.
"Silence" is a kind of preparation, although not expressing oneself, but being able to understand the other person's state.
People who like silence, in silence, give themselves a space to think, can understand what others think, see the hearts of others, and gain insight into the minds of others.
At the same time, a short period of "silence" can also try to avoid the situation of "evil coming out of the mouth". Know what to say and what not to say. Such a person will give people a sense of steadfastness and trustworthiness.
When getting along with people, communication masters like to be "silent", insight into the minds of others, and can see others more calmly.
"Silent" people, although low-key, are often full of wisdom, and interacting with them will benefit endlessly.
Master Hui said, "When you are going to speak, what you say must be more valuable than your silence." ”
There is a kind of person who does not talk much, but is a master of communication, that is, a person who knows how to "be silent" at the right time.
Being good at "silence" is a pair of armor in life.
"Silence" allows people to understand the ins and outs of the situation when conflicts occur; when they get along with others, they can see the minds of others and see others clearly. "Silence" can avoid evil coming out of the mouth and can reduce trouble.
On the road of life, when interacting with others, you do not have to deliberately say something insincere in order to make yourself social. It is better to say less, listen to other people's thoughts, learn more, and do more, and you will gain more things.
"Silence" is like armor, which seems useless, but it can also protect itself when it is critical.
Be down-to-earth, don't hold high and step low.
If you feel that your ideas are not mature, it is better to remain "silent". Give yourself more time to think, do things more steadily, and win the trust and support of more people.
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Author: Xia Mo MO, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.