Yesterday I suddenly saw that the actor Hu Ge, who I like very much, sent a dynamic, which turned out to be about an actress I have been following for a long time, and I almost thought that the two of them had any sparks, and I was really a little disappointed after watching it. If these two people are really together, I believe many people will be happy for him!
Look at what worries us fans:
Dynamic screenshot of Hu Ge
At that time, after reading this picture, it was really surprising, Suga Renzi used to give people the feeling of being gentle and moving, "Roy People" is definitely her true color, but this time the contrast is quite large, really sassy !!!
Have you ever seen such a tough posture?
For the first time in my life, I began to chase a drama because of a picture - "Female Psychologist", adapted from Bi Shumin's original novel of the same name, with Ke Wenli as the director, starring Yang Zi, Jing Bairan, Wang Jia, and Suga, and starring Huang Jue, Ni Ping, Ma Su, Yang Tongshu, Liu Xiaohai, and Zhang Yao.
Just look at the cast is indeed a strong faction, worth chasing, as for what the show says, here is not to repeat ...
Among the several episodes that have been broadcast, xiao Mo is most impressed by Xiao Mo, whether in work or life, he is always difficult to refuse others, even unreasonable requests. And when they are treated unfairly, they often have no way to defend their rights and interests or say no. It is often a low-profile, submissive, and even flattering appearance to people. This situation is a very typical "flattering personality".
He often brings food and drink to his colleagues, but he is embarrassed to ask for money, and colleagues often look for his "warm hearted" to help, and even push him the work he does not want to do, but he has everything he needs...
When Xiao Mo made his hair, when the clerk continued to sell, even if he felt that the price was very expensive, he would not refuse
In particular, the clerk's understanding and understanding directly plucked out Xiao Mo's sympathy
Xiao Mo did not want the other party to be criticized, and agreed to make a more expensive package
Xiao Mo was very distressed by this, and even caused great trouble to his life, so he went to seek the help of a psychological counselor. In fact, there are many such people around us, most of whom will not be properly respected, or even looked down upon, especially in the "love relationship", we are always accustomed to the silent payment of the party called "licking the dog".
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Therefore, in the process of psychological counseling, the most important thing is to make the counselor feel a kind of empathy and full respect. The heroine of the play showed a very professional side at this time, and through keen observation, she quickly realized that the visitor was doing this just to make the other party comfortable, and did not hesitate to wronged herself. Therefore, some of the behaviors of the pleasing personality are not the real shows they want in their hearts, but they can't refuse, and they don't know how to please, and what they show others is a kind of cheap payment that they take for granted. And others will only regard this kind of behavior as "lowly", to ridicule, to humiliate...
Of course, the heroine's profession is not to listen to what the other party says, but to observe the counselor's words and deeds, even his micro-expressions, and changes in emotions, through a three-dimensional structure to fully understand the visitor, which is also the heroine Horton as a consultant super high professional quality.
Through the plot of the two episodes, the heroine and the visitor establish a deep trust and respect, so that the visitor continues to open his inner world in a very comfortable environment, and finally is greatly encouraged, and finally tries to refuse the request of his colleagues.
When he said that I was going home, my heart suddenly became cheerful, and if the broadcast of this drama could not only let many people who suffer from this kind of trouble see how to solve it, but also let the people around them see that these people need help, instead of blindly laughing, sarcastically, and even attacking them, it is also very, very meaningful.
In fact, when I saw Xiao Mo, I suddenly connected him with Wang Yuelun in my mind, because I was a loyal fan of "Where Daddy Goes" at that time, and my impression of him was still quite profound, and my first feeling for him at that time was a flattering personality.
Later, because of some negative news, I slowly discovered that he was not a flattering type.
Li Xiang We all know that everyone's first impression is that this is a rich woman, Li Xiang's profligate wealth can be said to have been criticized, in the previous program group, a month's living expenses of 65W, and then Wang Shiling is more publicly spit on Yao Ming's daughter rural baby, the family's good feelings are almost defeated!
At that time, Li Xiang was still very talented and very beautiful
Wang Yuelun's popularity and ability to absorb gold, even less than her daughter Wang Shiling, gives people the feeling that Li Xiang is very strong and domineering, has been working hard outside, Wang Yuelun with children at home, relying on Li Xiang to earn money to support, living in the shadow of Li Xiang. He even said on a certain spit show that he should focus on his wife's career.
But in fact, Wang Yuelun is also a bottom, Wang Yuelun's father, named Wang Hui, is a famous oil painter, graduated from the Central Academy of Arts and Crafts, he was once a proud protégé of the famous painter Wu Guanzhong. If even people like him are not confident in pleasing others, then where should the people living at the bottom go?
Therefore, if Wang Yuelun is really a flattering personality, we don't have to worry about their marriage!
The formation of a flattering personality has very complex factors, family education, personal encounters, psychological factors, etc., in short, I hope that everyone's heart is full of sunshine, self-confidence, self-esteem, self-love to face everything in life!