#冬日生活打卡季 #
Do you think of your goal as a career or just as a hobby?
I heard a book called "Sense of Purpose", and I suddenly realized that I had not succeeded in many years because of the above reasons.
Yes, when I used to open a brick-and-mortar store, I just wanted to have more money and be free. With too much utilitarianism, not enough love, he may not be a career that I like, just because he has enough freedom, no one cares about me, but the kind of unfreedom in my heart is something that others can't give.
So it was in business for nearly 12 years, and finally it was shut down. It is false to say that it is not to be upset, it is also false to say that it is not sad, and it is even more false to say that there is no disappointment. A shop has been operating for more than ten years, and there is a certain amount of feelings and painstaking efforts in it.
Writing and reading are my hobbies, a direction for me to dispel my emotions, and a way for me to tell myself. But I heard this book" And I decided to make it a career that I would achieve for the rest of my life.
All hobbies can be turned into careers, but can all careers become hobbies? I don't know if there is any special relationship between them? But I know that if this karma is enough for you, your chances of success are 30% greater. Just because you love him, so you will persist for a long time, from the heart to the outside of the love is difficult to find.
The time in our lives is occupied by too many things that we struggle with in life, and it is impossible to devote ourselves to only the things you love. It is impossible for everything to be without a little utilitarianism, maybe you don't love money much, but you can't do without money.
The goal is a real problem that connects you to the world. Only when you are genuinely concerned about a problem in the world and want to do something to change the status quo can you have a real goal. Such a goal can help you calibrate every step of the moment, and it can also give you a lasting sense of meaning in your life, so that you will not fall into nothingness and will not doubt the value of your existence. To live a happy life, each of us needs such a goal.
Do you know? When I heard this, I felt really shocked. For the past two days I have been hearing that every step of life, every simple thing has its meaning and his beliefs, and if you don't have these two things, you will live a meaningless life.
I listened to the book and sat there thinking deeply for a long time. Yes, our lives are meaningful, we need a lot of responsibility to bear, and we also need to take responsibility and realize self-worth. I also hope not to waste my life, at least a little, worthy of my own small achievements.
If you can turn what you like into a career you will do all your life, won't you all be realized? So what exactly should be done to make this happen? Draw a mind map of all your daily focused goals, and the final destination is your ultimate goal.
All branches eventually extend to the vein, and the end of the vein is your ultimate goal. I've always known the importance of planning and a sense of purpose, but I've never thought deeply about it before. It turns out that he also has a certain relationship with our spiritual needs.
Reading books is really fantastic, and reading all kinds of books helps you in all kinds. Let you be less flustered in the moment of confusion, let you know in the moment of joy to think of danger! Think of it this way, it is good for people to live a little simpler, and it is quite good to live a little more transparently.
Our short-term or one-day small goal, sometimes not called a goal, it is just an indicator. He's just gauging your growth and the traces of time for the day. Just like when we write, teachers keep saying that quantitative changes cause qualitative changes.
Such a sense of purpose is not a list of to-dos that cannot be seen, but a compass that points directly to the destination of life. You may not be able to see the end point clearly, but every step of your current action can move a little closer to that determined direction.
So we need to make a list of all your hobbies and the things you like, and then find a lifelong struggle that you can sustain yourself. Look at the big picture of your own whole life, and then take every step toward that goal all the way.
I want to be a novelist
I want to be an essayist
I want to be a writer
I want to be a movie writer
I want to be a screenwriter
I want to be a script killer
I'm going to publish a book
I'm going to publish 5 e-books in a year
I'm going to write a novel of 10 million words in three years
You see so many goals are actually one goal: I want to be a writer
I want to achieve financial freedom at the age of 40
I would like to have a large villa of about 300 square meters
I want to own a motorhome of about 700,000
I want to have a piano that is at least medium
I want to travel to at least 1/5 of the 228 countries in the world
I want to use three years to travel all over China
I want to own a house where you can live by the sea at any time
I also want to have a small rural home far away from the city and back to the real countryside
What about these goals? These goals are actually just one word, and they can all be achieved - money
Economic strength
The sense of purpose is divided into three categories: aliens, utopians, and shallow tasters!
The misunderstanding of the alien is that there is no sense of purpose for a happy life; the misunderstanding of the utopian is that it confuses consumers and practitioners, and lacks the understanding and effort of the goal at the realistic level; the misunderstanding of the shallow person is that he only pays attention to the practical benefits brought by the goal, and does not recognize the meaning of the goal beyond the present.
In fact, this goal is not only useful to oneself, but also to have a corresponding impact on others. I suddenly found that the world is really round, all the things that everyone does, all the things that successful people do, he has achieved himself by generating some kind of help for others.
You can't be a person who destroys others for selfish gain, and sooner or later you'll capsize. And what you do is helpful to humanity in the long run, and sooner or later you will achieve yourself, because that is just compound interest.
Just like the centenarian I watched yesterday, "Live well, I live to 105 years old" He found the faith in life from the age of 59, found a sense of purpose, he loved the world and loved all people, and contributed himself as a lifelong goal, so he lived to the age of 105.
Such a belief in life is worth learning from all of us. Maybe you're in good health, have a long lifespan, and live to be 105 years old, but you're worthless. I think that's also the walking dead.
Sometimes your current life makes you feel very anxious and sad. But if you can sink your heart and think about your long-term goals, will you feel comforted? While cherishing the beautiful life of the present, and then thinking about the beauty of the future, is it adding a lot of condiments to your life?
Who says philosophy is useless? Who says economics is useless? Books that help individuals grow, all useful. I think listening to these two books these two days has been extremely useful for my current growth. Every day we see so many people, so many things happen, why didn't we find out before?
I found that after writing, people's divergent thinking and thinking that captures the focus of life really become stronger. I seem to have become stronger, and suddenly I feel that every day is full of hope and strength. There is a kind of happiness that arises from the soles of the feet and makes people very comfortable.
On Sunday, November 28, 2021, at 9:09 a.m., the weather in Beijing was cloudy. It looked like it was going to snow, and the weather was overcast. I used to dislike cloudy days, but now it's quiet when I write a manuscript on a cloudy day.
Yesterday I told my mom that I had been closed for 11 years, and my mom said it was a pit and you just closed it. If you don't pull out that pit again, none of us will help you. It hurts me to hear that almost everyone around me told me to stop the loss in time. No one seems to know my kind of love, a puppy you have kept for more than ten years, there will be heart-rending pain. Not to mention where I grow seventy or eighty percent of the time every day. Can I not feel bad and not love?
Essay (Personal Growth)