Recently, the news of The divorce of Big S Wang Xiaofei has been all over the city, and Qin Hao has not violated the sense of harmony and has been sent to the hot search by this broken relationship. And the reason is only because before Wang Xiaofei released the divorce, he had a good brother Qin Hao and had a drink. So some people speculated that the near Zhu people are close to the ink and the black, Wang Xiaofei and big S have broken up, and Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing are in love with each other, is it also fast?
Indeed, in many places, Yi Nengjing Qin Haodu and Big S and Wang Xiaofei have many similarities. Qin Hao Wang Xiaofei is an absolute straight man, while Yi Nengjing and Big S are very good at "doing". Before, some people always said that it was best to spoil a woman, but Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing had not been favored by the outside world since they were married. This is not surprising, as "straight-male" couples have always struggled to get to the end.
But the amazing thing is that these two people have not had any emotional problems in the years of marriage, but they often show their love openly, and the careers of both sides have reached a higher level. Then, why did the balance law of "straight men and women" get along fail here in Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing?
Deliberate flash marriage
The development of Yi Nengjing over the years is obvious to all, whether it is performing or singing and dancing, everything is held in hand. It was only before she met Qin Hao that her marriage was repeatedly frustrated, and she had confessed that she was tired of this state of life. It wasn't until she met Qin Hao, who was 10 years younger than herself, that Yi Nengjing found a new home. When participating in "Lu Yu has a date", Yi Nengjing recalled the scene when the two first met, and the happiness in her heart overflowed into words.
Yi Nengjing said that when she first met Qin Hao, he was wearing a literary and artistic suit, and when he raised his hands and feet, he revealed the appearance of "bad and bad, like a hooligan", which was her first impression of Qin Hao, and her heart had been captured at that time. When he learned that this man was a full 10 years younger than himself, Yi Nengjing's heart was very entangled, and he cried for a long time that night. Because she knew in her heart that the gap between grades could not be filled.
But what she didn't expect was that such a younger brother, who was 10 years younger than herself, would propose to her on one knee one day in the future. At that time, Yi Nengjing's heart was pondering: he had been divorced once, and after divorce, he stayed up for an unknown number of days and nights before he came out. Now that he has sold himself to the 10-year-old in front of him, he is now in his prime, can he bear it when the red tide of public opinion hits? At this time, Yi Nengjing maintained absolute sanity.
But then, seeing that Yi Nengjing did not answer for a long time, Qin Hao naturally saw through her heart. Yi Nengjing reminded him more than once that a marriage without the blessing of your parents cannot last long, and how should your parents account for it. In order to make his parents accept Yi Nengjing, Qin Hao knocked on the side and took a lot of thought to exchange for the opportunity to let Yi Nengjing go to his home for the New Year. The first time she went to Qin Hao's house, Yi Nengjing's heart was more than joy, but anxiety.
It was not until she met Qin Hao's mother that yi Nengjing's many worries in her heart were dispelled: Qin Hao's mother was very gentle, the kind of femininity that came out of her bones, which was Yi Nengjing's initial impression of her future mother-in-law. When Qin Hao's family was finished as a guest and was leaving, Qin Hao's mother told her that Hao Hao's child had been spoiled since childhood, and you should tolerate him more. As soon as she heard the words that were not rejected, Yi Nengjing cried at that time, facing the open-minded Qin Hao's mother, Yi Nengjing secretly vowed to live a good life with Qin Hao.
A sense of identity about marriage
Compared with the "work" of the larger S, Yi Nengjing is a rational "work", and such a "work" regulates the emotions between them and makes the marriage more sweet and interesting. Because Qin Hao was 10 years younger than her after all. She has high emotional intelligence, can be reconciled between her husband and mother-in-law, and has also met a mother-in-law with high emotional intelligence. Yi Nengjing once received a phone call from her son who was injured and flew directly to Taiwan, Qin Hao gave understanding and support, and placed it in ordinary people's homes, I am afraid that they will have to quarrel.
Yi Nengjing, who has been married once, is very clear that when married, he wants the families of two families to live together; the big S marriage surface is gentle but not a woman of great wisdom, she is also very scheming, before becoming famous, there was a capable dry father, and only debuted with her sister by this dry father. Compared with Yi Nengjing, their starting point is low, and they thought of marrying a rich man, but they deviated from reality, and in terms of seeing talent alone, they still cared about their own little calculations.
Since married, is the integration and tolerance of the culture and life concept of the two families, long-term with children living in Taiwan, living in two places, is an ordinary person will inevitably have problems, although Zhang Lan has a strong personality, blunt and quick-talking people, if you really go, not to mention that she is a Wang Xiaofei, can she still treat two children and daughters-in-law? Big S stubbornly made the people of her husband's family a guest, and she was not from the imperial family and nobility, why should she be on the top, marriage is the identity and integration of the living habits and culture of the two families.
Although Yi Nengjing "does", that kind of work is not a professional riot, but stems from the romantic nature and sensitivity of women, and she understands that no one is right or wrong, so when there is a wall, there will be no hostility, nor will she allow herself to violate the boundaries of others, and she also respects everything in the world. She hopes that she can be enlightened by wisdom, her purpose is to face life with each other, and in her heart she is not a little princess, but a woman who craves wisdom and happiness.
Qin Hao is a straight man, but a straight man with a very high IQ and emotional intelligence, his original family and beauty respect each other, so he is not emotionally low at all, he is very good at expressing emotions and is good at digesting his emotions, he is also very respectful, he knows when Yi Nengjing is insecure, he will not go with her but immediately pull her back to reality, and never gave up loving her. They can come out and show affection, because people have the ability to love.
Love is understanding and inclusion
Yi Nengjing is a small woman with heavy feelings, who cares about love very much, needs love, and is a woman who bravely pursues her own happiness. This relationship was not optimistic at first. For example, when giving birth to a child at an advanced age, even Qin Hao said that the person who will accompany me for a lifetime in the future is you, you are more important than the child, but she is still resolutely born, for love, she is not afraid to pay. So everything she gets is what she deserves.
At the same time, she is also an insecure woman, but she knows what she wants, knows how to love, can communicate, and will try to solve problems for the sake of the person she loves. What is love? It is not the effort, patience, and tolerance that everyone understands, love is deeply understood and accepted. Qin Yi is not a perfect person, but they are willing to deeply understand and accept each other, and will do their best to support each other's dreams while doing their own, which is the reason why they can be together for a long time.
Therefore, happy marriages are managed through the continuous efforts of both parties, even under the changes in the internal and external environment, they can still constantly adjust and maintain balance, and Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao are willing to cooperate with each other to help each other tacitly. On the other hand, big S and Wang Xiaofei, especially in the epidemic, only Wang Xiaofei has to accommodate and pay, and big S naturally goes its own way, not to go in opposite directions, so it is naturally difficult for the paying party to persist. What is the comment of everyone on this?