Between men and women, there should be only pleasure

I believe that many people who see my topic can't help but want to refute it, and even have the urge to scold. In fact, if you don't like it, you can choose not to continue to watch, and I will continue to maintain my point of view.

I believe that many men and women who have experienced marriage in marriage will say that the pleasure between men and women is short-lived, the ownership of a relationship is still marriage, and both parties to a marriage need to bear their responsibilities. But what I want to talk about is not marriage, but just love between men and women.

Whether heterosexual or gay, everyone chooses a relationship and interacts with a person because the other person brings you feelings that others can't give, whether it's happy, happy, exciting or romantic. Those who have special purposes, such as for the sake of rights or material relations, I will not be included in the range of feelings I want to talk about.

At the beginning, it is because of happiness, finding the motivation to love someone, and also feeling the sense of belonging to being loved, so despite all difficulties, we must choose to get along with each other day and night, wait for each other, and wait for each other. In fact, if you just love, until the shelf life of love is over and the hormones dissipate, there should not be too many complaints and accusations after separation. But why are many people hurt by love for a long time and can't get out of the last relationship? Because we put a lot of burden on love that only needs to be happy. In the end, what destroys a relationship is not unlove, but reality. This is also the reason why before marriage and after marriage, I feel that the other party has changed greatly, and both parties can no longer love each other.

Between men and women, in fact, only pleasure is enough. When it comes to giving to each other during marriage or love, that's another matter. Between men and women, everyone is together because they need each other, like each other, and are happy together, so although they are happy to get along, talk about the sweetest love, and deal with the most honey love. Unfortunately, many people are not satisfied with the current cheerful feelings, and they become greedy everywhere. Start to worry about the other party's love is not deep enough, not paying enough to you, not enough time with you, not tolerant enough to you, not enough respect for you... After entering the marriage, the other party began to ask the other party to shoulder the responsibility of supporting the family, requiring the other party's spiritual and physical loyalty, and demanding the sharing of the burden of life. Gradually, they felt tired from each other and finally tried to break free. Not to say that these requirements are wrong, but to say that life is life, marriage is marriage, love is love, and cannot be confused. If we talk about love, then simply talk about love, if we talk about life, then just talk about life, if we are considering marriage, then choose the person who can bear the marriage together.

We must understand that some people are only suitable for talking about love, some people are suitable for living together, and some people can bear the burden of marriage together. But these three kinds of people can't just be that person. This is like many men, requiring the desired female flower appearance, outstanding temperament, tall figure, gentle and considerate, intellectually generous, high literacy, high income, but also to be able to be tolerant and indulgent to men without a bottom line, no restraint, no restraint, no restraint, no contrivance, no stickiness, etc.

If men and women just simply talk about love and have fun with each other, I believe most people will get a lot of good love. Some people say that I am in love and rush to get married. Then you need to consider the proportion of love and marriage, if love is still important, then lower the requirements for each other, and be prepared to bear the painful risk of losing love in the future. If marriage is more important, I suggest considering for the time being whether the other person has the ability to build, assume, and maintain the marital relationship. After all, it is a bit unrealistic to confuse love and marriage, and it is more demanding of each other, and we must clearly know that everyone is not able to escape the word "vulgar" for the flesh of the mortal fetus, and there are still animal attributes that should be there, and the gray and dark side of human nature will never disappear.

If you just think about marriage simply, it's much easier than tying love together to think about. Everyone has their own standard needs for marriage, and everyone just needs to simply consider their own needs. I have talked to a friend about marriage before, and I agree with the other party that before entering the marriage, the two families have a consultation together. Talk about the pattern of life after marriage, the way of relationship maintenance, the frequency of the world of two people, the family expenses after the birth and maintenance of children, who brings children, who raises the family, how the economy is distributed, including how to deal with it in the event of disagreements or accidents between the two parties, and so on. These are all discussed together before marriage, negotiated with each other, and then considered the issue of entering the marriage. Personally, I think this is a wiser way, naturally, in the eyes of many people less "love" beauty. However, marriage has a great impact on the life of both men and women, and more rational treatment can avoid many risks. In marriage, each other is not only a lifelong partner, but also a comrade-in-arms on the road of life.

Therefore, many people who have failed marriages do not have to behead each other's abandonment or betrayal that led to the failure of the current marriage. There is no doubt that the other party has the responsibility that he should bear. However, should we ask ourselves whether we also need to bear certain responsibilities for this marriage, for example, in terms of choice, whether we did not think it through or investigate clearly and did not understand the marriage? Or do you always look at each other from the perspective of love and deal with problems? Or, or not. For the rest of our lives, we should think about what we really want? If you just need love, then love happily, enjoy it in love, don't care, don't expect anything else, calculate, look forward to it, that's your own greed. If you realize that you still need a long-term and stable marriage throughout your life, then temporarily abandon your emotional thinking and select the right people to form the marriage and family you want from a rational and objective point of view.

Everything has mixed advantages and disadvantages, landing on the ground, pragmatic, there is less pain from falling from a high place. In the final analysis, between men and women, there is only joy, and each other is relaxed and happy, which is actually the most beautiful form of love.

The above is just a personal opinion, pure pleasure, don't worry, calculate, is my wrong, I apologize. Friends who agree, please give me a thumbs up and let me know that there are also confidants in the world.