Essay Coward Lao Wang

Lao Wang is my neighbor to the door, the big name Wang Rulin, no one calls him, generally call him Wang Laoshi.

Lao Wang is really honest, always a cautious and polite look, speaking slowly and softly, never arguing with people, even between husband and wife, it is always his wife who speaks.

Lao Wang's wife is called Yu Min, with a pungent personality and a fiery wind. After living in the opposite door for so many years, he had never heard his wife Yu Min quarreling and shouting, but he had never heard Lao Wang speak loudly, let alone seen him lose his temper.

It is said that the relationship between such a husband and wife must be very harmonious, through my observation for so many years, I found that it is not at all! The relationship between the two can be said to be very cold, and the main reason is that Yu Min is very, very dissatisfied with Lao Wang, and feels that Lao Wang is a coward!

Over the years, the husband and wife have been arguing continuously, (of course, yu Min's unilateral fire is in full swing, and Lao Wang is allowed to let the storm and rain I stand still.) The few times the quarrel was the most severe, Yu Min threw down all the pots and pans at home, and all of them were to the point of going to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce. But in the end, there was thunder and rain, and it was not over. The neighbors were amazed that Yu Min, who had always been hot, would swallow his breath, could it be that the sun came out from the west?

At first, I was also puzzled, but later through Yu Min's idle idleness to my house and chatting with my daughter-in-law, I gradually learned the origin of some things.

Lao Wang and Yu Min met through the introduction of relatives, at that time Lao Wang was silent and taciturn, but Yu Min felt that Lao Wang was loyal and honest, plus his size, appearance, and family conditions were passable, so he married after two years. It is said that it has been in two years, but it does not add up to a month, the words spoken by the two people are not a hundred sentences, and mainly Yu Min said, Lao Wang listened, Lao Wang in addition to nodding his head, that is, "um", "OK", "can" "listen to you", so that Yu Min felt that Lao Wang was particularly intimate!

However, after getting married, Yu Min looked down more and more on Lao Wang, Lao Wang was too honest and often suffered losses, but Lao Wang was not in a hurry and did not get angry, this Buddhist appearance made Yu Min often angry!

The first large-scale quarrel between the two men (Yu Min's unilateral scolding) was thirty years ago, shortly after the two were married. Lao Wang unit is divided into houses, in that era the commercial housing is not the average family can afford to buy, many people have been counting on the unit to solve the housing problem for a lifetime! There are not many houses, only ten sets, for these ten houses, the people in the unit are fighting openly and secretly, the eight immortals across the sea are showing their magic, the trust relationship takes the back door, the guest gives gifts, the trustee intercesses, and the temporary climbing relatives, it can be said that these ten houses completely disturbed the peace of the unit. But Lao Wang was indifferent, what to do, Yu Min reminded him every day with the root of his ear to remind him to let him have a snack, but Lao Wang nodded and said nothing else. Lao Wang was doing technical work in the unit, and at that time, Lao Wang already had the title of deputy senior and was fully qualified to be assigned to the house, and the initial allocation list of the unit did have Lao Wang's name. Later, the wife of a colleague of the unit went to the unit to cry and make a fuss, threatening to commit suicide for the whole family if she did not give the house! This colleague is also doing technical work, but he is not familiar with Lao Wang, when Lao Wang went to work in the unit, this colleague has stopped working, it is said that he is seriously ill and has been sick at home for many years. The leaders of the unit are also very headaches, from the heart, such employees can no longer create value for the unit, not only can not create value, or a burden, the annual reimbursement of medical expenses is a large amount. However, if you don't give the house, in case you don't think about the real family committing suicide, the impact will be great. So I thought about it, and the unit leader studied and decided, or give it! But the problem is again, if you want to give, you have to take away one of the previously determined places. A turnip and a pit, it is not appropriate to take it away. In the end, the leadership decided to take away the old king, the old king is still young, there will be a chance to compensate in the future, and the old king is honest and generous, even if he takes it off, he will not make an overreaction. As a result, the leaders took turns to talk to Lao Wang and do their work, but to the surprise of the leaders, the leaders just mentioned the conversation, and Lao Wang immediately agreed, without any grievances or anger, it was almost like there was no such thing. The problem that caused the leaders headaches was solved so easily, and the final outcome was happy except for Lao Wang's family. The unit could not hide things, and soon the matter reached Yu Min's ears, Yu Min was so angry that he had gone back to his breath, and he cried and made trouble for a few days and finally dissipated his anger, but Lao Wang's nickname of "Wang Honesty" was called up! Of course, some people call Wang Honest in front of their faces, holding their mouths behind their backs - hey, the nest is wasted!

The second quarrel was that the child Xiaobao went to kindergarten, was bullied by the children in the same class, and his face was scratched, but the aunt of the kindergarten criticized Xiaobao fiercely and punished him for an hour! The child cried when he arrived home, and Yu Min was distressed. Later, I learned that the parents of the children who bullied Xiaobao were the leaders of a certain unit, and the power was full of oil and water! Yu Min was not angry, he had to find a kindergarten theory and make a fuss, but Lao Wang felt that it was not necessary, and he really couldn't change a kindergarten! Yu Min then quarreled with Lao Wang again and directly returned to her mother's house with the child.

The third, large-scale quarrel was ten years ago, when the unit was restructured and most of the employees were bought out and laid off. Yu Min heard that there were still some people in the unit who directly turned to career establishment, so that Lao Wang could walk away more and strive to stay in the unit. However, Lao Wang promised on his lips, and after that, he still went his own way, what to do, and as a result, he was bought out and laid off without accident. This gave Yu Minqi angry, pointing at Lao Wang's nose and scolding for two hours, let him call his son from out of town and inform him that she would divorce his father Lao Wang the next day! This day is a day that I don't want to spend with him again, too depressed,, cowardly! Although these two words had been cursed for decades, she still felt angry!

These are three large-scale quarrels, and as for the usual small-scale wars, it is even more commonplace!

My daughter-in-law asked Yu Min, don't you always say that you want to divorce him? Why haven't we left yet? Or reluctant to the old king!

Yu Min said helplessly, don't mention it, but it is not to leave, but every time before you wait to leave, Lao Wang will make something and delay the divorce!

The daughter-in-law came to be interested and said, what the hell is going on?

Yu Min said that after the first quarrel because of the separation of rooms, I was angry and regretted it, and I thought about how I found such a nest in the first place? However, within half a month, one of Lao Wang's technological achievements won the commendation of the province, creating a great profit for the technological innovation of the unit, as a result, the unit gave tens of thousands of bonuses, and in the past few years, the technological achievements have won the city's technological innovation contribution award, and suddenly won a bonus of 100,000 yuan! So, the two of them used this bonus to buy a house in the most upscale community in the city, which is the suite they live in now. With a house, divorce is nothing to do!

The second time was because the child received unfair treatment in the kindergarten quarrel, Yu Min said, originally I was still thinking of finding a teacher and the kindergarten director to break it, as a result, a few days later, Lao Wang reported to the child for martial arts classes and eloquence classes, and made a few very fun little toys for his son, so that his son could get the kindergarten to lend to the children to play! As a result, after a month, the child became the most popular person in the class, the classmates liked it, the teacher also liked it, and at the same time, the son's body was stronger, the eloquence was better, and the emotional intelligence was also greatly improved. The child is well, the matter has passed, and my anger has subsided, so I don't want to divorce.

What about the third time? Daughter-in-law asked. Oh, don't mention it, the third time is more interesting, I let Lao Wang walk around, the Toto relationship stayed in the unit, he did not listen, the result was smoothly laid off, gave me angry ah, called my son to say that he wanted to divorce his father, I really did not want to live with him, he is a nest, coward, this matter is too much to make me angry, I have already written a divorce agreement, as a result, the next morning there are several people to come to the house to invite Lao Wang, are some private business owners, give a higher treatment than one. Unexpectedly, our family Lao Wang just laid off the next day, and went to work! Before I could reconcile with him, people just slipped away and disappeared, how could this marriage be separated?

The daughter-in-law nodded unceasingly. Yu Min also said that there have been many things that have caused anger over the years, but every time Lao Wang recognizes it, even I can't get angry. For example, once, the children downstairs were naughty, with a slingshot to break the glass of my house, I want to find the door and say, but Lao Wang just won't let it, and within two days, he designed an explosion-proof window cover, covered the windows of the home, and was quite beautiful, and later applied for a patent, was bought by a factory, and put it on the market in large quantities. Another time, I was riding an electric car on the street, I was hit, people were not injured, but the car was broken, Lao Wang did not let the other party lose money, but returned home and directly modified my electric car, durable and beautiful and comfortable, I do not care! There are too many things like this. Yu Min said helplessly.

When my daughter-in-law told me this at night, I asked my daughter-in-law, do you say that Lao Wang is really a coward?