The book I recently read is called "The Moon and Sixpence," and the moon refers to dreams, and sixpence is reality. In both ideals and reality, everyone has become a slave to money, and the so-called "fish and bear paws cannot be combined."
The world hopes to earn money with dreams and carry dreams with money. Every day, I was busy for a few pieces of silver, looking up at the starry sky from time to time, and then looking at the dust under my feet, recalling the last plan I decided to realize my dream, and sighing and continuing to look down and confused.
Nearly thirty years old to understand some things, one is about the career, when I graduated, I wanted to be independent, busy earning money, many people were busy with civil servants, graduate school, and my decision was to do a private enterprise administration, busy every day before and after doing chores, saying that I had just graduated to exercise, I did not know that I had become a slave called by the employer at will, overtime had become a common thing, promotion was impossible, not to mention a salary increase, what was more unacceptable was the arbitrary deduction of wages, and now I think about regret. Here are some suggestions and comments to those who have had the same experience and are about to do these tasks:
Don't rush to find a job after graduation, you must make a career plan and determine the direction of career development.
Those who have the conditions must take the civil service examination once, they must go to state-owned enterprises or listed companies, and small companies must go cautiously.
Look at the company's development in recent years and the development prospects of this position.
Look at the temperament of the leader, a bunch of bad problems should not be considered, and it will be cool in a few years.
Looking at the office environment and the working status of colleagues, people are divided into groups by clustering, and those who are close to Zhu are close to ink and black.
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The second is about feelings. First of all, family feelings, I believe that most people are filial piety, hope that they will fight for their parents to get glory, send most of the money they have worked so hard to earn to the home, not that the family is short of money, just want to express that they are living well, in fact, they are just plain, for their parents are very proud, the more so the more for a young person who has just entered the society has formed a lot of pressure, and this pressure is completely given by themselves. The second is personal emotions, that is, people often say love, in the feelings of people, there is always one side of the payment is biased to the other side, this balance few people can balance. Love is sacred, there are beautiful and tragic, and we all want to be happy. In particular, girls always want to show and contribute the best things in exchange for another person's attention and true love, and as for whether the final ending is perfect, there is only time to witness. Personal lessons from the past:
You can be filial to your parents, but you can't become a "family bank.".
Communicate more with your loved ones, get a little help, and help yourself become a better social traveler.
First make yourself strong enough to participate in other people's troubles, recognize yourself, and figure out reality.
Love is not reciprocal, but it cannot be imbalanced, and if the deviation is serious, it needs to be broken.
Leave a true heart to yourself, do not give everything to others.
The third is about life. "Life should have a sense of ceremony", "minimalist life", "taste life"... To put it bluntly, I want to make my life more comfortable, every day's joys and sorrows are part of life, and positive and negative are also a wall of life. Disturbed by many factors, life is changing every moment, some talking in peace, some ups and downs. Stop and go, look east and west, unconsciously become a bystander of other people's lives, but their own lives are a mess. The left ear listened to him, the right ear believed in her, and living to become someone else's appearance. A few words of reflection on life:
Life is your own irrelevant to others, live your own day, be your own sunshine.
Simple life, tidy up the living space, clean the psychological space.
Take learning as an important part of life and find the right direction to face difficulties and favorable circumstances.
Sort out your head, analyze gains and losses, and be your own life steward.
Do a good job of sound insulation for the noise of others, and insist on listening to your own voice.
We are all ordinary people, and all that comes to mind is the simplest, but in a certain situation, the original appearance has been changed, so that the final result is not satisfactory. Everything you think and do is nothing more than a goal – to make yourself better off and the happiest person. That is very simple, that is, to love yourself, to "love yourself" from all aspects to be yourself, and then to become the self you want to be the most.