How sad is it for a person to end up alone?
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Recently, the famous "Qiong Yao Girl" Liu Xuehua suddenly returned to the public's vision as a guest of a reality show, evoking the youth memories of a large number of people.
This once-popular actress, with a pair of tearful eyes when she was young, became the hand-picked heroine of Qiong Yao drama, and has since successively starred in the role of empress dowager in large-scale costume dramas such as "The Biography of Zhen Huan", which is well known by generations.
Liu Xuehua, who participated in this variety show, is 62 years old, and at the moment she has no children and no daughters, and after her husband died unexpectedly, she lived alone for ten years.
The variety show she participated in this time is an observation documentary reality show in which the elderly living alone and the young "Shanghai Drift" live together, as one of the elderly living alone, Liu Xuehua for the first time showed his personal solitary life to the public, so that the audience can truly understand the retirement life of female stars.
"I rarely go out, and the most live creatures I get along with are the two dogs in the house"
"24 hours on TV just to make the home seem less deserted"
"I don't know anything about electronics and don't use my phone to order takeout"
"Worried that no one will know after falling at home"
"In another ten years, I will definitely go to a nursing home"
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These are the latest understanding of Liu Xuehua after the broadcast of the program, many people can't help but sigh after seeing the program, can't think of the dazzling "empress dowager", in reality has become a lonely, helpless single old man. But Liu Xuehua himself has also responded to this, and his life is not as miserable as the media portrays.
However, it is precisely because of the existence of this phenomenon that social pension problems such as "the old have no one to rely on and are out of touch with society" have aroused deep public thinking.
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According to statistics, there are about 260 million elderly people over the age of 60 in China, and more than 100 million people living alone and empty nesting. In this huge digital group, most of the elderly do not have Liu Xuehua's economic strength, and the difficulties they face are far more than that.
What are the pension dilemmas faced by the contemporary elderly?
Children are not around, there is no one to accompany and chat, entertainment life is lacking, plus the fear of aging and death, many elderly people suffer from a huge sense of loneliness.
For example, a sick old man, because he missed his relatives, walked more than 100 kilometers from Laiyang City, Shandong Province, to Laizhou City, Shandong Province, to visit his daughter, but lost his way when he approached his daughter's home, and the old man finally arrived at his daughter's home with the help of the police at the police station.
The times continue to progress, all kinds of new things have poured out, the elderly have gradually lost the ability to learn, their thinking has become more and more backward, life has become more and more difficult, and they are slowly abandoned by the times.
For example, in Heilongjiang before, there was an elderly person who used an elderly machine and could not scan the health code, but the epidemic prevention personnel required that the code must be scanned to be released. The old man was emotional: "No, there is nothing I can sweep." The two began to argue, and finally wrestled together. During the fight, the old man fell to the ground, the mobile phone was broken, and his face was injured. At the end of the day, he was still asking, "Why?" ”
Sudden illness is unknown, chronic disease is not cared for, and medical expenses cannot be afforded, which is the current situation of the elderly and the reality staged across the country.
For example, in Langhua East Street, Shahekou District, Dalian, there is a septuagenarian living here alone. The old man's son could not contact his father for some time. Later, the son went to his father's residence to check and found that his father was lying in the bathroom, unclothed, and had been dead for nearly a month.
Nannies and nurses beat and abused the elderly frequently, and the elderly suffer physical and mental injuries and suffer pain in their later years.
For example, an 86-year-old man in Shenyang was abusively beaten by a nanny at home, resulting in multiple facial bruises. The whole process was filmed by the surveillance installed by the children in the living room, which was extremely vicious and infuriating.
One living case after another pokes at the tears of the public, making people feel guilty and distressed. How many old people, hard for most of their lives, but can not get the treatment they deserve, can only spend their old age in loneliness and helplessness, our parents, will they face such a dilemma in the future?
The Chinese-style pension problem not only traps thousands of elderly people, but also traps countless young people who are worried about the problem of their parents' pension. How to break through this dilemma has become a social problem that generations of people have been dreaming of.
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Deeply studying the current situation of the contemporary pension industry, it is not difficult to find that what the elderly need is not only meticulous care, but also a high degree of recognition, warm companionship and just the right respect.
Being able to ensure the health of the elderly at any time, so that they feel warm, comfortable, dignified and feel that there is a valuable pension service, is the general trend of the future pension industry.
The one with the heart has set out. Aixinde Medical Care Center is people-oriented, cares for the elderly, takes the mission of creating a healthy, noble and valuable old age life for the elderly, faces the society, and actively explores a new model of old-age care.
Starting from multiple dimensions such as environment and service, we will create a new pension model of "medical care + convalescence", and create a multi-level and diversified old-age service system on the basis of meeting the living needs of the elderly, so that the elderly can enjoy their old age in peace and let their families rest assured!