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Don't know if friends have seen the book or movie "Wind and Rain Harvard Road"? I believe that everyone who has seen it will be impressed by the strength of the heroine Liz. Although the original family was extremely unfortunate, Liz still achieved great success by her own efforts. Perhaps, for poor people, the best way out of life is to read.
Some people say that the original family determines a person's life, but it is not. The family of origin will have an impact on our personalities and so on, but this is not absolute. In this world, some people are deeply trapped in the "quagmire" of the original family and complain about the unfairness of fate all day long; but there are also people who strive to get rid of the fate of the original family and start a new life.
• In Stormy Harvard Road, Liz is born in a slum and suffers terribly. In Liz's home, where her father was an alcoholic and drug addict and her mother was schizophrenic, we can imagine how miserable her life really was. Perhaps, these are placed on ordinary people, and they have long given up their efforts, but Liz has not given up.
• Although the government's relief money and the family's valuable things were used as gambling funds by her parents, she continued to work hard. To fill her hunger, she has licked toothpaste, picked up trash, worked underworld, and even stolen things in supermarkets. At school, she was also ridiculed and bullied by others. Because she was always ragged, smelly, and had lice on her head, but she didn't complain about all this.
• Something worse happened to Liz, her family torn apart, her father in the shelter, her mother remarried, and she had no choice but to wander all day. Later, she found that her boyfriend, who had always been able to warm herself, also took drugs, and her mother died tragically, so she decided to change, and she had to rewrite her life on her own. So she walked into the school and decided to save herself with knowledge. Eventually, she became an excellent Harvard graduate.
Liz once said: "People are not without choices, you can find all kinds of excuses for yourself to bow to life, you can also force yourself to create a better life." 」 "Yes, a man who doesn't push himself will never know how good he is. Of course, Liz's enrollment process was also very difficult, she not only had to study, but also had to support herself, but she survived. Along the way, she was not afraid of failure, not afraid of losing face, and finally achieved herself. She exchanged her efforts for the opportunity to climb out of her birth environment.
Why did Liz succeed? I think it's because she's driven to a dead end by life, because she wants to change her destiny. When a person's determination to change is made, he is indomitable. Liz never complained about her origins, because she knew that no matter what, she had to seize every opportunity in her life to make a leap forward in life.
Although in Liz's life, her parents never fulfilled a single ounce of responsibility, she did not condemn them, she said: "It was my parents who taught me to face the future, and if possible, I was willing to give up everything I had in exchange for the integrity of my family." "Yes, not every trauma is a disaster, and different choices can make life very different.
In modern society, many people begin to complain about their original family as soon as they mention their current life. It is impossible for a person to push the misfortunes of his own life to the original family. In this world, everyone has to survive, everyone will suffer, they don't want to climb out, and others will never be able to save you. After all, none of us can wake up a person who pretends to be asleep.
For us, the original family is just the starting point of life. Everyone's life depends on their own growth. Therefore, in this life, learn from Liz, do not complain, even in the dark days of life, we must pursue the light.
In this life, people may give up a lot of things, many people, but the most terrible thing is to give up on themselves. In this life, we all have unlimited possibilities, as long as we are willing to do our best to work hard. If a person is willing to degenerate, don't always blame the original family for being bad. As long as a person is willing, he will have countless ways to live his life well.
Finally, take action! Step forward and seek growth, we can always reach the other side of the ideal.
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