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Send children to school often walk in the alley, will pass a factory, high factory building blooming a huge cluster of triangular plum blossoms, enthusiastically pouring down like flowing water, sunny without a trace of clouds in the weather, this huge flower bush in the bright sunshine more and more delicate and moving, as if far away to usher in a girl with a healing smile, let you involuntarily indulge in it.
The background is a clean and almost transparent blue sky, and the picture is so beautiful that it is heart-warming. My day is very good because of these flowers.
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Hurrying to send my daughter to campus, I carefully admired it when I folded it back, and praised it over and over again in my heart.
I parked my motorcycle on the side of the road, pulled my phone out of my bag, took pictures, long-range, close-ups, close-ups, and smiled while taking pictures.
After filming for a long time, I reluctantly put away my mobile phone and prepared to leave, just in front of a short-haired sister who was also holding a mobile phone to shoot flowers, her eyes inadvertently smiled at me like meeting a familiar old friend and said to me: "I also took these tweeds here yesterday, so beautiful!" I also smiled and responded: "Haha yes, the flowers are so beautiful, I just took a lot of pictures." ”
On the way out, I felt a warm feeling in my heart. People who love flowers are like this, when they see beautiful flowers on the road, they are happy, they want to keep them with photos, and they want to share this joy with others. In addition, it is a privilege to meet people who also love flowers, who are strange to each other but are familiar with flowers, and this feeling is as warm as having a confidant.
Recently, I bought a black knit shirt online, with a circle of ruffles sewn on the shoulders, one left and one right, and a circle of white ruffles rolled along the ruffle edges. This ruffle stretches from the chest to the back, the size is uneven, and the charm is slightly playful, and I matched it with a dark brown pleated skirt.
Long jet-black hair cascaded down the shoulders, a white pearl hairpin was clipped between the left side of the hair, and a pair of transparent beaded earrings made into the shape of a butterfly were worn, and I stood in front of the mirror to carefully look at my own magical appearance, and I couldn't help but be surprised to find that I was also suitable for wearing black.
Sighing that time is leisurely, the years are hurried, but fortunately, even if there is a chicken feather in the marriage, the chai rice oil and salt in life, it has not changed me much, and I am still a face that can trace some girlish atmosphere in the mirror, and there is still a poetic woman in my heart.
Growing up, I didn't like black, much less did I wear black. In my impression, black seems to be synonymous with darkness, depression, and lifelessness, and although I am quiet on the outside, I also have a sunny heart.
I like the color is a small fresh light color system, especially prefer pink, summer I wear pink dress, winter I wear pink sweater, the objects used also like to pick pink to buy, for example, the ceramic cup used in the office is pink, the laptop external small keyboard is also pink, cold bought a water cup heating pad at hand, also habitually bought a pink, friends and colleagues around me laughed that I am a "pink control". My colleague's sister, who was sitting next door to me, couldn't help but say to me, "I really convinced you." "Haha.
The girlish heart full of pink bubbles is increasingly catering to women in their 20s and 30s, as if the older they are, the more they like cute and cute things.
Why would I, a fan-hungry person, go online to buy a black dress that I didn't like since I was a child?
Because I want to try.
The older people get, the more adventurous they seem to become, the more they like new things, and they like to make a difference every day. I have become accustomed to the old days of the past and have begun to long for a more interesting life.
Today, I am brand new, because I wear a black dress that I have never worn before. Walking on the street, I also began to change my perspective, change my direction, and look at the world with a new eye.
Sometimes people should be like this, out of the comfort zone that they have long been accustomed to, to try it, to wear clothes that have not been worn, to eat food that has not been eaten, to walk the road that has not been walked, there will always be some new discoveries, so that people will have a full and rich experience like a rainbow in the sky.
The woman I most aspire to be is the kind of heroine of the big pattern of "my heart is full of stories, but I don't see the wind and frost in my eyes"
Ever since my family's children went to kindergarten, I took off the label of so-and-so's mother for a while. Finally, I can have the freedom to breathe, and I can be myself for the time being.
In the two hours between coming home from work at noon and going to work at 2:30 p.m., I was able to do whatever I liked.
Generally, I can read and write, but also chase dramas and brush my mobile phone. Occasionally give yourself a cup of diy milk tea, fill it with a beautiful bluebell pattern cup, and then squeeze a thick circle of cream on it, insert a glass straw, and add a mint leaf, which is both beautiful and delicious than what is sold outside, and it is considered to be a successful pleasure to yourself. Watch a movie while drinking milk tea.
Watching the Japanese anime movie "If I Can Ride the Waves with You" recommended by internet celebrity bloggers, according to her, it is a high-sweet movie. 30+ old girls want to see how sweet it really is.
When the male and female protagonists sat side by side to eat, and the girl scooped up the rice grains with a spoon in her left hand and brought them to her mouth, the boy turned his head and asked her: "Isn't it delicious to use your left hand?" The girl smiled back at him: "It doesn't matter, I have practiced, so I can hold hands with you when I eat." When I'm with you, I want to touch you all the time. Immediately after that, the footage in the film clearly zoomed in on the picture of the two of them with their hands and ten fingers clasped together and sprinkling dog food.
Ah, that's too sweet. I flipped the picture back and recorded the scene just now with the video of my mobile phone, and wanted to share this sweetness with the one in my family, either to let him learn the routine in the movie, or to share the closest people around me purely, when I met something funny.
After filming and thinking about it carefully, the straight man like him, read the message, either dismissively, or simply do not reply. Forget it.
There are some beautiful and touching bits that should be shared with those who understand it. People who don't know how to understand its beauty, you force it into him, and then you are said something inconspicuous or the sea is not responded to, which makes each other unhappy, but it is a bad abuse of this beauty.
I still silently deposit it in my mobile phone and quietly store it in my heart. I have rejoiced in my heart, and it is enough.
After the age of longing, I accidentally broke into the castle of marriage, naively thinking that it was a continuation of the love fairy tale, how to expect a loud slap in reality to catch me off guard, and I will not be spared because of your weak concessions.
The happy ending of the prince and princess that she had fantasized about countless times as a girl was not as perfect as imagined, on the contrary, it was full of difficulties at any time, and it was not satisfactory.
As a result, the other half of the Sea Oath Mountain Alliance evolved into a mediocre pig teammate, and the fairy tale love of the two loves degenerated into a mediocre partner to live a life. There was no tearing in the heart and lungs, and no longer struggling, but I saw the truth, recognized others, and understood myself. Overnight, the ignorant and casual girl grew into an emotionally stable mature woman.
Instead of being as persistent and intense as when I was younger, I am more unhurried.
Recently, I have cleaned up my room and looked at the notebooks that I used to write articles, and the simple and elegant words revealed a pure and dustless heart at the beginning.
I once wrote: "Life is sometimes a few crystal fragments, scattered, some transparent, and some covered with a thin layer of dust, but under the sun, it can reflect a brilliant and colorful light." Life is trivial, but our lives are complete because of these trivialities. ”
Having experienced marriage and children, experiencing not only piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry and hops in life, but also chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, to this day, re-reading these sentences again, I accidentally found that I was already so transparent, but later I was tossed by the turbidity of life to forget my original intention!
Wanting to live the life you want to live, wanting to live a little better every year, is ultimately a war of your own, doomed to go it alone.
Therefore, no matter how difficult it is, I must dress beautifully, and no matter how hard my life is, I must also live a decent life. Not to show anyone, but to remind yourself at this moment: "If you fall down, you can lie on the ground and cry, then wipe away your tears and get up and continue to laugh and walk forward." ”
Finally, I encourage myself with the sentence I once wrote: "I hope that my heart is like pure water in a glass of water, and no matter what life puts into it, it has the ability to purify it." ”
About the author: Tianxia. Love to write, believe in beautiful middle-aged girls. I look forward to sharing with you my daily life and growth insights.