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The reflected arc is also a type of light

author:something216

There is a book called "Blunt Sense" that I recently remembered and read again, and many times we just fell into the closed loop of thinking and couldn't communicate with other people. It is also a talent, to forget unhappy things, to face gossip calmly, and to be grateful for jealousy and sarcasm.

Some people may think that such a person is not a brain problem, which is a kind of wisdom, attitude and survival skills. In this era of complex and indifferent relationships. Learning to reduce sensitivity and maintain a tolerant, calm, calm, and peaceful mindset will be the law for resolving various interpersonal crises, contradictions and conflicts and establishing harmonious interpersonal relationships.

No matter how smart you are and how good you are in your studies, if you can't handle interpersonal relationships well, you can't enjoy a happy and meaningful life. When we face criticism and ridicule, we should not be depressed because of trivialities, but should treat life with a positive and cheerful attitude. Although it gives people a feeling of dullness, a negative phenomenon of Mune, blunt sensitivity is the means and wisdom for us to win a better life.

The reflected arc is also a type of light

At the same time, blunt sensitivity is also a talent, many insignificant things have nothing to do with themselves, and they will not consume themselves, so that they can concentrate on doing their own things, just a few gossip, they do not hear self-shielding without any interference.

We always say that we are injured, that we are victims, and that when we are deeply affected by them, we will be unable to extricate ourselves, but when we give ourselves blunt sensitivity, what we see is also floating clouds. If you don't think about it and realize it, you won't hurt yourself at all.

Seeing too clearly and doing things always say right and wrong, such a life is a sense of guilt. There are only two choices for forward and backward, in fact, in addition to waiting in place, can not see and hear, this is a kind of wisdom, life is also a green system, there is no emotional fluctuations and interpersonal complex. Such a life is longer, and it is also conducive to the preservation of life.