Those red sheep and black sheep and innocent sheep

There is a story of the red sheep and the black sheep.

The red sheep and the black sheep met on a one-way bridge, and both sheep wanted to cross the river and go grazing on the other side. The bridge is narrow, only enough for a sheep to walk over, and below is a rushing river, and if it falls, it will undoubtedly die. Only one sheep can go back first, and let the other sheep go first.

Which sheep would choose to back down? Suppose that of the two sheep, the red sheep is a rich man with a happy family and good health, while the black sheep is a poor man and terminally ill. Obviously, the answer is: whoever is happy will choose to back down. In reality, however, things are not so simple.

In 2018, in a supermarket in Qinhuangdao, Zhao Mou, an employee of a fruit stall, stabbed the old couple who bought watermelon to death with a knife, and then committed suicide.

Originating from half a watermelon, the old couple was not satisfied with the half watermelon they bought, and repeatedly went to the supermarket to find Zhao mou to quarrel, which eventually led to tragedy.

On October 10 this year, a major criminal case that shocked the whole country occurred in Putian, Fujian Province, resulting in the death of 2 people and the injury of 3 people. And the suspect eventually committed suicide in fear of guilt.

A dispute over the building of a house. The suspect wanted to build a house on a piece of land, but due to a dispute over the land, he was stopped by his neighbors, resulting in the suspect's family living in a broken rain shelter for five years, which eventually led to crime.

It just happened in the last few days. At about 19:00 on November 13, a case of intentional injury caused by a parking lot management dispute occurred at the entrance and exit of a parking lot on Tianhe Road in Guangzhou, and The owner of the Mercedes-Benz, Liu Mou, was stabbed to death by security guard Hua. The Network rumors that Liu Mou entered the parking lot because the speed of the car was too fast and the security guard who asked for parking inspection had a dispute, during which the speech was too extreme, resulting in the security guard's anger and bloodshed. Neither the suspect nor the victim was forty years old.

Reality is far less black and white than fables.

But a few things are similar in that after a conflict occurs, one side is strong and does not forgive. Whether it's an old couple buying watermelons, a murdered neighbor or a Mercedes-Benz owner. It is originally a small thing, if you have a little bigger heart, know how to forgive people and forgive people, once you go away, maybe both sides will live a very normal life.

The story of the Red and Black Sheep is about whoever is happy gives in. The right thing to do should be: whoever wants to continue to be happy will give in.

Poor or rich, who is not the child of the parent, the parent of the child, the husband of the man, the wife of whom. Everyone has a window of lights waiting for you to go back, and there are long days waiting for you to operate.

Since ancient times, there is a famous saying: a good man does not eat the loss in front of him. Its essence is to stop losses in time.

"Endure for a while in exchange for a lifetime of peace."

Take a step back, the sea and the sky. ”

This sentence is suitable for everyone as their motto, remembered for a lifetime.