Not a husband and wife, can you love each other for a lifetime? I believe that many people will say: "Even husband and wife may not be able to love each other for a lifetime." There are many couples who will love each other very much at the beginning, and slowly over time, some people will ignore each other's feelings because of chai rice oil and salt, some people will often quarrel because of the three views of discord, and some will change their feelings because one party continues to work hard, the other has been standing still, everyone has a different generation gap of ideological realms, and the heart will go farther and farther.
There is such a man and a woman, and their way of loving each other is very special. Yunjiao 36-year-old divorced with a 10-year-old daughter, He Wei 28 years old unmarried, and Yunjiao is working in the same unit, because of the relationship between work He Wei and Yunjiao often contact, they work very tacitly, often help each other, for a long time they have become good friends who have nothing to talk about, they all understand each other, sometimes a look, or said the first half of the sentence The other party knows what to say next sentence, they are unconsciously in love with each other, they miss each other a day, and they will involuntarily smile when they think of each other. But because the woman is 8 years older than the man and still has a child, everyone is very cautious and has not confessed, but everyone feels the love of the other party in their hearts.
One day, the unit had a meal, they all drank wine, after the meal, He Wei sent Yunjiao home, drove through a more secluded place to park, He Wei borrowed wine to boldly confess to Yunjiao, the brother had the intention of the sister, they couldn't help but kiss in the car, this is He Wei's first kiss, they frantically carried out a sweet and evocative long kiss! From that day on, they officially interacted, they had a very happy and sweet life every day, they enjoyed two years of happy life, He Wei was thirty years old and the family kept urging marriage, so they all met the parents of both sides, both parents were strongly opposed after seeing, the man's parents suspected that the woman was too old and married and had children, and also said: "If you want to get married unless they die." The woman's parents feel insecure about marrying someone so young! Now say very much love, ten years, twenty years later, what if a woman is rejected when she is old?
Yunjiao is a little older, and her mind is also a little more mature, and she thinks about it after thinking about it: Since she can't get married, don't delay He Wei's marriage and children, or take the initiative to let it go. She quit her job and was ready to take her daughter to live in another city, so she proposed to He Wei to break up and asked him to find someone to marry again. He Wei resolutely disagreed with the breakup, but Yunjiao's intentions were irretrievable, and finally He Wei wanted Yunjiao to agree to a request before he was willing to break up, the requirements were: after the breakup, everyone should be good friends, once a month to talk on the phone, and to accompany him to eat two meals a year! In the end they reached a consensus. A year later, He Wei found another woman to marry and have children, and Yunjiao has not married.
They talk on the phone once a month, don't say vague words about missing each other, talk about each other's recent situation like old friends, and sometimes say: How are you doing lately? Or the weather turns cooler, pay attention to keep warm! Each other will feel the incomparable warmth and know the thoughts and concerns in each other's hearts! Every year they go to their old place (the same table in the same restaurant) to eat together twice, ostensibly they are old friends eating together, only they know that they love each other deep inside!