How can a person see the world? Have you been to a few countries, a few cities, a few landscapes, or a university, how many delicacies have you tasted, how many expensive items you have? Admittedly, traveling, studying, meeting people, and experiencing things all help us see the world, but it's not just that.
People who have seen the world will respect others and accept differences. They don't judge others at will, they don't try to change others, they never think of themselves as the center of the world, and they don't impose their own preferences and opinions on others.
People who have seen the world will sincerely say thank you to restaurant waiters, business salesmen, community security guards, and cleaning staff.
People who have seen the world have always sought common ground while reserving differences. They know that the world is big, there are many ways to live, and they can accept people who are different from their own way of life.
People who have seen the world will give others enough freedom and comfort, even to their own families, he is more of a guide and advice than an intervention.
People who have seen the world have never been humble and calm. In front of people who are stronger than themselves, they will not whisper. In front of people who are worse than themselves, they will not be arrogant. This is true decency after seeing the world.
People who have seen the world are not impatient when things happen, and they are calm in their dealings. A person's reaction when he encounters accidents, unfair treatment, troubles and difficulties will fully reflect his pattern.
He can calmly accept the unpleasantness in life and laugh at them instead of getting angry and angry.
When Su Shi saw Wang Gong and his concubine Rou Nu, who had returned to Beijing after being degraded to Lingnan for many years, he was surprised to find that the return of Wanli was getting younger and younger, smiling and smiling with Ling Meixiang. He asked Rou Nu intimately: Should Lingnan be good? But he said, "My heart is at peace."
A little girl, born in the capital and raised in the capital, will be haggard when she encounters such an encounter. However, it was just a smile. This smile made Su Dongpo, who had experienced great winds and waves, stand in awe, which was the real sight of the world.
He who has seen the world sees the heavens and the earth and sees all beings, and then sees and accepts himself.
He does not rely on the opinions of others to affirm himself, and he does not dress himself up with things outside his body. What a person does and does not do, no one will really be interested in your life except loved ones, they will only point fingers.
Live your own style, be spiritually self-reliant, do not need to pay attention to the judgment of others, and do not mind the eyes of others.
Yu Minhong often laughs at himself in public for being an "earth turtle." However, when the dust of history fell on him, his attitude to the problem, the way he handled things, and the spirit of never giving up showed people the wonderful side of a person who had really seen the world.
Those who have seen the world are by no means frogs at the bottom of the well. Without vision, you don't even have the opportunity to talk to others normally, because you can't understand what people are talking about.
Spend more energy and time reading, books are the door to open the treasure house of knowledge, books are the treasure of people's wisdom. Reading history makes people wise, reading poetry makes people smart, reading makes you see the world widely, and lets the spirit walk in places that cannot be reached by footsteps.
Create the conditions to travel. "On paper, I finally feel shallow, and I know that I have to do this thing", travel makes people really feel the color of the world.
On the road, people are not so narrow, there are not so many prejudices, the heart seems to be wider, can accept the existence of many things, can respect the way of life of different people, and it is easier to understand that others hold different values from themselves.
So, the more you see and the more you experience, the more you will understand that being yourself is the most important thing.
The real person who has seen the world is the thinking, internalization, and practice after "seeing", and only by learning to respect, accept, equalize, be humble, and be able to practice it is the person who has truly seen the world and has a big pattern.