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23. Whether marriage matters are up to their parents or to their own

I have said more than once that my amount of alcohol is not very large, but what I did not say is that I have been able to drink since I was a child, but once I drank too much, and it hurt, so since then I have been annoyed with drinking, so that the full body mechanism activates the protective measures on its own, more than one bottle will be drunk, and then go to sleep, this time is the same, don't say that it is five people, even if it is Xiao Jing's father alone, look at the way he drinks liquor, I know that two I bundle up a piece and drink him, finished, this is definitely not good with the future husband, I thought so before I fell asleep.

23. Whether marriage matters are up to their parents or to their own

The groggy head suddenly had a hint of lucidity, and the six senses of the body slowly recovered, and I heard Xiao Jing and Xiao Jing's mother talking next to me, Xiao Jing said; Mom, Dad, why do they want me to drink so much wine, you see this has been sleeping for two hours and has not woken up, and it is still five of them drinking one.

Xiao Jing mother; alas, silly boy, your father they are not for your own good, this person is awake, you can not see what kind of person, this drinking is not the same, drunk people are the most accurate, usually do not say things on the wine table can say, your father they are not pouring wine, but testing whether he is really good to you.

Xiao Jing; what about the result? My dad what they said.

Xiao Jing's mother; just now your father said; this child is a good, real, not slippery head, personality straight to the point will not turn, to say that being a friend is definitely the best candidate.

Xiao Jing heard this and said; then did my father agree?

23. Whether marriage matters are up to their parents or to their own

Xiao Jing's mother hesitated for a moment and said; YaTou, honest people who go straight to the top are suitable for being friends but being husband and wife Your father means that it is not ideal, Xiao Jing frowned, Xiao Jing's mother continued to say; You don't have to worry, at first I didn't agree with your father's statement, but you listened to your father's words, he said; you really want to marry him, he may not have a change of heart for you, on the contrary, you will not suffer losses after you get married in your current state, but he is too straightforward, then he will definitely suffer losses in society. And it may suffer a big loss, so it will affect you, and even if you say that you don't care, but his personality is covered with a good one, once he goes out independently, he will definitely run into walls everywhere, then your life will certainly not be too rich in the future, is it difficult for you to accompany him back to his hometown to farm?

Xiao Jing listened to the bulging voice; Mom, I know the personality of Brother Tian, he is not very able to speak, nor will he sneak around, I know this, but don't you feel that such a man I will be very down-to-earth once I marry him? He is an honest man, I also liked this, after marriage he was outside even if I was not by her side, I did not worry that he would be out of the woods, and his teacher is not pedantic, you don't know how dexterous he is in the kitchen, I praise him up and down in the hotel, and my mother really likes him.

23. Whether marriage matters are up to their parents or to their own

Xiao Jing's mother touched Xiao Jing's head; silly girl, you are the flesh that fell from my body, what do you think I don't know yet? But girl, have you ever heard the phrase 'Poor couple Pepsi lament'? You are still in love, you still can't feel it, wait until you really get married will know that the family's living standards are absolutely proportional to the happiness index, you also said that he is not highly educated in junior high school, what about you? Similar to him, that is to say, in the future, you two will not have any other way to earn money except to work for others, and I heard that his family situation is not very rich, not to mention that he has a younger brother, so that his family basically can't help him, let alone our family.

If you really want to get married, your dowry, your mother will have to raise it well, not to mention helping you later. So the girl listened to her mother's advice, love can not be eaten as rice, but money can be exchanged for food, you said that which family that you have kissed before is not better than his family conditions, others do not say that Wang Cheng, the guy is tall, looks white and pure, the most important people's conditions you know, but you can still find a second family in these ten miles and eight villages?

Xiao Jing actually cried when she heard this, and said intermittently: Didn't you disagree with Wang Cheng before your mother? And I hate Wang Cheng the most, you know that.

Xiao Jing's mother has not waited to speak, but another voice has spoken; Xiao Jing, dad told you; your mother did not agree with Wang Cheng before that the child was not very stable, but recently we found that Xiao Wang Cheng has been good in the past two years, and we also want to see how you are looking for yourself. However, this colleague of yours cannot say bad, but compared with Wang Chengyi, it is obvious, if nothing else, just say; if you and he really get married, where will you live? Does his family have a house? Xiao Jing said stubbornly; Brother Tian said that we should build five large tile houses ourselves, and buy me the best vanity mirror?

23. Whether marriage matters are up to their parents or to their own

oh. You build your own, what about the money? I reckon their countryside is similar to ours, kid, do you know how much it costs to build a house now? Just to get a big frame will have tens of thousands, plus decoration and what is not all down there is not a hundred thousand frightened? How much can he do at home to help him? As far as his salary of 700 yuan a month is concerned, you yourself calculate when you can live in the big tile house you said, a good one, it will take more than ten years, girl, you are me and your mother's baby, how can we bear to tell you to suffer? And his family is so far away from us in Inner Mongolia, even if my mother and I want to help you, we can't help it." But what about Wang Chengjia? People are now a newly built house, the family is still Wang Cheng a child, to put it badly, wait for you to marry the past, in two years Wang Cheng's father left, that is not both of you? Speaking of this, Xiao Jing's mother seems to have hit Xiao Jing's father, which means telling Xiao Jing's father not to talk nonsense. But Xiao Jing's father said: You hit me and he is the same reason. On the one hand, you are blessed after marriage, and on the other hand, you suffer after marriage, so you don't know how to choose?

23. Whether marriage matters are up to their parents or to their own

I heard that my heart was very nervous here, and I wanted to hear how Xiao Jing answered. You don't say Xiao Jing, even I listened to his parents' words and felt that I should choose Wang Cheng ah, Xiao Jing's parents are not wrong, Xiao Jing if you marry me, I really can't give her happiness in a short time, according to my situation at that time, filial piety to my parents analyzed very correctly, at that time my family really could not give me too much help, although I believe that my parents will do their best to help me, but there is no money in my own family, if you want to help me, you have to go out and borrow money, what I oppose most is that my parents borrow money for me, so I would rather not get married. But if Xiao Jing has to follow me to live in a fixed place, drifting around, I love this girl very much, how can I bear to let her suffer with me,

I'm sure I'll be able to make money when I learn to cook well in the future, but now? Because I am too late in the kitchen, and my age is here, if I am seventeen or eighteen, I can pat my chest and Xiao Jing's parents promise that I will definitely be able to make Xiao Jing live a good life when I get married, but now there is no time for me to work hard. Wang Chengyi and I made a judgment on the superiority or inferiority, and at this time, my heart was bottomless. I just want to hear how Xiao Jing answered