A woman's best state is "age is a mystery, and her body is invincible". This is absolutely appropriate for Liti Zhong!
Born in 1970, Zhong Liti, who is now 46 years old, has long been able to be the mother of xiaohua in the entertainment industry, but she has been presenting an excellent state of "the old woman is always 20 years old".
Although she became famous at a young age, became popular throughout Asia, and had a smooth career, Zhong Liti's love life was very bumpy.
To what extent is it bumpy?
Before Zhong Liti met Zhang Lunshou, she had been married twice and had 3 daughters.
In the face of love, Zhong Liti took the initiative to give up her career every time and returned to the life of her husband's godson. But the persistence of this moth to put out fire is exchanged for being disappointed and hurt again and again. Zhong Liti said with great disappointment:
"Learn how to love those who are good to you and forget those who don't know how to cherish you."
In 2015, Zhang Lunshuo confessed to Zhong Liti and proposed marriage:
After the two got married, they were not optimistic for a while! But 6 years later, her marriage to Zhang Lunshou is beyond imagination.
The two also brought their mother-in-law to the show together, and netizens saw Zhang Lunshou massage For Zhong Liti, and they all expressed their real name envy!
For example, once Zhong Liti and Zhang Lunshou were photographed at the airport, Zhong Liti hugged Zhang Lunshou as soon as she hugged zhang.
Seeing Zhong Liti's loving actions, Zhang Lunshou was shy. Netizens have said that this scene is real and sweet.
Zhang Lunshuo really spoiled Zhong Liti too much
Seeing this, you must be wondering what kind of magic Zhong Liti used to make her marriage go from bleak to sweet, and made a big turn of one hundred and eighty degrees.
#1
Love house and U, high emotional intelligence
Wise women are sober in big things and confused in small things. Girls should broaden their horizons and think differently.
For example, on the issue of attracting men, most women think about how to please the man.
If we broaden our horizons, we will find that if we make men's families happy with us, men will gradually like us later.
As we all know, Zhong Liti's mother-in-law was very dissatisfied with this daughter-in-law at first, because she thought that Zhong Liti was too old.
But Zhong Liti did not care about the bad words before the mother-in-law's marriage, she knew that the mother-in-law was going to come to the show, intimately bought beautiful clothes for the mother-in-law, helped the mother-in-law paste double eyelid stickers, coaxed the mother-in-law to be happy, it can be said that the emotional intelligence is very high.
Another time, when the media asked Zhang Lunshou:
"If your mother and Zhong Liti fell into the water at the same time, who would you save?"
Zhang Lunshuo replied, that should be to let Zhong Liti save my mother, right? Zhong Liti also echoed Zhang Lunshuo at the side:
"Yes, yes, I must have saved my swimming so well, which is consistent with my idea!"
Zhong Liti's answer is very atmospheric, and the emotional intelligence highlighted is also very high. Who can not love her high emotional intelligence!
#2
Accept the imperfections of your lover
There is an unspoken rule in marriage that:
There is no perfect lover, only by accepting the imperfection of the lover, marriage can be happy.
Although Yang Dai and Qian Zhongshu have always been hailed as representatives of contemporary perfect marriage. But you know what? In "The Two of Us", Yang Dai still "counts" a lot of lover's imperfections:
Concentrate on studying and learning, and do not understand the world;
Poor ability to live, ignorant of household chores.
But she fully accepted this imperfection, and it was this unconditional love and acceptance that made the two of them a harmonious and happy marriage.
Too many fans complain to me:
"After marriage, I felt that I was blind, how could I find such a man?"
Before marriage, I think that men are the perfect male gods, but after marriage, I degrade men to nothing, that is because many girls have an idealized understanding of marriage.
They often choose rich people and expect men to have more time with themselves;
Or maybe she chose someone who is generous and responsible, and feels that men are not romantic at all.
Therefore, in marriage, women must adjust their expectations and accept the imperfections of their lovers, and our marriage will become more perfect.