As we all know, Chen Xiaochun and Ying Cai'er are immortal lovers in the entertainment industry.
Whether on a variety show or in everyday life, they are either sprinkling sugar or on their way.
The good husband set has brought huge traffic to Chen Xiaochun and made everyone generally believe that he has been a good man from beginning to end.
But at first, Chen Xiaochun was a well-known playboy in the Hong Kong entertainment industry, a "bad man" without compromise. But after meeting Ying Cai'er, he was like a demon, and his whole person changed.
Can you imagine that the wild and unruly "pheasant" actually signed a deed of sale for Ying Cai'er at the wedding? It is not an exaggeration to say that he is the prodigal son to turn back!
So what spell did Ying Cai'er use to make that once debauched pheasant brother become a good gentleman?
Let's start the trick of slashing Ying Cai'er's husband!
01
Gentle and considerate, to soft ke gang
There is such a survey that asks what kind of personality a man would most like his future wife to have?
The most mentioned words are, sensible, kind, gentle and considerate.
Since ancient times, men have been ashamed of their dependence and need for women, but that gentle place is really the strength of their conquest of the world against the years.
Although in the eyes of outsiders, Ying Cai'er is "too lively", in front of Chen Xiaochun, she will always be a gentle and considerate little woman.
After getting married, Ying Cai'er put away her grinning nature and managed the family in an orderly manner.
Because her husband Chen Xiaochun is a "life idiot" who does not know the size of his wife's shoes and cannot remember the Wi-Fi password at home, plus she has been working outside all year round, she is destined to become the one of the two who pays more for the family.
Because Ying Cai'er pays more for the family and satisfies Chen Xiaochun's sense of accomplishment for family happiness, Chen Xiaochun naturally pays more for the love of the two people.
He is not good at words, he will restrain his temper for Ying Cai'er, will carefully prepare surprises and romances, and will take her everywhere to travel and prepare surprises. These are all changes made by Brother Pheasant, and they are also evidence of his love for Ying Cai'er.
02
Increase the sense of ceremony and attract each other
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
No matter how long you are together, you will still maintain the beginning of love, be deeply attracted to each other, do not worry about the future, and do not confuse the present, which is probably the best state in love.
Life has a sense of ceremony, and it does not make feelings monotonous. So what is ritual?
Haruki Murakami said: Ceremony is a very important thing.
When walking, you deliberately crouch down to help me tie my shoelaces, which is a ritual;
When shopping, you deliberately remember that the clothes I like to buy and give to me are rituals;
Someone else's birthday you cut the cake down the first knife is the ceremony;
Tearing off the plastic packaging of a new book is also a ritual.
In fact, flipping through Ying Caier's Weibo, it is easy to understand why the number of seven years is not a "seven-year itch" for them, but only a time node to record their love.
They'll spend important holidays together, take funny selfies together, and have no image at all; they'll have birthday parties at home together and eat Pizza made by Jasper himself;
Even if you are busy at work, you will still go out on a trip together, wearing a straw hat and big sunglasses to take photos on the beach...
Keeping a fresh feeling in love is always a compulsory lesson for getting along.