Teenage couples come and go
People often say that "the most beautiful is the sunset red", and today, with the continuous changes in the overall social structure, the proportion of the aging population is increasing, and the number of single elderly people is also increasing. However, judging from the general situation of marriage and love for the elderly, it is not optimistic. As far as people in real society are concerned, the possibility of remarriage will not be too high when they are over fifty years old. As far as "sunset love" is concerned, it is even less common.
In fact, many single elderly people now want to have a home, no matter what kind of home, as long as they can live happily and healthily, it is happiness. Children are grown up, may not be around them, and are afraid of causing trouble for their children and do not want to live with them. That life alone, there will always be a lack of liveliness, and the home is always deserted.
Metropolises and townships are very different. The more economically developed the region, the higher people's tolerance for "sunset love", and the stronger the pursuit of their own happiness by middle-aged and elderly people. The more rural areas, hindered by the views of children and relatives and friends, many middle-aged and elderly people prefer to choose a person to spend their old age.
For many middle-aged and elderly people, it is more about the need for a companionship. This is also why it is said that "young couples are old companions" are old, and they always hope that there is a person around them who can support each other and go down together. The days are their own lives, not so much that "sunset love" pursues romance and marriage, but their lives also need emotional outlets. Thinking like this, you can better appreciate the difficulty of "sunset love".
From personal happiness to the happiness of two families, perhaps the biggest obstacle in "sunset love". The "sunset love dilemma" of the elderly is obvious. From being with each other, to the recombination of two families. Many people in society, even relatives and friends, will look at them with colored eyes. It feels like they're together, it's purposeful. Therefore, there will be a lot of resistance, and this resistance is brought by the people around the two sides.
For many young people, they do not know what the elderly want, in fact, "sunset love" is a more calm and simple emotion. It is after decades of experience that both sides know each other's needs, rarely meet, and are willing to stay together. As long as you can stay with each other and accompany each other silently for the foreseeable rest of your life, it may be the greatest happiness. This is not easy, and I hope that everyone can give them more respect and understanding, so that "sunset love" shines into life.