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After watching "When Men Are in Love", I realized the three truths that people live warmer and warmer

author:Qilu one point

Text/Huang Li

Qiu Ze's version of Ah Cheng finally left this world, the ending song in the screening hall is filled with thick sadness and loss, regret and pain fill the atrium, even if the lights are on, the light pulls me back to reality, I am still immersed in the meaning of the movie, because in the endless sadness, I realized the three truths that people live warmer and warmer.

1. There is a bottom line for being a person

Because his brother could not pay the debt of opening a barbershop, Ah Cheng was forced to work in a loan company, and took the initiative to choose a dangerous road for his family, it turned out that Ah Cheng, who seemed to be violent and fierce when hanging ErLang and collecting debts, was a person with a bottom line, and this bottom line was to bravely protect the people he loved, take on the responsibilities of his relatives, assume the obligations of the family, and dare to stand up in the face of difficulties and dangers.

Just as there is an impressive line in the Eight Precepts of the Pig, when the wedding scene encounters a marriage robbery, Gao Laozhuang's relatives and friends shrink back in fright, and the Eight Precepts stand up and go out to meet the battle: "I will go to see!" "One sentence wins the respect of everyone.

After watching "When Men Are in Love", I realized the three truths that people live warmer and warmer

The bottom line of life, warm color outline, warm color rendering, such a person, no matter how bitter, tired, how bad, how difficult, can also brush out a bright color. Because he will stretch out warm hands, open a generous heart, give you sweet love, in giving, he is not stingy with strength, do his best, even if he sacrifices himself. And such a person, with money, will share with you, with danger, will hide you behind you, rush to the front.

Therefore, although Haoting and Ah Cheng seem to have such a big gap, they still fall in love, and the surprise is not unexpected, everything is reasonable.

2. You are a bush of white grass that has not lived up to a name

Quit debt collection, open a milk tea shop to rent a house, A Cheng's money and Haoting's father's pension are not enough, helpless, A Cheng returned to the company to find a loan from Fat Sister, just in the middle of Fat Sister's arms, this time, Ah Cheng was cheated out of all the money, and also lost hope towards the future. Knowing that he could no longer give Haoting anything, Ah Cheng broke the jar and broke it, drove away his intimate lover and turned to violent attacks on the police, once again sending himself to the police station, his father could not withstand the blow, and even suffered from amnesia.

Happiness takes a turn here, and fate walks towards the dark corner.

As a person without a fixed profession, survival is the biggest problem, one step is wrong, long-term learned helplessness brings depression and depression, and suffering and pain become a shadow that cannot be lost behind. At this point in life, you may be able to end it, live a humble life, live a shameful life, live in the pity and laughter of others, maybe there is no better.

But, as Feng Zhi's xiaocao poem put it: "You are a bush of white grass, and you have not lived up to a name." "Even if you are as humble as grass, people with a bottom line, and the nobility of human nature can give light to difficulties."

After watching "When Men Are in Love", I realized the three truths that people live warmer and warmer

Ah Cheng, who came out of prison, fought with his life and used the strength of violent debt collection to ask Fat Sister for his own money. At night, stop Haoting after work, force the money into her, hug her for a minute, only one minute, to complete the last wish in the world, the money is so small, it is only enough to fill an envelope bag with life.

He did not tell Haoting the truth about her terminal illness, chose a person to suffer everything silently, did not want to drag anyone down, and quietly waited for life to come to an end.

He saw Haoting dating in the hotel, tearful, heartbroken, so good and noble girl, worthy of a bright future, with a rich and stable life, a warm and happy home, not him.

This is the person with the bottom line, this is the nobility of human nature. If it is better to leave, then I will let go and let you pursue a happier happiness, which is the greatest love, the real love, the broad and selfless love.

Under this lens, I also burst into tears, such a beautiful picture, forever frozen in my mind.

The wish was fulfilled, and he decided to leave them silently: Haoting, father, did not want to be a burden to the family, did not want to add any trouble with ineffective medical treatment, and went to a place that no one knew with the heart of death, perhaps the disease struck, tilted his head, life ended, a star fell in the sky, and the enmity with the world fell, love and pain merged, although he did not know what the eternity of love was, although in the most brilliant moment of destruction, the name of man, the benevolence, righteousness, and wisdom of human nature, had firmly written the highlight moment.

3. Will dwell in the heart of the beloved

Unexpectedly, the person who saved him was Haoting, and now they are more like relatives, as well as brothers-in-law, father, and the whole family have worked together to operate on him.

You see, the love you give will never disappear, let alone disappear, they will rush to you in an overwhelming way, surround you, surround you, and those who are surrounded by love and family affection will have the most indestructible armor in the world, the most secure rock-like backing.

After watching "When Men Are in Love", I realized the three truths that people live warmer and warmer

Unfortunately, the operation failed, and Haoting accompanied him through the end of his life.

After a person dies, where he goes, it should be the heart of the beloved, where he lives, stays, is remembered, remembered, mourned, remembered, until the person who loves you also disappears, and you completely disappear from the world.

Haoting leaves work every day and often "meets" Ah Cheng's father, a former bus driver, on the bus to complete the mission that Ah Cheng has never completed.

One day after the funeral, my brother received a large box of gifts from the courier, which turned out to be the haircut utensils that Ah Cheng had bought for him before he died, and the brother-in-law cried silently.

You see, Ah Cheng seems to have been there all along, and it seems that he has never left.

This is the value of a person with a bottom line, dead, but has come, will eventually live in the heart of the loved one, and finally circle the end of life with a warm background.

When men are in love, they both collect debts and love, live out the warmth of the heart, live out the warmth of mutual embrace, such warmth, heal people's hearts, such warmth, and heal all the pain in the world.

One point number Huang LiWen Yuan

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After watching "When Men Are in Love", I realized the three truths that people live warmer and warmer

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