Lin Qingxia, once a legendary Taiwanese female star in the Chinese film industry, has been men's "eternal dream lover" for many years. Her natural and pure unpolished beauty, the style of the country is overwhelming, the well-known director Xu Ke once used "50 years will only produce one" to evaluate.
What kind of love, what kind of marriage, what kind of happiness in life, what kind of beauty once in 50 years, is worthy of her prosperous appearance?
Today's Lin Qingxia is 67 years old, and the marriage story is basically settled.
From being discovered by a scout at the age of 18, having an affair with Prince Charming Qin Han, who already had a family, to struggling with the love entanglement between Qin Han and Qin Xianglin, until he married a wealthy businessman Xing Liyuan in middle age and gave birth to two daughters. Over 60 years old, it was rumored that the marriage had changed, and there was no publicly conclusive news of the marital status so far.
Beauty is like Lin Qingxia, but the road of feelings for many years is not so smooth, and it should even be regarded as an unsatisfactory bump. Especially with Qin Han, who has been separated and scattered for 18 long years, she finally missed out, and she walked harder than ordinary women.
Recalling and the lingering love history of Qin and Han, Lin Qingxia once cut and straightened out the chaos, and after many years, her heart was relieved. In "Inside and Out of the Window," she writes:
"I have also had unforgettable pains on the road of love... Looking back, love and hate will become a passing cloud. ”
"Will become a cloud of smoke", behind the seemingly put down, each word seems to be filled with regret that cannot be asked for. Can the once muscular love, which runs through the best years of life, really come with the arrival of twilight years, and be light and breezy?
At that time, in order to be with Lin Qingxia, Qin Han went to great lengths to divorce his ex-wife, the rich family Qianjin Shao Qiaoyin. Lin Qingxia also resolutely left Qin Xianglin and threw herself into Qin Han's arms again. Life is short, rolling red dust, after years of meeting again, lost and regained love, should not easily let go of each other.
But the two eventually missed out and gave up on each other. The reason for this has always been an unsolved mystery, and Qin and Han have never mentioned it for many years. According to gossip rumors, Shao Qiaoyin had an agreement when he divorced Qin Han that he could live with Lin Qingxia, but was not allowed to marry her.
In response to a sentence, the ex-wife was embarrassed to get up and then, and the hand was more accurate and fierce than anyone.
Years have passed, there are still many netizens because of Qin Han's failure to marry that year, for Lin Qingxia is difficult to calm. It even said that Qin Han had always owed Lin Qingxia an apology.
But the matter of love is your love and my wishes, and it is impossible to talk about who is right and who is wrong. If you have to say that there is a debt, you are also a creditor of each other, and simply accusing either party is biased.
Later, Lin Qingxia once recalled that at that time, one of the two was in Hong Kong and the other was in Taiwan, and their careers were very busy, gathering less and leaving more, and it was easy to misunderstand. Moreover, when she was young, she did not want to get married, and when others wanted to get married in recent middle age, Qin Han was slow to open her mouth, and as a woman, she was embarrassed to take the initiative to propose marriage.
Neither of them is willing to take the initiative to take a step forward, perhaps this is just a pretext. If you want to live a lifetime with this man, it is also very sassy for women to take the initiative to propose marriage.
In fact, there must be a real reason behind the two people who are secret. In the context of the time, the only reason for all the misses, the only reason that makes sense, can only be that the two people let go by default at the same time.
A few days ago, the WeChat public account "Silicon Valley Chinese" posted a tweet about the goddess Lin Qingxia, the author is Ms. Qiu Zhang, a well-known practicing lawyer in the United States in Taiwan and known as "Lin Qingxia of the legal circle".
Ms. Qiu Zhang said in the article that Lin Qingxia is super wise and once pointed out to her and her friends, "To find a handsome man in love, to find a rich person to get married." And frankly, "A man who says he loves you for 18 years will not marry you, and another man who loves you for 18 days is willing to marry you, love or no love can be seen clearly." ”
Missing Qin Han and not having a sense of wealth and security is the real reason, at least it can be explained. The most popular standard marriage for Hong Kong and Taiwan female stars in that era was to marry a rich man.
The man who loved her for 18 days and was willing to marry her was the wealthy businessman Xing Liyuan, and Lin Qingxia put on a wedding dress when she was 39 years old. As we all know, the appearance of the husband and wife is too mismatched, but this man has money, a lot of money, enough to give any woman a luxurious and stable life.
Lin Qingxia completely disappeared after marriage, and twice risked being an elderly mother, giving birth to two daughters, and concentrating on becoming a rich wife. On his 60th birthday, he received the "Qingxia Palace" built by her husband for 1.1 billion Hong Kong dollars. But only 3 years later, the two were quietly divorced by the explosion, because the ugly man cheated and had an illegitimate child.
After entering the marriage and becoming someone's wife, in time, it will eventually be unvalued. Love enters the end of marriage, and cannot escape death in the boredom of eventually becoming a partner.
Just not sure, did Lin Qingxia really love Xing Liyuan? A woman's lifelong love is limited, consumed in advance, and there is no way to replenish it afterwards.
In the long river of life, whether it is a love paradise or a marriage grave, it will one day be gone. From Qin Han Qin Xianglin to Xing Liyuan, just like Lin Qingxia's sigh, the love and hatred of a lifetime is nothing more than a passing cloud.
As we get older, love and marriage become smaller and smaller parts of life. Loving yourself well becomes something more important than love than marriage.
Today's Lin Qingxia, writing articles and reading books, occasionally will meet old friends, as long as the goddess always has a happy smile on her face, what does it matter if she is not divorced?
And for the goddess's missed Qin Han in this life, Ms. Qiu Zhang also mentioned it in the article. She said that a few years ago, she used to go shopping in Taipei City, "seeing a slightly fat, gray goatee beard, walking a little hesitant old man, I can't wait to rush to him, turn my head and look, friend, that's not a petal, that's my withered heart..."
Time is like a white colt passing through the gap, the petals will wither, and life will always wither.
On the road of love, those unforgettable love and hatred will eventually turn into a wisp of smoke in the rolling red dust and wither away.