Liu Yuguang
(This is the Laughing Song 1364 original, please do not reprint without authorization)
Ellie has a good reputation in the community. No matter what clothes you wear, no matter what season you are, as long as you go out, you are clean and decent. Not only that, but she also demanded that her husband and children must do the same, the clothes are dirty, the hair is not neat, the shoes and clothes are not matched, and they cannot go out. In her words: "Clean and tidy, not only responsible for their own image, but also responsible for the environment and the collective, sloppy, how disgusting people?" It also destroys people's mood. ”
Ellie is an elementary school teacher, and it is her duty to be a role model. Although she does not want to be able to shine in front of students every day, all the time, and everywhere, at least it is necessary to be clean, neat, neat, and decent. She asked her students to do the same. Sometimes, first-grade elementary school students can't wake up and come to school in the morning without washing their faces. Wash or not, Ellie can see at a glance, ask the reason, and then bring a special towel, soap, to help students wash clean. Once, a boy with parents doing business could wipe a snow-white towel almost black, and he could smell a thick smell of sweat on him from afar, and the students around him covered their noses. It turned out that the child had not bathed for more than ten days, and his parents could not sell vegetables. Seven- and eight-year-old boys are naughty when they don't understand or know how to take care of themselves. Call your child's mother to explain the situation and ask her to make sure that the child's hygiene is well solved, including bathing, washing face, shampooing, and clean and tidy clothes. They brought the child's grandfather and the problem was solved very well. When Ellie leads the class, participates in school group activities, or walks on the main road, people look sideways and praise.
Besides, Ellie has a secret: Some things are never told to anyone else. Who are the others? Almost everyone other than husband and wife.
Married colleagues often talk about their "mouth" shortcomings, bad habits and doing things that are not in line with their wishes, etc., and Ellie has never participated in this "discussion". Some teachers suddenly found out one day: "Teacher Ai, I have never heard you say anything about your 'mouth'." Every time she smiled and said, "Good or bad is between the two of us, we just know it ourselves." Then he forked the conversation.
After living for a long time, the neighbors in the community know that "it is a building", and sometimes they ask: "Why don't you go out and don't visit the door?" Ellie would blush and reply, "Preparing for class or something, it's too busy." In addition, I was naturally reluctant to visit the door, and I did not want to be short in the east and the west. ”
The old ladies sometimes did not spare: "The one in your family does not seem to like to talk very much, is very steady, pays attention to dress, and should be a good husband." ”
"Thanks for the compliment." Ellie always answered ambiguously. Sometimes when you have to say something, you say good things, and you don't say a word about those things that are not decent. Sometimes, there is a conflict over something, but it is still a good thing to say in front of others. She said: "If you say yes, you just listen to it, and say everything without any cover, it will spread far, and there is no benefit." There is really no need for family ugliness to be publicized. ”
With parents, siblings and children, it is even more good to say good things, saving relatives from worrying and worrying. Ellie said: "To a large extent, I can only solve my own problems. Besides, how much hatred can there be between husband and wife? Even if there are faults and shortcomings, let others know, what is the use? And what does it work for? He is not good, is he beautiful? It can only be a 'talking point' in people's mouths and being seen as a joke. ”
Many of the husbands in Ellie's mouth are reflected to him by her colleagues, friends, and relatives. Gao Chen was very impressed. His husband works in the media, and most of the interviews are "divorce", "domestic violence" and "third parties", which can be described as chaotic. He often talks about his wife, how to pursue self-motivation in work, how reasonable his feelings are, and how sunny and inclusive his mentality is. A lot of stories, what kind of touching friends.
"Does my sister-in-law have no shortcomings, deficiencies, or any bad habits?" One time chatting, a young man asked. Gao Chen smiled, "No one is perfect, of course, those problems you talked about will be more or less there will be." But, I won't tell you. I can only say that she is very good, and some deficiencies are not worth mentioning in front of so many of her excellences. Moreover, after living together for so many years, we have adapted and become accustomed to it. ”
Everyone applauded in agreement.
"My wife is not like this, the more in front of outsiders, the more people, the more they can say bad things about me, as if I am a bad egg who does not do evil." 」
"As soon as my wife returned to her mother's house, she saw that there was support, and she endlessly 'complained', fortunately, my father-in-law and mother-in-law did not believe it, otherwise, I would not have a good life."
"My wife especially likes to visit the door and 'gossip' with the old ladies in the yard, so that as soon as I go out, I am accused and 'educated' by the old ladies, and several times I have been stopped from 'class', what do you say this is called?"
When I have time, I will ask my sister-in-law to tell us about it. Gao Chen smiled: "In fact, just a word, don't say the 'ugly family' aspect, don't say anything to anyone." But the premise is that the relationship between husband and wife is really good. ”