Some people say that the greatest blessing of a person is to be sure that someone loves you. Life is beautiful because of love, and life is warm because of love. If you can always live in love, have affection to accompany you to old age, there is no luck in this life, nothing more than this. But sometimes it's easy to make the mistake of taking the good of others for granted.
The rest of life is long, no matter how far we go, we should remind ourselves not to ignore those who silently love us, not to fail them. Only when people know how to cherish love, they are worthy of love.
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"Almost all love in this world is for the sake of getting together, only the love of parents, which ultimately points to separation." The meaning and bitterness in this sentence can be best understood by parents.
Every child from the fall to the ground to adulthood, all poured into the efforts of their parents. But wait until the child's wings are growing, and separation is quietly coming. Therefore, I don't know from what day on, our parents have become the tree behind us, and we can only wait with expectant eyes for us to occasionally look back and put our eyes on the world back on them.
As children, no one does not love their parents, but many times we are used to this waiting, always feel that we can wait, wait until we have time to accompany our parents. As everyone knows, there are not so many people in the world. Time passes like water, hurrying by. If you find that the parents who remembered to be omnipotent are becoming more and more timid, and more and more in need of your response and companionship, it is because they are getting older.
So, don't wait any longer, take advantage of your parents' health, take advantage of the time, talk to them more, and take a walk. Not to live up to the waiting of parents, not only for love, but also to make yourself less regretful and more at ease in the years to come.
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The establishment of every relationship is inseparable from trust. Because of trust, so choose; because of trust, so willing to give the other half wholehearted support and understanding. However, trust is very subtle, seemingly invisible, but in fact it is precious, and once lost, it is difficult to find.
The feelings between people are like knitting sweaters, when they are established, they are stitched and threaded, careful and the process is long, but when they are dismantled, they can be destroyed with a gentle pull. Therefore, don't live up to the trust of your lover, don't take your lover's trust as commonplace, and don't challenge the bottom line of your trust with lies and hurts.
Gaining trust is a lifetime, but losing trust can only be in an instant. Whether married or in love, two people together, the most important thing to do is to give each other trust, but also strive to become a person worthy of each other's trust. Only in this way can we truly have a long-term and beautiful intimate relationship.
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When people are unhappy, it is easy to immerse themselves in their own world and fall into sadness and cannot extricate themselves. But in fact, if we can let go of blind self-pity, we will find that there are not friends around us who care about us, but we often ignore them.
Especially for those old friends, after getting along for a long time, it seems to become very casual. Sometimes they come to you for a chat, and maybe you can't even reply to a message as quickly as you would to a stranger. In fact, the more familiar the friend, the more scrupulous they will be when they express concern. Because they know your sore spots, there are some things that they don't want to ask, but they don't dare to ask, so they often put their concerns in their hearts and silently support you.
Friendship should pay more or less attention to some sense of proportion, but this does not affect each other's friendship. As long as you need, there will be friends to help you and open your arms. People's hearts are mutual, instead of self-pity and self-harm, it is better to take the initiative to take the initiative to maintain every relationship that you think is worth cherishing, and do not live up to the true feelings of friends for you.
Finally, I would like to share with you this passage: No one in this world is an island, and those who rub your hands in the winter, fan the wind for you in the summer, and leave lights for you late at night are all trying to prove that you are worthy of love. The crowd is surging and it is a rare opportunity to meet each other. May in this life, we can all meet love, cherish love, and may all love be treated with sincerity, live up to what is sent, and leave no regrets.
(Source: Nian Nian Mu Xin WeChat public account |.) Author: Nian Nian | Anchor: Wang Yiyi)
Source: People's Daily WeChat public account