Young love crazy, old age miserable

There is a buddy, the first wife is beautiful and independent, but unfortunately the buddies love to play. Every day and night without returning, dancing, drinking, KTV. Then the quarrel began. You don't go home at night, and his wife directly locks the door and doesn't let you in. The buddies knocked on the door, and the neighbors called the police. 1 year later, divorced. The buddies continued to work, made mistakes in their work, and were fired. Do direct marketing, get caught, go to jail. After coming out, 35 years old, nothing.