We often see reports of extramarital affairs in the media, and many institutions have also published the rate of extramarital affairs, which is as high as two-thirds of men and more than one-half of women. I feel that these data are all estimated, because extramarital affairs are a matter of high personal privacy, how can you investigate the real data? But in any case, in modern society, there must be extramarital affairs, there must be many extramarital affairs, and extramarital affairs are certainly more common! There is no doubt about it.
So, what are the harms of extramarital affairs? First of all, it destroys the feelings of husband and wife, and when there is an extramarital affair between a man and a woman, it buries the pure love. Second, it reduces trust between couples. You can have an extramarital affair behind each other's back, and other things may also hide from each other, causing the other party to have a sense of distrust. The third is the destabilization of the family. With extramarital affairs, couples have estrangement, quarrels or cold wars have become the norm in the family, and it is not surprising that couples break up. The fourth is to affect the growth of children. The family has an extramarital affair, it is not easy to hide the child, the child will judge from your behavior, do not look at the child too simple. Fifth, it brings troubles and worries to parents on both sides of the impact. The sixth is to bring bad atmosphere to society and affect the behavior of others.
What are the reasons for extramarital affairs? Mainly because of insufficient self-cultivation, some because they can't get love and warmth at home, and seek compensation outside; some are because they meet physical needs; some are purely stimulating; it is undeniable that some of them are because of love, let love be the master. No matter what the situation, extramarital affairs should not happen, or advocate to be a clean heart, integrity, responsibility, self-control!