"Really teach Aya a lesson... She is now obsessed with the strong woman's persona, as if she doesn't take us seriously. ”
This is a joke by Big S in "We Are True Friends", which is interpreted by many people as Big S's jealousy of Aya, because jokes often reveal a person's truest emotions.
Looking back, Aya, the most inconspicuous in the small group that year, no longer dressed ugly and funny, became a calm, warm and self-believing temperament girl in "Strange Life", and became a producer and won an award, shining brightly.
The outside world is also a piece of praise, "She is a long line, a bean shimmer, wearing a small detail, but also illuminating the horns." ”
And from a comedian to a temperament goddess, she spent nearly 20 years to complete the transformation, as she wrote in her book, "All the tears that have flowed will become diamonds." ”
Cervantes said that "the virtue of a parent is the best legacy for a child", and Aya's father's open-mindedness and gentleness undoubtedly laid the foundation of her life.
Aya was born to her father, who was 50 years old. But for her, her father is a guardian and a giant, "He is a Xuzhou native, with the open-mindedness and straightforwardness of a Shandong person in his personality, and he is truly comfortable and at ease with his encounters." ”
On one trip, the father and daughter sat in a black car with a sky-high price, Aya was angry to theorize with the driver, but the father looked at himself and paid for it, "When we go out, we are in the light, they are in the dark, eat a little loss, let go a little, it is right." ”
For the family, the father is dutiful, and for the neighbor, he is also kind and amiable, "as long as the family and the family are happy, the rest are small things."
Under the influence of her father, Aya, who has been ridiculed by her friends since she was a child, has never complained about herself, but has been easy-going and fearless, and strives to become a better version of herself.
"From elementary school to high school to Huagang Art School, my good friends are class flowers or school flowers, and I am the maid on the side of the princess. I'm not going to look for my place among them, but I'm going to always look for myself. ”
As we all know, in the famous "Seven Fairies" group of Huagang Art School, she is like an ugly duckling in the swan flock, silent and bleak.
She was very fat at that time, and she loved to keep a Aaron Kwok head, and the whole person looked strong and stupid. Little S, who always lives under the aura of big S, has found confidence in her, "Making friends with Aya is to set off her own beauty." ”
Because Aya is not easy to get angry, Little S always makes jokes about Aya, mocking her ugly face and flat chest like a man; Big S also straightens her, throws the breakfast she bought into the trash can, and encourages her to jump off the building and cause her to fall on her arm.
Even when the boy in the crush falls in love with his girlfriend and asks her for help in confessing, Aya agrees and matches them.
"I am a comedian with a tragic personality", in the face of specious ridicule, 18-year-old Aya entered the entertainment industry.
Due to the limited appearance, she offered to start by being a comedian. With the "ugly woman" persona, without image baggage, she played treasure and funny in the show, did not expect the effect to be very good, slowly, Aya began to emerge as a comedian.
In 1999, the 21-year-old Aya combed her funny short hair in the MV, sang the magic lyrics of "Red Bean Big Red Bean Taro", and a "File Ice March" made her successful fire.
After that, she partnered with Wu Zongxian and became the host of "I Guess I Guess I Guess Guess", continuing the style of selling cute and silly, and teasing and making fun of it became commonplace.
Even Wu Zongxian admired her, "Out of a thousand movie stars, there is only one female ugly, and there is only one female ugly in a hundred hosts, and female ugly is the most rare." ”
She was clumsily and fully amused, insane, and the applause grew, but these did not really satisfy her heart.
"Entering the entertainment industry at the age of 18, I quickly tasted the taste of red. At the same time, you will also see a lot of comparisons and competitions, and you will have a lot of emotions in your heart, such as jealousy, criticism, anger, and so on. But then I slowly discovered that the most important thing is how you have to face it, and what kind of person you have to choose to be. ”
Therefore, at the age when most women yearn for stability, the 28-year-old resolutely decided to give up her career and study abroad.
"Even if it keeps going red, it will inevitably go downhill." When I find my new self and come back to face the audience, that is my attitude of responsibility to the audience. Only by giving up can we gain, and only by giving up some can we have new gains. ”
In the face of the opposition of relatives and friends, even Wu Zongxian reminded her, "When you come back, the show may not have your place", and she still has no remorse.
It turned out that the sudden death of her father before prompted her to decide to give up her fame and fortune and do something she wanted to do for herself.
In 2006, Aya wrote on Weibo: Leaving "I Guess" was a new start for me.
After returning from study tours, and then on "Kangxi Is Coming", my friend XiaoS even couldn't help but say, "You are going to play hyaluronic acid!" At that time, her beauty was released from the inside out, which could not be ignored.
The once ugly duckling has accumulated thick hair and begun his own transformation journey of "elegant intellect".
Back to the "I Guess" program, she and Wu Zongxian together, to take the show to a new height, in 2008, both won the 43rd Golden Bell Awards "Best Variety Show Host" award.
But this is not the end of Aya, she saw the decline of Taiwanese variety shows a few years ago, so when the hosting career was in the sky, Aya once again did not play her cards according to the norm, and in 2010, she bid farewell to "I Guess" again, and she decided to go inland.
"I'd love to know exactly what's going on in this market. I always thought that this was where the market needed me. ”
Aya, who came to the mainland, also experienced a period of confusion, tearing off the label of "ghost horse funny", whether it is doing variety shows, acting dramas, or hosting, publishing books, the results are not as dazzling as the original.
Some media laughed at her "North Drift" for many years of mediocre results, if you change some people, you may have already played a retreat and returned to your comfort zone, but Aya did not give up, laughing that she is now crawling out of the cocoon of the state, has not yet begun to fly.
As Cai Kangyong said, "I know that Aya's open-mindedness and resilience to life are definitely not comparable to those dolls that break when they are touched." ”
After trying interviews with characters who weren't right for me, "my character is that if I see that the other person's eyes are already dodging, I can't bear to force him into a corner and ask."
Slowly, she began to realize that entertainment provides an emotional outlet, but the outlet is not only a form, in addition to making people laugh and make people happy, but also a way to give people the opportunity to be alone with themselves.
So, at the age of 40, she produced and produced "Strange Life", and she wrote a letter to herself on Weibo:
"Aya, in 2018, you are about to start your four-character life. You are still curious about life's doubts, but you are more honest and open to yourself than before... Sincere communication between people must have a strange encounter to open themselves, right? ”
This program, which has been brewing for 10 years, has an amazing effect after broadcasting, with a Douban score of 9.2 and netizens being praised as the "most advanced variety show".
Aya succeeded, and the Aya who used to be funny and sang "Red Bean Big Red Bean" had become such a peaceful, gentle but infinite power Aya.
Even Xiao S couldn't help but envy her, "Aya, in fact, I am really proud of you in my heart, because you quickly found your most comfortable position, and step by step to achieve your dreams, and I am just repeating." ”
Along the way, she was open-minded and self-reflective, boldly moving forward, and finally ushered in the gift of years and destiny.
Nowadays, Wu Peici has not been able to marry into the rich family for having three sons in a row; Fan Weiqi is deeply involved in "false sisterhood" which is quite criticized; Big S is committed to creating a "spoiled wife" for her husband; Little S marriage has many scandals, and her variety business is no longer brilliant...
After a thousand sails, Aya seems to have become the most dazzling presence in the former sister group.
In 2014, Aya suddenly announced her marriage, and her husband, Zhu Kyung Benle Rinpoche, was a lay living Buddha, and even Faye Wong and Liang Chaowei were his followers. On July 2 of that year, a daughter was born.
"Life or love, sometimes like a circle with missing corners, each experience is more aware of what you want, and each experience is an unparalleled learning." One day, I can draw a complete circle myself. ”
After 40 years, Aya has achieved her own consummation!