In the recent hit TV series "Under the Warm Sun", Gao Lu played the heroine Song Sining, a typical egoist, and the "sister-in-law" of "All Is Good" is also selfish! The sister-in-law of "All Is Good" is only selfish to her father-in-law Su Daqiang, her mother's parents and other relatives, but she is still very protective of their small family! In "Under the Warm Sun", Song Sijing only has himself in his eyes, and his parents, husband, children, etc. are all floating clouds!
What impressed me the most was that there was a plot in "All Is Good" that went like this: The eldest sister-in-law went to the United States for graduate school after graduating, and stayed in the United States to work after graduation, and it was 10 years after graduation! Her parents saved money for her to study abroad, graduated and settled in the United States, gave birth to a child and did not want to ask for a sister-in-law, asked the mother to retire early, traveled thousands of miles to the United States to serve her and her daughter Xiaomi, and helped bring the child to the age of 2! But as soon as the child went to kindergarten, the sister-in-law sent her mother back to China!
Then, until Su Mu's death and Su Mingzhe returned to China many times because of Su Daqiang's maintenance problems, the sister-in-law took her daughter to Visit Relatives in China once! And this time back to China, the sister-in-law stayed in China for 1 week, only stayed with Su Mingyu, did not take the child back to see grandpa and grandmother! When watching the drama, I was cold for the sister-in-law's mother-in-law's parents, and the 1 daughter who had worked hard to cultivate came out, but she did not return to her mother's house for 10 years, and she returned to China, and I did not go back to see their old couple, so I went abroad again!
Obviously, the reason why the "sister-in-law" let her daughter stay with Su Mingyu is because Su Mingyu is the most economically powerful in the Su family, xiaomi follows Su Mingyu to live in a high-end hotel and enjoy high-end food; and if you take Xiaomi to the mother's house, it can only be an ordinary home-cooked meal, so the "sister-in-law" gave up the opportunity to return to her mother's house!
In "Under the Warm Sun", although Song Sining is a leader in the human resources department of a well-known foreign company in Beijing, with an annual salary of millions, he is a very strong person and has always only thought about himself! In the heart of Sending Song Sining, her parents, in-laws, and even her husband Li Junlong and the female Dora are not as important as her own work!
In the play, the background setting: Song Sining came to Beijing for 7 years, and her daughter Dora was 5 and a half years old! And Song Sining met her husband Li Junlong at the 1st insurance exhibition in the first year of her visit to Beijing! Because Li Junlong was a young and promising entrepreneur at that time, he partnered with a friend to run a listed company, a native of Beijing, and his parents were also career retirees, and his family and work were good! Therefore, Song Sining began to pursue Li Junlong, and the 2 of them quickly fell in love, accidentally conceived their daughter Dora in the second year, and then successfully married and gave birth to Dora!
After giving birth to her daughter Dora full moon, Song Sining threw the child to her retired in-laws and returned to work! In the play, once, when Song Sining went to pick up her daughter Dora, none of the kindergarten teachers and the parents of Dora's classmates knew Song Sining, and everyone said, "Dora has always been picked up by her father and grandparents, Dora has been studying kindergarten for more than 3 years, Song Sining actually did not participate in 1 weekend parent-child activity, so everyone has always thought that Dora's mother does not work here..."
Although Song Sining attaches great importance to Dora's education, she has paid a high price to Give Dora a variety of extracurricular tutoring classes such as piano, dance, English, and French, hoping that Dora will be versatile when she grows up in the future! But none of the training classes that Song Sining gave Tora newspapers were what her daughter liked.
Her daughter hated playing the piano, but Song Sining felt that the girls played the piano elegantly, and with a strong attitude, she signed up for her daughter in full accordance with her personal wishes, forcing Dora to learn piano!
On the weekend, the daughter wanted her mother to accompany her to the piano lesson, song Sining threw her daughter to her husband, asking Li Junlong to accompany her daughter to the piano lesson, and then she ran to do beauty, drink tea, go shopping, and eat with Mrs. Hao Liangliang, the psychological counselor Tu Yue, the younger sister Lu Keying, or Guan Zong's wife Chen Songying! As a treasure mother, the child is fully entrusted to the grandparents to take, the weekend is only for their own enjoyment, never accompany the child, as soon as they come back, they will point fingers at Dora and loudly reprimand, the daughter does not reject her is strange!
Of course, although according to the background of the characters in the play, we all know that Mr. Xie, the husband of the rich wife Hao Liangliang, is the boss of a group company in Beijing; Tu Yue is a very good psychological counselor, and most of the customers he serves are not rich or expensive, and have a certain social status; Chen Songying is a leader in the sales department of Song Sining Company, and the old public relations general manager is a multinational group company! These 3 "girlfriends" have a lot of contacts and resources in their hands, which can help Song Sining in his career! But I feel that Song Sining's weekend time balance is too tilted, too much attention to his career, 24 hours a day, in addition to sleeping, other times are working hard and paving the way for work, completely ignoring the care of the family and daughter!
Seeing this, you may say: The reason why Song Sining cares so much about her work and fights so hard is not to make money to support her family! But I think "people should be content and happy"! But in the play, Song Sining has a line that says: "The reason why I work hard is that I don't want to lose to others, I am not saying that full-time mothers are not good, I just think that if you go up to 1 level in your career, more people will look up to you", is this not one of the manifestations of "egoism"? In order to make others look up to themselves and get the admiration of others, the parents, daughters, and husbands on the 2 sides are all left behind!
Moreover, in the play, Li Junlong opened his own company, the annual income is "billion" as a unit, Li Junlong is the only son, Dora's grandparents have been taking Dora for free for many years, and the family property is also their small 2. Moreover, Song Sining's mother, a policeman, left a lot of savings and savings by this profession. After the mother divorced her father Song Dequan that year, she did not remarry, so as long as Song Sining has 1 baby daughter, everything in the future mother will also be Song Sining's! All in all, Song Sining is not short of money at all, so there is no need to lose sight of one or the other in order to "not fall behind"!
In addition, every time Song Sining saw her daughter Dora playing, or watching cartoons; instead of pressing her legs while listening to English children's songs, she would accuse her husband Li Junlong of spoiling her daughter too much, and kept saying: The daughter of one of her colleagues, only 4 years old, piano level 3, also participated in the city dance competition, won the 2nd prize, and Dora only knew how to watch TV.......
Therefore, I personally feel that Song Sining's "compulsive education method" is not a manifestation of loving children, but just hopes that Dora will become excellent and then be able to earn face for herself!
Of course, in the play, Song Sining also revealed that she is a person with a sense of crisis, she always feels that if she is not hard enough and not good enough, others will compare herself to herself, so since she came to Beijing, even if she gets married and has children, there are 4 elderly people who need to be taken care of, or they can't put down their work!
Of course, the most infuriating thing is: after Song Sining was pregnant with 2 treasures, she knew that she had just become pregnant, the pregnancy was serious, the doctor prescribed a doctor to let her pay as much attention to the rest as possible, but also in order to help her first love boyfriend gain a firm foothold in the company, desperately return to work, take over the first task of the first love boyfriend's new official to take office" The first task of the three fires "large-scale layoffs of the company's existing employees, and then arrange for the first love boyfriend Jiang Haoming's confidant to enter the company"!
Originally, layoffs were a thankless thing, and Song Sining, as a senior HR, was not unaware! Although she said to her husband Li Junlong: "Resign after this busy period", if you really want to resign, is it necessary to be an ugly person before leaving?
Moreover, every time whether it is her husband Li Junlong or the company's internal "girlfriend" Chen Songying asks about Jiang Haoming, Song Sining will change the topic, and he is not weak-minded? So Song Sining is desperate to help her first love boyfriend Jiang Haoming, isn't there nothing left to lose?
In addition, taking a step back, even if Song Sining and her first love boyfriend Jiang Zong are really just a simple working relationship, she herself is married, has a husband, and has children, shouldn't she avoid suspicion? Why is it that every time Jiang always asks her to go to coffee or dinner privately, Song Sining does not refuse? Didn't she know that this was a melon field?
Therefore, dare to say: Song Sining worked hard at all costs, and even in order to win Jiang Haoming's trust, overtime fatigue was excessive, and 2 Bao accidentally miscarried, is it not because Jiang Haoming is now the boss of their Beijing branch, and Song Sining wants to take this opportunity to go to a higher level in his career?
Therefore, in summary, I personally feel: Li Junlong questioned Song Sining's entanglement with her first love boyfriend Jiang Zong, and it is not that she has wronged Song Sining, after all, she did not avoid suspicion, but for her own career, she rushed to paste Jiang Zong upside down, wasn't it?