My cousin is only 28 years old this year, cute, naughty, stubborn, filial to her parents, affectionate and righteous to her friends, and I am a brother and sister. Due to social danger, unpredictable people's hearts, unintentionally embarking on an unhealthy path in prison at the end of 2018, time flies, and it rains overnight to encounter the new coronavirus epidemic, more than a year has passed and there has been no trial so far, in a state of no return, aimless and far away.
She was in prison, and her contact with her had been severed for more than 500 days, and she had recently learned that she could only be contacted by the outdated and ancient means of communication such as writing letters, and she quickly wrote a letter to her, very anxious to know how she was living now, what kind of life she lived, what kind of food she ate, what kind of work she did, and whether she was bullied.
She received my letter and tears dripped through the letter paper, and in the past 20 days, she has received three consecutive replies. For more than 500 days of being lost, she alone endured remorse and loneliness, sadness and unwillingness, depression and anger, and mixed feelings. The family found a lawyer for it, consulted a consultant, borrowed money and was troubled by trouble, complaining and blaming, and the whole family was messed up. Later, the cousin's husband also had doubts about disgust and no longer cared about it, and only three letters before and after could not be resolved, and the cousin also persuaded him to divorce with letters, hoping that they would be well. In this matter, her husband did not send carbon in the snow, but made it worse, only her father and mother solved the external affairs for her. Although the cousin did something illegal, it was not a matter of hurting nature and reason, it was difficult for a strong person, and it hurt people to destroy things, and she was distressed because she really could not talk about bad people.
After repeatedly reading the three letters she wrote to me, I learned from the letters that her emotions and mentality had gradually calmed down, and even had a positive sunny. She likened prison to "a university," and I was relieved to see that. She said that she had all kinds of people there, new arrivals, who had been here for a few years, who had been out of prison for a full term, listened to their stories and experiences, understood a lot of things, and the biggest realization was that they knew how to cherish family, freedom and time, and even had already envisioned how to return to a positive life in the future. She also likened her situation to monasticism, not taking foreign customs, feeling life, purifying her mind, and being positive for good. Reading her letter, my strong fears about her eased a lot.
There are prison bullies, bullying the weak; hard work, sweating like rain; poor food, skinny as wood, these are the impressions that the prison filmed in the movie gives us, there is no harmony, only negative.
Probably the reason for the women's prison, which, according to the letter, describes, is not as complicated and bad as I suspect. Every day life is copied and pasted, watch TV news in the morning, watch the central ten sets at 10 a.m., see the noon meal, take a lunch break for more than an hour, watch TV in the afternoon, watch an hour and a half variety show, and carry out walking exercise training after the end, this training is 3 times a day. From 5:30 to 8:00 p.m., I still watchED TV, and then I went to school, and I studied for only 20 minutes (too little), and I went to sleep after studying. At night, I have to get up and work for 2 hours, and I don't have physical work or produce products or anything like that, sometimes I just do hygiene.
In terms of diet, three meals a day are rice as a staple food, squeezed vegetables in the morning with rice, and rice side dishes in the middle and evening. Interestingly, she and her inmates kneaded rice into rice and made it into a variety of delicious dishes, praising her inmates as innovative little masters. Apparently she got along well with her friends there.
He also specifically mentioned that the correctional police officers are also very good to them and very responsible for them, because of the new crown epidemic, the police officers can not go home one after another, and have been with them, and they look harder than themselves after busy work, and they are quite handsome!
Probably most people like me did not think that in prison, you can also buy snacks, but the limit is two hundred or three hundred yuan per month, you can buy fruit, beef, as well as hot sauce, squeezed vegetables, salted duck eggs, sachima, bread, peanuts and cakes and so on. She said that just a pack of spicy strips is perfect..., after going to prison, she has not eaten peppers, there is no spicy in the dish, and there is no spicy snack, probably because spicy is easy to make people catch fire.
Life in prison was completely different from what I imagined, and my cousin emphasized that she had gained more than a dozen pounds, which was even more incomprehensible, and my cousin's worries became unworthy. I don't know if she said this deliberately so that we wouldn't worry too much about her, or if it was true, but at least except for the boring life, it wasn't as bad as I thought. It turns out that China's progress is not only what most of us have seen, but also the management standards and environment in prisons that I can't see have also been greatly improved and upgraded.
I said to her in my letter, you are not the worst life, the space for movement is limited, but you are able-bodied and free of thought. A 20-year-old boy in the next village has been lying in a hospital bed for half a year because of a car accident, and the huge medical expenses have plagued her family, and it is difficult to face the future with half-life and unsound body. And you always have a day of homecoming, you can draw the future now, learn more in prison, and keep your mentality ready!
People have to do the first life summary until they are 60 years old, life is not satisfactory or not worth it when the time comes, then I know whether I am happier, and then I know whether the setbacks were inevitable turning points in life to be beautiful. You are in the current situation will only occupy a small part of your life, and in the future, at the moment of changing your status quo, the whole world will be fresh, and the good life will still beckon to you, and we should wait for that moment with a full of expectations.