I have heard of Cao Pi's siblings Cao Zhi but rarely heard of mothers treating their children differently, but there is such a mother who broke my understanding of things, after watching the whole video, my heart can not be calmed for a long time, although this mother saved her son, but this method is really not advisable, such a practice is not only to kill a family to save a family, but also to damage the mother-daughter relationship that can be repaired! I would like to ask this mother: Is it really because of your own children that you have done this?
In order to give birth to a son, Chen Ling sent someone a few days after the birth of the second daughter, and from then on, she did not ask any questions for fifteen years, thinking that it would be "one difference and two wide", and a year later she finally got her wish and gave birth to a third son, her son Chen Yang.
Being carried out to give away is undoubtedly lucky, and the adoptive father and adoptive mother who were carried to the Zhang family regarded it as their own, and named the daughter who was hugged zhang Lina.
The adoptive father and adoptive mother looked at Zhang Lina's good villagers in the eyes, and Zhang Lina did not know her own origins, so in the following ten years, she lived a carefree life and grew up, and when Chen Ling found her, she was also a child who was about to graduate from junior high school.
Tomorrow and accidents really don't know which one comes first, this sentence is the most appropriate to put on Chen Ling. Chen Yang, the son of Chen Ling, who was regarded as a treasure, suffered from a strange disease, leukemia.
After the doctor's diagnosis, the best way is to perform a bone marrow transplant, but the family is not matched after matching, and Chen Ling fell into despair at this time.
Chen Ling, who felt desperate, suddenly thought of the second daughter who was hugged out at this time, and pinned all her hopes on the second daughter, hoping to find the second daughter who was taken out and let her donate bone marrow.
After many inquiries, Chen Ling inquired about the current address of the second daughter, and after inquiring from many parties, she took the liberty of finding Zhang Lina's adoptive father, Zhang Jianhong, and said the purpose of the trip.
When Zhang Lina's adoptive father Zhang Jianhong learned the purpose of her trip from Chen Ling, who came to the door, he categorically refused Chen Ling's request, which is difficult to understand, after all, he did not remarry after divorce for various reasons, and he raised Zhang Lina bitterly and regarded her as a heart and liver baby, even if he was bitter and tired, he never treated Zhang Lina badly.
Moreover, as a concern for Zhang Lina, who is not yet eighteen years old, he also has parental concerns, and it is understandable that he is afraid of the impact on the body of Zhang Lina, who is not yet an adult after donating bone marrow.
Therefore, Zhang Jianhong did not hesitate to refuse Chen Ling's request. Chen Ling, who was rejected for the first time, was not dead hearted, and did not hesitate to hurt the woman who did not ask questions for more than ten years for her son, and since then she has come to the door several times to entangle and speak ill of Zhang Jianhong.
He did not think about whether his behavior was appropriate, nor did he actively negotiate with Zhang Jianhong, acted according to his own wishes, and repeatedly quarreled with Zhang Jianhong, which seriously affected Zhang Jianhong's life, and also threatened Zhang Jianhong to tell Zhang Lina's origins and threatened to personally go to his daughter's school to find Zhang Lina.
Later, the boiling of the matter alarmed the reporter, in the reporter's interview, the affected Zhang Jianhong expressed his concerns, also gave his own suggestions, and said his own ideas, and promised to do work for his daughter Zhang Lina.
Chen Ling, who was anxious, took extreme behavior, not only many times but Zhang Lina school to block Zhang Lina, but also took someone to drive to the school to block the child, snatch the child, wanted to forcibly take Zhang Lina to the hospital to let her donate bone marrow, this extreme behavior frightened Zhang Lina, fortunately was found by the villagers in time to stop it.
Frightened, Zhang Lina hated Chen Ling even more, and Chen Ling, who could not succeed in one plan and had two plans, did not think about the consequences, spread zhang Lina in the school that she could not save herself when she saw death, and morally kidnapped Zhang Lina, and still posted false advertisements everywhere to slander Zhang Lina and Zhang Jianhong! On the leaflets posted, Zhang Lina was sexually kidnapped, never thinking about what he had done!
Chen Ling disregarded the wishes of others, only cared about her own ideas, acted according to her own wishes, seriously damaged the family affection that could have been changed into a suitable method, and caused a reputational impact on Zhang Lina and Zhang Jianhong, Zhang Lina's pressure in school doubled, Zhang Lina, whose heart was hurt, became less reticent, and Chen Ling's actions made Zhang Lina even more reluctant to recognize each other.
The local villagers also did not approve of Chen Ling's behavior, because they understood chen ling's behavior more clearly, and they also held a disapproval attitude toward Chen Ling's approach, believing that Chen Ling's forced practice violated the style of a mother, was extremely irresponsible to Zhang Lina, and did not say that she should be a mother, but was biased and too unkind. This matter also caused a deadlock between mother and child due to Chen Ling's behavior, Zhang Jianhong confessed that she obeyed the wishes of her daughter Zhang Lina, as for how Zhang Lina later decided that he respected her daughter's wishes and did not interfere.
Chen Yang, the sick child in this matter, is innocent and pitiful, and as a mother, Chen Ling is also unfortunate, but she took her daughter who was waiting to be fed out in order to give birth to a son and never paid any attention to it, and when she needed it, she was arrogant and unreasonable, especially the strong and disregard for her daughter's behavior was disgusting, and the harm caused to her daughter was also irreparable! It is said that donation should be voluntary, Chen Ling's attitude towards her daughter is undoubtedly to expose the scars that her daughter did not know in a happy life, and Xitu used this to save her beloved son, which is tantamount to killing a family to save a family, but in the end not only did not fail to achieve, but could have been handled through friendly consultation, after she did so, the daughter of the trouble was even more resentful of her son may also be difficult to protect!