Farmer, this identity once made Guo Xiaodong unable to lift his head, always feel inferior.
All along, Guo Xiaodong has lived carefully, trying to do his own things in a low-key manner, not arguing, not making noise.
Guo Xiaodong brought his mother and wife to the show, and he was also worried that his mother would not express the joke in front of the camera.
In fact, I want to say, Guo Xiaodong, you are worried.
Your mother is a particularly simple old man.
Come and see the daily life of Cheng Lisha and her mother-in-law.
Guo Xiaodong's mother is an authentic northern woman who has been working for the family all her life, taking her husband and son as the sky.
Guo's mother raised two very good sons, and Guo Xiaodong's brother is also a low-key actor.
Guo Xiaodong took his wife Cheng Lisha back to his hometown, and the peanut fields and winding dirt roads in the countryside were marked by Guo Xiaodong's childhood. He has too many feelings for Linyi.
Don't look at Guo Xiaodong's mother as a rural person, but she is an elder with great wisdom. She would praise her daughter-in-law in front of the neighbors and give her daughter-in-law enough face.
She made dumplings for her daughter-in-law to eat, and also specially made the taste that her daughter-in-law loved to eat, all according to her daughter-in-law's preferences. For the travel invitation proposed by her daughter-in-law, she also readily agreed.
The rural mother-in-law has come to the city, how simple is she? She thought that she could not make a phone call to shoot the program, and she deliberately turned off the phone, afraid of affecting everyone's work.
When she arrived at her son's house, she carried a large number of rural souvenirs, including peanuts grown by herself, peanut oil that she grinded herself, mung beans, dried sweet potatoes, etc., all of which came from her mother's love.
Guo's mother rarely comes to her son's home in Beijing, and she does not change her shoes and enters the door directly. Daughter-in-law Cheng Lisha directly took out disposable slippers, which made people feel a little uncomfortable.
Cheng Lisha is usually a woman with high emotional intelligence, how can she take disposable slippers for her mother-in-law to wear? Ten thousand steps back said that I knew in advance that my mother-in-law was coming, and I should buy a new pair of slippers for my mother-in-law to wear.
Older people wearing disposable slippers are also prone to slippage, which Cheng Lisa has not done enough.
The mother-in-law's emotional intelligence is very high, and she said that she wanted to learn how to cook with Cheng Lisha. The way she stood cautiously, there was some humility.
Cheng Lisha gave her mother-in-law a lot of clothes, and her mother-in-law immediately happily hugged Lisa. Please note that there is a detail that Cheng Lisha seems to be a little repellent of her mother-in-law's embrace, and she still uses her hands to separate. Although the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious, there is always a sense of alienation.
Simple and sincere mother-in-law, without any acting component. This is the best evaluation of Guo's mother.
Since marrying Guo Xiaodong, Cheng Lisha has quit the screen and become a full-time mother. I thought she would cook a good dish, but I didn't expect that she wouldn't cook all these years.
The mother-in-law is coming, and she can only harden her scalp. In my own kitchen, I can't even use a rice cooker, and I can't find the seasonings. Cheng Lisha has been favored by Guo Xiaodong as a princess over the years.
After making 3 dishes and a soup, Cheng Lisha not only played with her son, like a princess in front of her son, but also called her husband to be a lover, like a lover in love.
Cheng Lisha has become the happiest appearance in the minds of many married women.
Guo Xiaodong's mother is a rural person who has rarely traveled far away. The first time she recorded a reality show, she was a little nervous and shy in the face of such a big battle.
In the face of her daughter-in-law's hospitality, she ate a few bites of pancakes and was soon full. It wasn't the case, she just didn't dare to eat in front of so many staff in front of the camera.
In addition to not daring to eat, she did not dare to take off her shoes and soak her feet in public, which she thought was embarrassing.
These two details show that Mother Guo is a simple, kind, traditional and conservative elder, and she thinks about people everywhere. Just like when she voted for her 4 daughters-in-law, she didn't vote for her daughter-in-law, she voted for the other daughters-in-law, and she would give everyone a small orange.
Guo's mother has never worked in her life, and in the north, men are responsible for earning money and supporting their families, and women are at home to teach their husbands and children. That means that Guo's mother has never made money in her life, and she has never experienced the fun and value of making money.
Deep down, Guo's mother wanted to work to earn money, and even wanted to be a gatekeeper. Guo Xiaodong was distressed that her mother would not let her go to work, and she would give her mother a lot of money every time, and her mother was always reluctant to spend money. Didn't want to spend my son's hard earned money.
Guo's mother thinks that she is a useless grandmother, and every time she presses the money for her grandson, she is given by her son and daughter-in-law.
This left her feeling bottomless, thinking that she had never made any money.
I never helped my daughter-in-law bring a child for a day, which is the mother-in-law's inner self-blame. She also praised her daughter-in-law for being very good to herself, but in fact, she was the mother-in-law who had the atmosphere and wisdom.
She knew that she and the daughter-in-law in the city did not have the same customs and habits as not to get along for a long time, and she preferred to be in the countryside. Every time there was a conflict between her son and daughter-in-law, she stood in Cheng Lisha's position.
She was a good mother-in-law.
Such a frugal mother-in-law still generously bought a 98 yuan comb for her daughter-in-law. She genuinely loved her daughter-in-law as if she were a daughter.
In the face of her mother-in-law's wishes, Cheng Lisha burst into tears, and she shouted: This time you have a salary. The reason why Cheng Lisha brought her mother-in-law to participate in the show, in addition to letting her mother-in-law experience the fun of making money, she also wanted to be closer to her mother-in-law.
Usually, she has no experience of traveling alone with her mother-in-law, and she will not accompany her mother-in-law to go shopping.
Huang Shengyi washed her mother-in-law's feet, and Cheng Lisha was very touched, which was not something she could do. She also blamed herself for not being good enough for her mother-in-law.
Compared with Huang Shengyi's kindness to her mother-in-law, Cheng Lisha is indeed not good enough for her mother-in-law, and even some are too "done". The mother-in-law has also always tolerated her willfulness and tolerated her little temper.
She would never provoke the relationship between her son and daughter-in-law, but would only spoil and watch her daughter-in-law do it.
Cheng Lisha also learned from Huang Shengyi, and she took the initiative to squat and tie her mother-in-law's shoelaces.
Cheng Lisha also lamented that she could accompany her mother-in-law, and her heart was very happy, and in the process of traveling, the intimacy of her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law deepened. She is also a good daughter-in-law.
A few years later, seeing such an image again, it will be a happy time, which is the original intention of Cheng Lisha to participate in the show. She is doing filial piety for her husband, which is also the way she loves her husband.
Cheng Lisha is also progressing and growing, seeing that her mother-in-law is unnatural in front of the camera, she did not force her mother-in-law for the sake of face, but chose to respect her mother-in-law.
She would ask for Western food, because her mother-in-law had never eaten Western food in all these years.
This is another kind of love she has for her mother-in-law.
There is no compromise to seek perfection, and there is no reluctance, everything is at will.
Marriage can also be done on its own, you eat your scallion pancakes, I eat my ribs lotus soup hot dried noodles.
It's not that I don't love your Linyi, but I also love my Wuchang fish.
This is Cheng Lisha's voice.
In marriage, you can sing along with your husband and wife, and if you love you, you will love the land under your feet and your family.