Author: The Healing Girl
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The relationship between Duohe, Xiaohuan, and Zhang Jian eventually developed into a triangular relationship.
Living under the same roof, the inextricable connection between three people makes everyone miserable.
Duo He and Zhang Jian are in love, the two have three children, Zhang Jian has gratitude and infatuation with her, and Duo He also has inexplicable feelings for Zhang Jian.
Xiaohuan is Zhang Jian's righteous wife, she loves Zhang Jian deeply, but she has to tolerate the same bed and dreams with Zhang Jian.
At the same time, Xiaohuan's feelings towards Tatsuru are also complicated, and while he is distressed by her, he is jealous of her.
A good family, because of such a triangular relationship, often makes chickens fly and dogs jump. The biggest problem in such a scene is not on Duo He and Xiao Huan, but on Zhang Jian.
Zhang Jian seems to be serious about righteousness and steadfast in his duties, but in fact, he is the least worth relying on. At the beginning, he was really good to Xiaohuan, the two knew and loved each other, and Zhang Jian's thoughts were on Xiaohuan.
Including after Xiaohuan lost her fertility, the Parents of the Zhang family complained about Xiaohuan, and Zhang Jian also sided with Xiaohuan. Later, Xiaohuan promised Duohe to give birth to the Zhang family, also because he believed in Zhang Jian's love for himself.
At that time, Zhang Jian was reluctant to have a child with Duohe, and only agreed under the compulsion of Xiaohuan and his parents. I can understand Zhang Jian's inner struggle, after all, he loves Xiaohuan, and he can't bear to let her be wronged.
After having children, Zhang Jian and Xiaohuan's relationship was also very good, and they thought that their family was complete. Indeed, if Zhang Jian had been consistent with Xiaohuan and kept his distance from Duohe, their family of six would have been happy.
But slowly, Zhang Jian changed.
He looked at Xiao Huan's eyes and there was no longer any light, and he loved Tatsuru with all his heart.
Even under Xiao Huan's eyes, he couldn't suppress his love.
02
What I can't understand the most is that Zhang Jianming knows that Xiaohuan is not easy, but he and Duohe talk about love. That year, Tatsuru was arranged to transport the materials for raising pigs, and the materials were very heavy, and Tatsuru was unable to do so.
Zhang Jian helped her again and again. As a family member, help is a must, but how could he have ever helped Xiao Huan?
Although Xiaohuan did not go out to work, he was responsible for the food, clothing, shelter and transportation of a family of six, and the degree of hard work could be imagined.
But Zhang Jian always returned home, but sat at the dinner table, and he had said a word of self-respect to Xiao Huan.
After Xiaohuan knew that Zhang Jian and Duo He's cat was tired, she cried and made trouble, and her vicissitudes face was full of exhaustion and despair.
However, Zhang Jian did not realize his mistake at all, but instead complained about Xiao Huan's unreasonable teasing.
Zhang Jian was not responsible, even if he looked at his wife sad like that, he did not dare to admit his behavior, let alone open his heart and Xiao Huan said only a few words.
In fact, everyone knows everything, only Xiaohuan is looking for the happiness of being lost, and Zhang Jian is always silent, as if he is the victim.
Zhang Jian is not sincere enough with Xiaohuan, and on the other hand, he puts Duohe in trouble. At the end of the day, his love is too selfish.
Duo He was in their home, already trembling, Zhang Jian also knew that Xiao Huan cared about their relationship, but Zhang Jian released love to Duo He again and again, resulting in Xiao Huan's misunderstanding getting deeper and deeper, and also making Duo He unable to stay in their home.
Zhang Jian's love is restrained, but it forces Duohe to a dead end, and also catches all of Xiaohuan's fantasies about happiness.
03
Zhang Jian looks honest, but there is also a dark side. At that time, he had not yet had a son with Tatsuru, and in the face of pressure from Xiaohuan and his mother, he actually threw Tatsuru away, just like throwing an object.
Zhang Jian is too terrible, much better Crane also gave birth to a child for himself, even if you hate it, you can't let others have no way to live. Fortunately, many cranes have a big life and pick up a life in a difficult environment.
Zhang Jian's dark side is also reflected in eating in the bowl and looking at the pot.
Xiaohuan was his wife, but later on she was more like his mother. Xiao Huan runs the family, so that Zhang Jian has no worries, but Zhang Jian takes all this for granted and complains about Xiao Huan's bad temper.
He forgot all the beauty of the past, and he coveted the gentleness and beauty of Tatsuru's body.
I have to say that Zhang Jian is too greedy, wants children, wants a partner like an old mother, and a lover like Duohe, even if he sees the pain of two women, he has not made the responsibility that a man should have.
Zhang Jian is cowardly, he is like an ostrich, burying his head in the sand and turning a deaf ear.
In fact, their family should have another situation, Zhang Jian restrained his words and deeds, and Xiao Huan had the same heart to pull the eldest three children, which could be good for Duohe, but absolutely could not have the love of men and women, this is to protect Duohe, but also to protect their family.
Of course, if Zhang Jian is embarrassed by himself, he can also make it clear to XiaoHuan and let her find her own happiness and form a family with Duohe.
And Zhang Jian's approach is the most infuriating, he drags two women, so that they do not get the happiness they want.
04
Tatsuru finally decides to marry Koishi and can't wait to leave the family.
Unexpectedly, after 10 years, Zhang Jian still did not forget Duohe. He grabbed Tatsuru's hand, talking about thoughts and reluctance, he was in tears, he was deeply affectionate.
However, I was not at all moved. On the other side, Xiaohuan is still running for his son's affairs, but Zhang Jian is acting out his deep feelings like a person who has nothing to do, and I really feel that Xiaohuan is not worth it.
At the same time, I also felt worthless for Duohe, for a man like Zhang Jian, who suffered in the Zhang family for more than twenty years.
Later, Tatsuru finally met such a good man as Xiaoshi, and she saw the dawn in the second half of her life, but Zhang Jian disagreed, and tried to keep Tatsuru at home, saying that as long as Tatsuru was at home, his heart would fall.
Zhang Jian is too selfish, Duohe has given all the light and heat to the Zhang family, he still wants to keep Duohe, is it hoping that she will continue to live such a life for the rest of her life?
In the final analysis, Zhang Jian's love is not love, just a kind of possession. Compared with XiaoShi's love for Tatsuru, Zhang Jian's selfishness is more obvious. In fact, true love has nothing to do with possession, but your happiness is my happiness.
Xiao Huan's love for Zhang Jian is like this, because of love, tolerate that he has many cranes living in his heart, and still plays his role well, just to complete this man.
Xiaohuan and Duohe are both very good women, and it is time to meet a better man, rather than pay for Zhang Jian's cowardice and incompetence. In marriage, good men are too important.
Although a man's character is important, his commitment to things is more important.
If a man can't bear the storm of life and creates bloody storms for you, then he himself is not worth marrying.
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