#Fukuhara Aijiang Hongjie officially divorced#
The marriage proposition has always been new, but with the changes in the world and environment, it has become more and more magnificent, like a drop of water sinking on the bottom of the sea, floating up and climbing high, desperately grasping the hope of getting ashore as soon as possible. But we always want to grasp, but we can't grasp it firmly, so that with all our strength, we can only act alone, as if we have lost something and gained something, so that our lonely figure continues to stretch.
According to Taiwan media, Jiang Hongjie filed a lawsuit with the court in April to divorce Fukuhara Ai, and today Jiang Hongjie's Huayan International issued a statement saying that Fukuhara Ai Jiang Hongjie has ended their marriage relationship and will still jointly supervise the two children.
Love needs to have a feeling of weakness, a requirement to be considerate and loving, a passion to help others and please others—if not selfless, at least cleverly concealed selfishness; love contains a certain degree of shyness and cowardice—Maugham. We can distinguish what we can change and what we can't change, only in this way can we not be angry about what we can't do, since we can't change, how we inferior or blame no one is useless, all we can do is accept him. As Reinhold Nieb's famous prayer goes:
My God Please give me a heart that I cannot change; Please give me the courage to change what I can change; Please give me the wisdom to be able to discern the difference between the two.
From Ai Fukuhara and Jiang Hongjie, we can see the essence of modern atmosphere marriage. From this, we can realize that the marriage relationship must keep its own bottom line, both men and women must be responsible for the marriage of fidelity, otherwise once the moral bottom line is taken, then we will step on the thunder and let the marriage fall apart.
The demand for life may be a lot of desires, but we graft all this desire onto each other's individuals, which is unavoidable, why is there such an extreme dependence on psychological independence is very poor? Obviously in some women.
Maybe Fukuhara loves a lack of love or needs her husband Jiang Hongjie to be able to think about himself everywhere, and even when giving birth to children, he also hopes that the other party is more self-centered, but Jiang Hongjie must have his own needs, and he also needs the respect of the other party, although there are two children and wives complain about it, but they are too demanding to accompany them.
True love requires not only love, but also mutual insight into each other's inner world – Sukhomlinsky. From this point, we can see that we women as wives should bear social responsibilities, family obligations.
1, the sense of mutual trust that is distinguished should be established and cultivated in a timely manner, if you feel that there is indeed a problem between the two sides, calm down to cool down for a period of time and then review, talk deeply, and then decide where to go on both sides.
2, respect each other's family and career, everyone grows the original family education system and the birth has no change, since marrying into other households to tolerate and generous each other's shortcomings, as long as it is not a matter of principle, we can forgive and match it and ti lotus.
3, friendly improvement of family marriage relationship is not to say that there is much wrong with transnational marriage, in fact, there are cultural differences in cognition and some habitual drawbacks of the original family. We can adopt the necessary relationship of honor and disgrace, but unilateral adoption is not allowed, and only when both sides adopt tolerance can we get along better.
Since being a celebrity has the trouble of being a celebrity, let our ordinary family also have more troubles, but everyone is born in a different age, representing a different pressure of the times, and this pressure is exactly the relationship that we lack and cannot be solved forever.
4, the emergence of family when there is a novel planning momentum, we enhance the social pressure and living environment resistance insight, we can not just do the horse cannon, we also want to do the flag can stabilize the rear of the home after the double strength, and in this regard the two people are growth factors, each other to promote their own growth, let time test.
5, experience different romantic feelings, from time to time to give manual creation, life needs surprises, need to be with everyone. A bouquet of Gesang flowers in the field also captured people's hearts.
Many people's marriages are not happy, some are predestined, and more are "made" by themselves. He will not hesitate to bless himself and squander it recklessly, and no matter how great the blessing is, he cannot withstand the toss.
There is a fixed number of blessings, and the same is true of the blessings of feelings, and one point is less than one point when it is used. Premarital indulgence consumes a lot of blessings in marriage, and it is possible that you will not get a good couple, and even if you get a good couple, you will not get along well. Of course, I have also seen that after indulgence, I have obtained a good couple, which is the blessing of each person. The rich can throw thousands of dollars without hurting their roots, and the poor person, lacking a few hundred yuan, will kill him.
Cherish marriage, cherish the person in front of you, let yourself make up for the defects to improve the relationship between husband and wife, and ally on the front of mutual help and joint promotion.
The divorce rate in the entertainment industry has always been the highest. Coincidentally, take the recent stars Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng, whose divorce is related to gambling, or busy work, or the original family growth background to adapt to the environment.
Of course, there is also a busy work pressure, personality reasons have a sense of responsibility for the family and sophistication, different views and different understanding of future planning, etc., resulting in the tension between the two people disintegrating.
The divorce rate of the entertainment industry is not only this, its contact range is wide, which has caused the beginning of the stage of high divorce rate, the article and Ma Yili, as well as Gao Yuanyuan and several other stars in love, the first love is also falling apart. Mei Ting is also married for a few years and the divorce ends, we know a man, only after a few years of life, there will be a lot of unacceptable facts about him.
Emotional things are more likely to make women wake up and be hurt, Li Xiaoran domestic violence and cold violence also exist, until finally find Ruyi Liangjun, in order to enjoy the sweetness of the couple.
The stories that occur the most in the entertainment industry, in our reality, the divorce of men and women, are also constantly increasing, they have more doubts about marriage, do not know each other, or understand the part, with the drift of time and the formation of unstable relationships, resulting from more non-family panic and distrust.
The reason why there are such and such concerns stems from the fact that they cannot take the initiative properly. This initiative is also a measure of career struggle and family income, as well as the determinants of desire. Now most of the time is more tense, the space is narrowed and the scope of friendship is wide, and more opportunities are created between men and women, coupled with greedy and selfish behavior, willing to kidnap marital feelings, so that marriage is covered with sand.
There are many who have replaced their original wives and children after middle age, and found the third person again, the marriage is not necessarily how happy, and even regret it, his feelings are only long corridor dust waiting to ease his life landscape, such a life is actually scarred, increasing day by day, some people although they did not mention divorce, in fact, they have reached the brink of disintegration. Affection is a burden I can't bear, and love words are only occasional lies that are honored - Zhang Xiaoxian
1, we have to give each other a sense of stability. Give comfort to each other at the right time, in the need to solve the problem to solve as much as possible, it is really not OK, we can find out the crux of the problem to be referenced.
2, we must give each other enough confidence, hope to be able to create a better life in the world of two people, even after starting a family with children, we must also have enough confidence and preparation, in the same boat instead of seeing the rainbow.
3, respect each other's family, let yourself and the other party's family concept basically integrate into one, rather than being at one end of the unfounded concern and doubt, this is to cure the family bad factors caused by the cultivation of farmland. Over time, it will become more troublesome and tangled.
4, learn not to limit your thinking to the scope of a small family, have more time to learn cognitive ability, master the knowledge of life, at least on the road of life will not be confused, or even deviate from the right path, nor will you listen to the side door, so that your life does not have to be troubled and dusty
5, cut off unnecessary social relationships, only choose the right, do not choose the wrong, only choose the gold, do not waste any sesame point time. Put limited energy into the most important things, care for the husband to care for the gift greeting, let the other party perceive your existence, but also feel the care and warmth for him, so that whether the two worlds can go on for a long time plays a key role in determining.
Marriage is the cornerstone of society, and not everyone has the life of a monk, or a monk. Most people still return to normal married life. Talking about marriage is also a very sacred thing. If you want to find a satisfactory life partner, a langjun and a wife, you need to constantly cultivate the blessings in the marriage, and when the blessings go up, you will naturally be inspired to marry you.
Please do not raise the bar, "plant melons to get melons, plant beans to get beans" (what to plant), cause and effect is the eternal law of nature, the blessings between people, chances, etc. are different, there is no comparison, the mechanism of cause and effect is complex and profound, just the accumulation of quantity, chance and time, I hope that everyone can truly and cleanly walk their own life path.
There is no right or wrong in the world, only differences.
In fact, there are differences between each person, because of the difference, there is an attraction, the same between two people, similarity is important, complementarity is also an important subject, can be different from each other as an obstacle, can also be used as a ladder to make the emotions more intimate, each point of difference can become a point of mutual appreciation, can also be by this difference, so that two people can contact the larger world, a more open world, mutual cognition, into each other's world, so that two people will not get along monotonously.
Actor Liu Ye's wife is French, when they first gave birth to their little princess, his mother-in-law and his wife rushed to the hospital in time, only brought a high-speed camera, and continuously took several wonderful photos of the newborn baby to comfort them. In our country, you may need the mother-in-law to take a good red envelope, or even cook a good soup to personally comfort her daughter, perhaps observing and observing the little baby every day to cultivate the mood.
In fact, Liu Ye understands very well, and can also understand the difference between Chinese and Western cultures, China must be traditional Chinese culture, France also has a long French culture; understand the sophistication of people, cold and warm are different. There is a qualitative difference between the Chinese and Western cultures embodied here, and it is reflected in daily life and is not only this.
We have a lot of couples in love, or after marriage, who can't afford time, or even conceptual differences. The love that is pursued is beautiful, but the love that is not pursued is even better - Shakespeare
1, the time difference, you have to have enough courage to bear the time that is lonely and boring, the time to ask for warmth, even the time to hold your head in pain and loneliness, the girlfriend falls down but you can't lift her, the free time wants to go out to watch the movie but you can't appear, and so on, many things, sometimes people are quite helpless.
You have to be able to withstand the jet lag on both sides, which may bring great impact, and the sorrow and loss in your heart are increasing day by day.
2, human feelings are cold and warm, your experience in the country is a warm greeting between people, anyone can always contact, even all the objects of complaint, some people listen to your voice, you can also complain to your relatives to put forward what you need to ask.
But once you talk about the object of another country, all these relatives and friends may not be around you, and the friends around you may only meet and talk occasionally, but it is difficult to express your inner thoughts.
3, the responsibility of raising children, not only the education level of raising children is different, maybe you think you are doing it right, but in the mother-in-law's family does not necessarily think that you are doing it right, the differences between Chinese and Western cultures are different to understand the differences in order to educate the next generation, but the methods are different. This is a sufficient preparation and reason for you to make a preventive injection in advance in order to be more integrated into each other's family life. Although Western families are relatively independent, parents and children are always in a state of equality, there are still some differences in our transnational marriages in terms of the concept of national system aggregation time.
4, the growth stage of exotic love, exotic love really makes both sides grow more mature and considerate, learn to endure and learn to understand, those who are looking forward to the time of reunion in their hearts accumulate thoughts, the catharsis at the moment of meeting, people who have not experienced it really can't understand, if they can finally cultivate positive results, even foreign love has survived, what else can make you separate?
5. The issue of mutual loyalty responsibility. For couples in long-distance relationships, being in a different place, the feeling of wanting to see but not being able to see them is really torturous!
Recently, the photos of a couple of exotic couples on IG have exploded, one of them in New York, one in Seoul, taking photos of their daily lives and putting them together into a complete picture, as if we have been together all along. Use the Internet to fantasize about one day. Shopping has a day to eat together, different times, but have the same blue sky, the same piece of life. With a blue sky and so on, they fantasize about becoming one person. In fact, which one is not far these days. All this became the boy's name Isok Li, life department Seoul; the girl's name Danbi Shin, living in New York; they have a distance of 11043.91 kilometers between them, and there is a 14-hour time difference!
They have a common instagram (ID: shinliart): although the photos are not much, they have attracted the attention of 17k people.
In fact, the biggest problem of long-distance love is the sense of existence, distance makes us lose confidence in each other, suspect each other, and finally break up.
Seok and Danbi use a way of emotion to make everyone feel each other's presence, and then feel safe! Long-distance lovers, you can try it!
In addition to people's lamentation, in fact, transnational marriage is also time to prove that each other's space is independent, can keep their hearts, can be consumed, and can exercise each other's tenacity. If this space is used to grow and progress with each other, then everything will witness how precious each other's emotions are, and how much a lifetime can be sought, this is the cognitive realm that we discuss together in the marriage relationship of love life, as long as the realm is reached, then the distance between the two people from the culture is not a problem.
Every girl was once a tearless angel, when she met the boy she loved deeply, she had love, the angel had love, fell to the earth, so every boy should not abandon her - Zeng Wei. On this issue, as long as you rely on each other and trust each other, nationality will not have any impact.
Again, everyone's marriage is different, other people's marriages are happy and other people's, in addition to bringing you some psychological relief and no other egg use, after all, people-to-people mode of getting along can not be copied, because everyone is different. So all you have to do is be firm with yourself.
In the end, only if you love each other, trust each other, tolerate and care for each other, then you will clearly understand in your heart whether this relationship can develop into a marriage, and you will also analyze the pros and cons yourself. The days are always on your own, and no one can make decisions for you.
Remember, your love is your master.
The temptations of the outside world are great, but they will never be as good as the one who is waiting for you at home.
May there be love in the world, may there be lovers and eventually become dependents!