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Some people say that "killing" is the most cruel way to destroy a person.
What is "killing"? It is to pamper a person endlessly, to hold her high, all the way to the position of moral unworthiness, this person will be arrogant and frivolous, self-righteous, and then this person will make even greater mistakes because of arrogance.
It is true that no one can resist the sugar-coated shells day after day, and who does not like to be praised? So, when the rumors are smooth enough and beautiful enough, who cares about those contrarian advices?
In the TV series "Ruyi Zhuan", the Qianlong Emperor played by Huo Jianhua is called "the emperor of the killing", because he has used the trick of "killing" for many women.
For example, Ah Zhen, who betrayed and framed Ruyi, and Bai Ruiji, who was arranged to be by his side as a pawn of the empress. He used the same methods against the two women, making their fate and ending miserable.
Yeah, the person who spoils you really doesn't necessarily love you, maybe he just wants to hurt you.
Ah Zhen is Ruyi's dowry maid, who should have been the person she can trust the most, but this woman is proud and arrogant, and always feels that she is beautiful and noble, which is different from other palace women. As a result, they often speak out in a bad way and cause trouble.
Ruyi is a kind-hearted woman, and she has more connivance for Ah Zhen than others, but she did not expect that with the gradual rise of Ruyi's status, Ah Zhen will become more arrogant.
If it is only so, in fact, there is nothing, after all, there is a powerful palace girl next to the pet concubine, it is not a new thing, but Ah Zhen is not a peaceful person, after being praised by the emperor, he floated to the point that he thought he could attract the emperor, so he dressed up more gorgeously.
Such an out-of-the-ordinary behavior finally made Ruyi unbearable, in fact, Ruyi just wanted her to be a little self-aware, not to follow in her own footsteps in the future, and to find a beloved person to live a plain but happy life.
But who would have thought that after reprimanding her for a few words, she would actually break away from Ruyi because of this. Especially after she was punished by the noble concubine to kneel in the rain for six hours, Ruyi did not intercede for her long memory, and just happened to be saved by Jia Concubine, who was pregnant with a ghost fetus, she completely hated Ruyi.
A person without self-knowledge will never know who is really good for her and who wants to hurt her. In this way, the empress and Concubine Jia used Ah Zhen to frame Ruyi.
First, after Yi Guiren became pregnant, she suddenly encountered a poisonous snake, and Ah Zhen led Ruyi to rescue her. Later, Ruyi had to take care of the Yi guiren's fetus, and Ah Zhen was Ruyi's person, so he moved his hands and feet in the charcoal fire of the Yigui, resulting in the stillbirth of the Yigui.
They found human and physical evidence, and naturally pushed everything on Ruyi, facing the children of Yi Gui and Mei Gui being persecuted by the same means, such as Yi Yi was unable to defend himself.
The emperor knew that this could not be Ruyi's doing, but he could not prove it, so he had to watch Ruyi being framed by everyone, and then temporarily send her to the cold palace to avoid these rights and wrongs.
Ruyi didn't argue, she just looked at Ah Zhen in disbelief, she couldn't believe that this girl who hurt her as a sister could betray herself.
Ruyi's departure and Ah Zhen's "favor" were almost simultaneous, and many people thought that the emperor completely disgusted Ruyi, but they did not know that this was a fierce move of the emperor.
He just wanted to use Ah Zhen to make everyone feel that their relationship with Ruyi was completely broken, so that Ruyi could temporarily avoid the center of this non-whirlpool.
At the same time, he also understood another truth, that is, the more he loved a woman, the more he actually harmed her, and since this was the case, he fiercely "pampered" Ah Zhen and let her kill herself.
In the process of rectifying Ah Zhen, the emperor used three fierce moves.
The first trick is to spoil Ah Zhen. After Ruyi entered the Cold Palace, he immediately sealed Ah Zhen as a prudent nobleman, so that the purpose was to lock Ah Zhen by his side. If you become the emperor's woman, you can only stay in the palace for the rest of your life, in the words of the emperor, "born is a person of the Forbidden City, and death is a ghost of the Forbidden City", and you can never run out of the palm of your hand.
The second trick is to often let Ah Zhen sleep, always sealing her for no reason, creating the illusion that he loves Ah Zhen very much, so that the empress and noble concubines are jealous of her, and they are eager to get rid of her quickly. Sure enough, Ah Zhen was soon regarded by several concubines as a fierce tiger beast, and Ah Zhen was also a brainless woman, and even thought that the emperor really loved himself, so he spoke ill of Jia Fei and others, and was disliked by more people.
The third trick is to keep letting her sleep, but never let her touch herself, but let her kneel in front of the dragon bed every night and think about what mistakes she has made. Such a punishment not only the knees could not stand it, but the feeling of being slighted almost made Ah Zhen collapse, and over time, Ah Zhen's temperament was tortured more and more crazy, and it was easy to expose the horse's feet.
Looking at what the emperor did to Ah Zhen, you can know how much he hates this woman, and you can know how much he loves Ruyi. Therefore, sometimes a person spoils you to the point of not being able to do it, not necessarily really loving you, but maybe just wanting to kill you.
Ah Zhen's final ending is very tragic, and everything is her fault. A woman should not be too ambitious, but also self-aware, when your ability can not support your ambition, you should be down-to-earth. Blind vanity can only make you go further down the wrong path. The higher you climb, the harder you fall.
Before becoming a concubine, Bai Ruiji was a pipa trick in Nanfu Province, a humble origin, coveting glory, treating wealth as fate, and using her beauty to deliberately play the wrong note when playing for the emperor, in order to attract the attention of the emperor.
After that, she was favored by Qianlong and was honored as a promise, and was the first concubine to be included in the harem after Qianlong ascended the throne. This woman is self-confident, sharp-toothed, arrogant, pampered and arrogant, and simply put, the kind of character that the audience often says can't live more than two episodes.
However, Mei Guiren did not quickly go offline as everyone hoped, because she was the empress dowager's person, simply put, a chess piece that was used by the empress dowager to disturb the harem.
The first time he greeted the empress, he did not take a concubine in his eyes. Because he bumped into the noble concubine, he was slapped by the noble concubine, and then he used bai yudan to cause the wound to be unable to recover, so as to frame Ruyi.
Bai Ruiji, who was favored by the emperor, was extremely arrogant in the harem, and after learning that she was pregnant with the emperor's heir, she was particularly inflated and stubborn, and she rushed into Hui Guifei, opening her mouth and closing her mouth to give birth to the first son after the emperor ascended the throne, so that she, in the harem, was the land of right and wrong, and naturally became the target of everyone.
For the sake of her child's health, the doctor always told Bai Ruiji to eat more fish, shrimp and shellfish, and she gladly accepted that every food must have this thing.
But what Bai Ruiji did not know was that the seafood had long been poisoned by the trace amount of mercury under the noble concubine, and as a result, the fetus was born weak and in the shape of a ghost fetus, and the deformed fetus was sealed in a coffin and incinerated at birth, and Bai Ruiji was also grounded in the Yuhua Pavilion.
In the end, Bai Ruiji was given death, with only a white cloth covering her body.
Before dying, after Bai Ruiji gave birth to a stillborn child, the emperor not only did not have half a word of comfort, but imprisoned himself, but she did not know that the emperor had never liked her, but just used it.
Bai Ruiji said that she was just a pawn, and in this life, she was not by herself.
Seriously, what Bai Ruiji said, the women in the harem did not help themselves all their lives, I agree with it, after all, in that era, in that position, all women were trying their best to win the favor of the emperor, and some women did many bad things in order to keep their positions.
However, from the very beginning, Bai Ruiji was not successful enough to fail, stupid and abnormal, she never knew how to analyze her situation and the things she encountered, so she was frequently used and maimed.
After Ruyi was framed by Ah Zhen as the murderer of Prince Bai Ruiji, Bai Ruiji whipped Ruyi, and when she tracked down the murderer, she was seduced by Jin Yuyan, believing that Empress Fucha was the real murderer. After that, Bai Ruiji conspired with Jin Yuyan to first eliminate the Seven Brothers Yong chun, and then killed Empress Fucha during the southern tour.
She was successively used by the empress dowager, Jin Yuyan, and later became a pawn of the emperor, such a woman like a "wall head grass", is not brainless and what is it?
There is no good in this world for no reason, there is no unprovoked hate, all things, as long as it happens, there will be a reason, when a person likes you, you should ask yourself "why", when a person hates you, you should also ask yourself "why".
Only by keeping a clear head at all times can you be rational and calm in the face of great joy and sorrow, and only in this way can you really meet the happiness that belongs to you.
The ancients said: "If you take advantage of great profits without virtue and deeds, there will be strange misfortunes; and if you suffer from good deeds and virtues, you will have many blessings." "To put it in layman's terms, it is: there are virtuous and talented people, which are fine products; those who have no virtue and talent are drugs.
The two women, Ah Zhen and Bai Ruiji, were both "killed" by the Qianlong Emperor, but in the final analysis, it was because they had too many problems.
Smart women, never because others like themselves and complacent, but also will not be because of being praised by others to themselves and forget it, they will always ask themselves, in the end, what they should believe, what should not believe, and then use their hearts to distinguish, rational acceptance.
Only a stupid woman will always want to get something that doesn't belong to her, and then worry all the time, because she is afraid of losing and do more harmful things to herself.
Think about it, if a table can only bear 10 pounds of weight, but we have to put 100 pounds on it, then it will definitely tremble, collapse, and even collapse.
In fact, people are the same, Ah Zhen finally exposed his horse's feet under the emotions of the mad demon, and when he talked about the events of that year, bai Ruiji was used by everyone like a mad dog. The biggest mistake they make is to covet what doesn't belong to them, so they become lustful and end up with nothing.
Therefore, you must remember that what belongs to you can make you enjoy it with peace of mind, and what does not belong to you, even if you grab it by various means, you will be worried and afraid of losing it all the time. When your abilities are not enough to control what you have, these are either happiness or disaster for you.
Life is very long, there is no need to panic, go slowly, think carefully, when you are more and more powerful, all the good will come as promised.
There is a sentence in "The Severed Queen": "She was too young to know all the gifts given by fate, and she had already secretly marked the price." ”
In real life, there are many women like Ah Zhen and Bai Ruiji, who always think that the god of fate will favor themselves, but they do not know that nothing in the world happens by chance, everything must have its own reason, and everyone's fate is in their own hands.
To enjoy the blessings, one must first cultivate one's own virtues; only by planting good causes can one attain good results.
Most of us have nothing but blandness in our lives, but what's so bad about that? I think that we must first be a kind person, have a good character and the correct three views, at least this can make us live more calmly in the long life.
Just like Ruyi, although this life is miserable, there is no regret in this life.
I am Xi Yan, columnist, older girl who is not old and not old, likes to write warm words, do emotional programs, has published "The Rest of Your Life, Related to Me", if you have a story, remember to come to me.