Preface
Since ancient times, the Chinese nation has paid attention to "benevolence, righteousness, etiquette, wisdom, and faith", and the benevolent are invincible, and they must have benevolence and righteousness in dealing with the world, otherwise it is difficult to gain a foothold in society. And our lives have no narration, no annotations, and we will not write the word benevolence and righteousness on our faces, based on this, there are also many hypocrites full of benevolence and morality, who open their mouths and close their mouths, pretending to be scholars with poetry and bookish arrogance, and even more deceiving everyone around them, which is really harmful.
But in fact, just pay attention to observation. People who are falsely benevolent and falsely righteous, when they try to know, they often have these four weaknesses, which are very easy to see. Oniguzi once summed up the characteristics of those who are falsely benevolent and falsely righteous: "Those who are restless will have no knowledge of perseverance; those who fear will not have excellent views; those who desire will not have generosity; those who speak too much will have no qualitative heart." Oniguko's words accurately summarize the characteristics of people who pretend to be benevolent, and also reveal their weaknesses.
Impetuous, uncharacteristic, just try it
People who are falsely benevolent and falsely righteous often hold basic books and pretend to be cultural people, flaunting themselves as humble gentlemen, but in fact, they often have no end in their work, and they will show their feet as long as we test them slightly.
Their mentality is extremely impetuous, there is no qualitative in doing anything, often twilight, because of many small things and distracted, in the face of such false benevolence and false righteousness, we only need to give them a chance to be distracted to know.
People with false benevolence and false righteousness are often in a hurry and have a more irritable mood, they are not as mature and stable as most people, but give people a frivolous feeling, and when they encounter the opportunity to overtake in a corner, even if it is absurd, they will plunge into it.
Timid, afraid of hands and feet, can not stand the test
False benevolence and false righteousness often suffer from gain and loss, which also leads to their indecisiveness and doomed to be unable to break out of a big cause, as the saying goes: "If you eat bitterly, you will be a superior person", and where the people of false benevolence and false righteousness have suffered this kind of suffering, they will be discouraged in the face of many arduous tasks and will retreat.
One point of hard work, one point of harvest. How much we pay will be rewarded, and people who are falsely benevolent and falsely righteous are often not cruel enough to themselves, afraid of bloodshed, afraid of sweating, and in the face of difficult and difficult tasks, they are afraid of their hands and feet, and it is difficult to take on great responsibilities.
People who pretend to be benevolent often give others a sense of generosity and benevolence, but in the face of responsibility, they retreat behind and let others take responsibility.
People with false benevolence and false righteousness are often unable to hide this weakness, and according to this weakness, we can identify people with false benevolence and false righteousness, stay away from them as soon as possible, and do not involve entanglement and cooperation of interests.
Miserly, lustful, in front of the small favor will reveal the fox tail
People who are falsely benevolent and falsely righteous, full of great truth, but the desire is very large, the interests are very important, there is no generous and atmospheric ethics, in the face of selfish desires, it is difficult to hide their hearts, often show their miserly side, covetous interests, they will also expose their hypocritical faces in front of small favors.
False benevolence and false righteousness, you will know it when you try it. In our lives and work, we will inevitably encounter many people who pretend to be benevolent, but in the face of interests, their greedy faces will eventually show the fox's tail.
Publicity, rhetoric, and timidity when it comes to practical issues
People who pretend to be benevolent often have to express and disguise themselves through a lot of words, which inevitably makes their personalities more flamboyant, becoming active members of the crowd, often exaggerating and showing off their own talk.
Some people can't help but ask, is it true that the courage to show yourself is to pretend to be benevolent? Of course not, many people in society need more platforms and opportunities to express themselves, but in the face of practical problems, the rhetorical hypocrites and smart and positive people will show a huge gap.
People who pretend to be benevolent and righteous value their own interests more than out of overall considerations, and when faced with practical problems, they show their feet and left and right, after all, the lack of hard power cannot be compensated by three words and two words. Therefore, in the face of a person who pretends to be benevolent, he often gives a practical question to see through his disguise.
Curly endings
Fake real can't be true, real can't be fake. The wine is not afraid of the deep alley, the wolf in sheep's clothing will always have a day of being recognized, do not be afraid of the hypocrites around you who pretend to be benevolent, their disguise is only superficial, the desires and weaknesses in the depths of the heart cannot be hidden, as long as a little temptation, you can see through.
In life, there will always be all kinds of people, but also to encounter all kinds of things, it is very necessary to take precautions, knowing the four weaknesses of people who are falsely benevolent and falsely righteous, they no longer have to fear them.